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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Not really sure how to word this without coming across like an asshole but will try as we really need advice.

For a long long time we have been planning to visit the club. It’s both our fantasy to have a proper gang bang session for Helen with a lot of guys. We have tried to arrange private but just doesn’t work. We have been told these are probably best and we’ve even chatted on forums about going etc. trouble is we always wimp out beforehand.

This is where the problem comes as we are not mega social on the scene and we aren’t really into sitting chatting or getting to know people or even making friends. We always feel when reading the forums a lot of people use the clubs as a more social event with fun on top and we are very wary about the etiquette side. Sorry if this isn’t really making sense just we would probably rather just going for it with little or no small talk sort of thing but we are very nervous about looking out of place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly you haven’t come across like arseholes at all, everyone approaches the scene in the manner that best suits their needs. Also, don’t worry about the nerves, everyone gets them.

Finally, stop overthinking things or il poke you both in the eye. Get both your backsides over to a social event or to cj’s (I have not been so I can’t comment on the club) where you absolutely will not look or feel out of place.

The atmosphere other fab members create at these events is super friendly and will 100% put you both at ease. Maybe drop in for an hour or two and leave, then the next time should you want to take things to the sexual side, you will already know what to expect (btw I’m also shit at social events but I always have a great time).

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By *icouple666Couple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Not really sure how to word this without coming across like an asshole but will try as we really need advice.

For a long long time we have been planning to visit the club. It’s both our fantasy to have a proper gang bang session for Helen with a lot of guys. We have tried to arrange private but just doesn’t work. We have been told these are probably best and we’ve even chatted on forums about going etc. trouble is we always wimp out beforehand.

This is where the problem comes as we are not mega social on the scene and we aren’t really into sitting chatting or getting to know people or even making friends. We always feel when reading the forums a lot of people use the clubs as a more social event with fun on top and we are very wary about the etiquette side. Sorry if this isn’t really making sense just we would probably rather just going for it with little or no small talk sort of thing but we are very nervous about looking out of place. "

This is weird, i came on here to post pretty much the same thing. We really want to organise a gangbang for A and were unsure on whether to run the risk of getting a hotel and nobody turns up or to try CJs. Ill watch this thread with interest.

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Lol. We’ve been told the cjs greedy girl nights would be ideal for this but the social side just isn’t for us. Would almost be turn up do what we do and leave. Not sure if this situation is suited to the clubs as it definitely seems more centred round the social play rather than just downright naughty

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I've only been to one Greedy girls event but there was no social side to it, everyone got changed and then went straight upstairs to play

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Lol. We’ve been told the cjs greedy girl nights would be ideal for this but the social side just isn’t for us. Would almost be turn up do what we do and leave. Not sure if this situation is suited to the clubs as it definitely seems more centred round the social play rather than just downright naughty "

It's not centred around social play, it's just the people who go to clubs are in the lifestyle so are interested in making connections, but you guys are really just looking for fuck and go

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By *OSCCOSMITH69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Not really sure how to word this without coming across like an asshole but will try as we really need advice.

For a long long time we have been planning to visit the club. It’s both our fantasy to have a proper gang bang session for Helen with a lot of guys. We have tried to arrange private but just doesn’t work. We have been told these are probably best and we’ve even chatted on forums about going etc. trouble is we always wimp out beforehand.

This is where the problem comes as we are not mega social on the scene and we aren’t really into sitting chatting or getting to know people or even making friends. We always feel when reading the forums a lot of people use the clubs as a more social event with fun on top and we are very wary about the etiquette side. Sorry if this isn’t really making sense just we would probably rather just going for it with little or no small talk sort of thing but we are very nervous about looking out of place. "

As a bloke whos been to cjs after8 and shoe box and a few down south greedy girl events. If you dont want to socialise then dont. Its really that simple. Just go up stairs at cjs and strip off in a room and wait for the attention because within seconds of you two going up stairs you ll have 20 guys up stairs with towels on lol

Only a small amount of folk socialise at the gg night most play and chat after or during thats what i ve experience at cjs especially

And no means no and keep to it… every one there will tell you the same

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We have been to a cjs greedy girl event. Very minimal social side, lots of straight to action.

Sounds like that could be ideal for you both.

Go and try it!

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I'm very keen to experience one of these events!

