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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It gets a little disheartening when you start a decent message convo with someone only for it to fizzle out when the difficulties in meeting rear their ugly heads.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Logistical difficulties or they got the fear?

V

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By *othardandfreeMan
over a year ago

dd

Or as often in my case the boak.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In my case, there's often a good connection, but they're not into TV's so no point in pushing anything any further.

Friendship it is lol

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse when you meet think it's been a good social then get a no thanks later in the day

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Worse when you meet think it's been a good social then get a no thanks later in the day"

I was chatting to a guy on here for ages and thought we’d have a connection. Unfortunately when we met there was absolutely no spark. He expected it to lead to something more and he was disappointed when I said it wasn’t going any further.

You can never tell what the other person thinks until you’ve met. It can be awkward to say it during the social meet that there’s no spark.

Learn to respect their decision and move on.

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By *issedthefrogsWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Logistical difficulties or they got the fear?

V"

Maybe a bit of both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Worse when you meet think it's been a good social then get a no thanks later in the day

I was chatting to a guy on here for ages and thought we’d have a connection. Unfortunately when we met there was absolutely no spark. He expected it to lead to something more and he was disappointed when I said it wasn’t going any further.

You can never tell what the other person thinks until you’ve met. It can be awkward to say it during the social meet that there’s no spark.

Learn to respect their decision and move on. "

No, I get that side of it. I mean when they are all hot and horny for you then you're unable to meet either immediately or even the next day, the convo just fizzles out.

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

It's usually logistical issues, mostly kids (mine and/or theirs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a woman on here both regretted not going further chats were awesome but just fizzled out

Shame as she was great to talk to

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Worse when you meet think it's been a good social then get a no thanks later in the day

I was chatting to a guy on here for ages and thought we’d have a connection. Unfortunately when we met there was absolutely no spark. He expected it to lead to something more and he was disappointed when I said it wasn’t going any further.

You can never tell what the other person thinks until you’ve met. It can be awkward to say it during the social meet that there’s no spark.

Learn to respect their decision and move on.

No, I get that side of it. I mean when they are all hot and horny for you then you're unable to meet either immediately or even the next day, the convo just fizzles out. "

Very rarely is anyone able to meet immediately or the next day unless they have posted for a meet. There are real life factors to be taken into account - work , family other engagements . Perhaps they aren’t as interested now as they were at the start. Some people have an online chemistry but face to face not so . Part and parcel of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We connected with a nearby couple on kik recently through fab. Thought they were both perfect and everything was going well early on.

Turns out one of them knew the Mrs socially. Either the social proximity freaked them out or we weren't their cup of tea.

Either way still a crushing blow, as distance always an issue with us

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

I defo prefer to meet early on and save the endless chit chat with someone to meet them and then realise you have no connection when you meet them !

Then other guys you can chat to one night on here and the next day meet up and you totally click and want to take things a lot further

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