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By *assie4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

highlands

we know this has been done..but why do some cpls speak to you 4 days (both of us)arrange a meet ..hotel booked they know that then night befor say they not in2 swinging anympre we sorry need to cancel..so all well here we ask if its us?? they say no something happened at last meet hubby wasnt sure anymore..we say no problem .then today low n behold we see they have a meet 2day up which was put up 2hours after cancelling us!!!! why not be bloody honest !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Cassie , we know that feeling too.

Honesty is always best policy, it shows respect and earns respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we know this has been done..but why do some cpls speak to you 4 days (both of us)arrange a meet ..hotel booked they know that then night befor say they not in2 swinging anympre we sorry need to cancel..so all well here we ask if its us?? they say no something happened at last meet hubby wasnt sure anymore..we say no problem .then today low n behold we see they have a meet 2day up which was put up 2hours after cancelling us!!!! why not be bloody honest !!! "

Eejits!

Another name for your blacklist and warn anybody else you come across, about them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So unfortunate Cassie hun, especially when you go to the expense of booking an hotel room. I hope the deposit was refunded else I'd be asking the other couple for payment towards half, seeing as they were the ones who knew they were pulling out only 24 hrs before...and to re-post for a meet 2 hours later???? someones lying and I don't think it's you, an explanation would be nice, a truthful one this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well said Cassie , we know that feeling too.

Honesty is always best policy, it shows respect and earns respect.

"

painfull to admitt but i agree with grids!!

Cant be bothered with the whole playing games and flirting when people have no intention of meeting......big enuff to know eveyones not gonna like us.

Honesty always !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well said Cassie , we know that feeling too.

Honesty is always best policy, it shows respect and earns respect.

painfull to admitt but i agree with grids!!

Cant be bothered with the whole playing games and flirting when people have no intention of meeting......big enuff to know eveyones not gonna like us.

Honesty always !"

I am in agreement with Jo here - cant be doing with timewasters either.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I was the same ... someone was suposed to be meeting me yesterday and didnt confirm then had a meet today on his profile last nite hmmmmmmmmm funny thing is he has in his profile no time watsers pot n kettle springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was the same ... someone was suposed to be meeting me yesterday and didnt confirm then had a meet today on his profile last nite hmmmmmmmmm funny thing is he has in his profile no time watsers pot n kettle springs to mind "

Never had a time waster who put "meet today" up when meant to be meeting us ......but did have one we found IN CHAT laughing and joking about not having anything to do at the EXACT time he was meant to be meeting us ??.......oh and he blocked us without an explanation for the whole sorry episode ..........he ho HIS loss not ours ....lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I totally agree honesty is the best policy.I take my time meeetin peeps but would never not turn up.That is just plain ignorancex

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By *assie4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

highlands

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By *assie4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

highlands

wat i cant understand is you spend days talking n pics r shown,meet arranged,,ask other cpl if they still up 4 meet (after they contact u night b4 meet)n they say yes ..so u say im away to book hotel.this done u tell them u have booked then they say they not coming all within an hour??? thats why put post up..does anyone agree this was timewasting ?? or r we wrong thinking this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wat i cant understand is you spend days talking n pics r shown,meet arranged,,ask other cpl if they still up 4 meet (after they contact u night b4 meet)n they say yes ..so u say im away to book hotel.this done u tell them u have booked then they say they not coming all within an hour??? thats why put post up..does anyone agree this was timewasting ?? or r we wrong thinking this way "

I dont know how you second guess when your dealing with timewasters/reluctant players, certain things i can pass on create the doubts,

1. Lack of enthusiasm.

2.Lack of interest in meet details,(location,time,date).

3.Reluctant to exchange phone numbers.

4.Seriously, be pessimistic, because if you trust all who promise things,this trust in it all being fine will quickly go.

5.

You'll eventually recognise when the interest is 100% mutual.

6. If obviously been "played", clinically "Block", lifes too short and searching for reasons why, is waste of mainly your time,some are simply not swingers some are facebook date addicts who stumble across this swinging option by accident.

T

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

i think it is a couple or single that work for the hotel industry - they get you to book hotels then say they cant make it but its so late that you cant canncel the booking.

but to be real if they had a double booking on a night why not just say that or even better drop the 2nd one and have the 1st that was yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was the same ... someone was suposed to be meeting me yesterday and didnt confirm then had a meet today on his profile last nite hmmmmmmmmm funny thing is he has in his profile no time watsers pot n kettle springs to mind "

Mrs had a guy do exactly the same.

Top of the profile in capitals he has no timewasters then he didn't turn up for the meet after she had gone into Glasgow. Gave us some pish about voicemail messages left. Shame he didn't know we never have voicemail on before he made that excuse up. Tosser!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

name and shame so others get to know , that`s all i say cause like you same thing has happened to us in the past as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was the same ... someone was suposed to be meeting me yesterday and didnt confirm then had a meet today on his profile last nite hmmmmmmmmm funny thing is he has in his profile no time watsers pot n kettle springs to mind "

jac thats happen 2 someone else i know

this week..sad but there lost an time

wasters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cassie hun there lose hun an ur

gain 4 finding out wat they are

realy like hope u got ya deposit bck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Had one last night in chat moaning about having a quiet night in as they had been let down by timewasters when they had in fact been wasting our weekend off which we dont get very many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have all been there with this issue. But of course it very much depends on your definition of a "time waster"

A while back when the site ownership changed, they were piloting a Thumbs Up/Down function and this could be reinstated.

If a couple/person got enough votes one way or the other it would automatically display the icon on their profile, which could only be removed by site management.

Nobody would know how many votes they had received one way or the other and this would help ensure people acted in a respectful and appropriate manner.

Seems to be more a more people are posting profiles, but not prepared to take it any further and this is a problem when the site is basically free to join and use with pretty much full functionality.

PS: Sorry for duplication but there are two message threads running ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there loss cassie at the end of the day we all get them had to call off a meet recently due to ex letting us down so now im a timewaster after giving them 24 hrs notice xxxxxxxxxxxx

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