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By *he_handleMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

On Friday last week at CJs i was in the door five mins and getting a drink at the bar when one of the single ladies their to play told me and the other guys to come upstairs because she wanted to play and within minutes the party was started. I do like a bit of social chat but if you want a club where it’s straight into the action then CJs GG night is your ideal.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You don’t need to play with every guy. You can decide who you want to play with. I have friends who go regularly.

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By *orny scottish tradesmanMan
over a year ago

Fife- glasgow- north england

Now that's a day I'd Definitely be visiting, always thought Helen looked amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said if you lead the way others will follow. Not been to CJ's yet but at After8 and clubs down South if you just go to a room there is no need to socialise and you will soon get attention. Having said that I was in the Jacuzzi in Chameleons one afternoon listening to two couples talking about fucking Caravans ffs!

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

What I’d suggest is just go to a GG event, I find the night ones are best and slightly less hurried.

It’s actually nice to see a girl really enjoying herself, you don’t need to play from the start, so just go, watch, see the way things go and if it’s for you, go the next time, and well drop your knickers!

It’s not for the shy, tbh, but can certainly tick a few boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really sure how to word this without coming across like an asshole but will try as we really need advice.

For a long long time we have been planning to visit the club. It’s both our fantasy to have a proper gang bang session for Helen with a lot of guys. We have tried to arrange private but just doesn’t work. We have been told these are probably best and we’ve even chatted on forums about going etc. trouble is we always wimp out beforehand.

This is where the problem comes as we are not mega social on the scene and we aren’t really into sitting chatting or getting to know people or even making friends. We always feel when reading the forums a lot of people use the clubs as a more social event with fun on top and we are very wary about the etiquette side. Sorry if this isn’t really making sense just we would probably rather just going for it with little or no small talk sort of thing but we are very nervous about looking out of place. "

I was a willing participant in a ten man gangbang once.

Much to the surprise of everyone involved , nobody bottled it and we all turned up and had a whale of a time. The couple hired an apartment for the night and it was all really well organised. Once the brief small talk was done we just all cracked on.

Nothings impossible

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By *omond guyMan
over a year ago

alexandria


"Lol. We’ve been told the cjs greedy girl nights would be ideal for this but the social side just isn’t for us. Would almost be turn up do what we do and leave. Not sure if this situation is suited to the clubs as it definitely seems more centred round the social play rather than just downright naughty "

Did you enjoy it and would you do it again

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By *omond guyMan
over a year ago

alexandria


"I'm very keen to experience one of these events! "

Then why not just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’ve been to a greedy girl’s afternoon. the men all wear towels. me and my girlfriends took the pick of the men, literally as they walked in the door! straight up the stairs to a room. which we closed the door to.

it was very different to a fun for all night, where the social aspect was certainly more prevalent.

i think you would find exactly what you needed in an open room, set yourself up and then see who walks in to the room.

you need to obviously strike up enough conversation to invite others that it’s ok to play. i’m sure the word would spread quickly what you were looking to do and you would have a fun time

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife


"i’ve been to a greedy girl’s afternoon. the men all wear towels. me and my girlfriends took the pick of the men, literally as they walked in the door! straight up the stairs to a room. which we closed the door to.

it was very different to a fun for all night, where the social aspect was certainly more prevalent.

i think you would find exactly what you needed in an open room, set yourself up and then see who walks in to the room.

you need to obviously strike up enough conversation to invite others that it’s ok to play. i’m sure the word would spread quickly what you were looking to do and you would have a fun time "
. This makes sense thanks kinda puts my mind at ease. Basically I’d like to be blindfolded and once the action gets started Hubby can take more of a backseat and just be present to make sure everyone is behaving etc but ultimately becoming a bit of a free for all of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i’ve been to a greedy girl’s afternoon. the men all wear towels. me and my girlfriends took the pick of the men, literally as they walked in the door! straight up the stairs to a room. which we closed the door to.

it was very different to a fun for all night, where the social aspect was certainly more prevalent.

i think you would find exactly what you needed in an open room, set yourself up and then see who walks in to the room.

you need to obviously strike up enough conversation to invite others that it’s ok to play. i’m sure the word would spread quickly what you were looking to do and you would have a fun time . This makes sense thanks kinda puts my mind at ease. Basically I’d like to be blindfolded and once the action gets started Hubby can take more of a backseat and just be present to make sure everyone is behaving etc but ultimately becoming a bit of a free for all of guys. "

I think that would work perfect at the GG events. good luck hope you both have fun!

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By *ot-wife19Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Piggy backing on this threat but thanks for a the comments. 100% getting myself to a Gready Girls night at CJs xxx

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By *ove_stockings27Couple
over a year ago

KY


"Not really sure how to word this without coming across like an asshole but will try as we really need advice.

For a long long time we have been planning to visit the club. It’s both our fantasy to have a proper gang bang session for Helen with a lot of guys. We have tried to arrange private but just doesn’t work. We have been told these are probably best and we’ve even chatted on forums about going etc. trouble is we always wimp out beforehand.

This is where the problem comes as we are not mega social on the scene and we aren’t really into sitting chatting or getting to know people or even making friends. We always feel when reading the forums a lot of people use the clubs as a more social event with fun on top and we are very wary about the etiquette side. Sorry if this isn’t really making sense just we would probably rather just going for it with little or no small talk sort of thing but we are very nervous about looking out of place. "

we feel the same not really mega social either, would love to attend a social to see how it goes but Fi really just wants banged...

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By *immfmeMan
over a year ago

central

I think this thread is great for anyone who is in the same boat as the OP.

Having never been to a CJs GG event (yet) I was curious - love a gangbang but as the OP states, difficult to arrange!

It’s seems the general feel is ‘dive in’ - advice I shall be heeding i reckon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've thought about attending one of the afternoons, but got put off a bit. We have decided we'll go to one and watch what happens then see if Lexi fancies participating the next time.

Also, as male is a fat bugger, I hope they have big towels.

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

Looks like we’re gonna be brave and give it a go for the 23rd looking into nearby hotels as might need a few drink for courage but definitely going to just go for it and see

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By *immfmeMan
over a year ago

central

Great news Hels! Hope to see you there! And if you fancy a drink somewhere prior, gimme a message!

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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

I went to a greedy girls night in Cj’s. My male friend and I looked around for a while upstairs until we found what we were looking for. Invited them into the medical room, had our fun then left. I was nervous about approaching people but thankfully my friend did all that for me.

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Haven’t been for years since was in old location but was warmly welcomed and treated well, even with not having connections there already. Lots of fun to be had when everyone is respectful and relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like we’re gonna be brave and give it a go for the 23rd looking into nearby hotels as might need a few drink for courage but definitely going to just go for it and see"

I'm booked in for 23rd if you need a friendly face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey fabbers, I’m looking at going on the 23rd too! I’ve heard good things!, if this forum is anything to go by should be a fun night! say Hi if your going! Thanks op for starting the thread

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By *ev70Woman
over a year ago

Wishaw

Hopefully we’re going on Wednesday

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Been following this thread with interest.

Girly half looking to go to the GG on 23rd when blokey half is busy. I've never been to a club before but GG sounds like the one for me. Especially after seeing the posts here about it being welcoming and not too scary.

I would be getting a train to Queen Street. How easy is it to travel to CJs from there and back again later?

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By *ub-seekerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Taxi will be no problem. No more than 10 minutes each way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol. We’ve been told the cjs greedy girl nights would be ideal for this but the social side just isn’t for us. Would almost be turn up do what we do and leave. Not sure if this situation is suited to the clubs as it definitely seems more centred round the social play rather than just downright naughty "

Nope... been loads of times to cjs definitely not into just social play and gotten downright naughty. Does help as a single girl for me to chat to who maybe going as an ice breaker on here. Dont over think and go for it guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GG is a lot of fun just straight to the sex , happy to chat if you fancy meeting next Wednesday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This something we've been thinking of for ages. Might just bite the bullet at the end of the month. All the comments have been so positive and have settled my nerves...well partly. Xsam

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By *ove_stockings27Couple
over a year ago

KY

we feel the same not really mega social either, would love to attend a social to see how it goes but Fi really just wants banged...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Booked in for this event with CJ looking forward to it

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By *he pupCoolMan
over a year ago

dumffries

Don’t see the fun in it better having empty all day private garden day to begin with exploring go with the flow be hoinist enjoy to the max

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By * J xxxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Been to GG night a few months ago, was a great night no one was under any pressure or expected to participate, planning to attend further nights , but unable to attend Octobers night hopefully get Ali to Novembers night

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By *honny 555Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Interested count me in

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