FabSwingers.com forum: Quick question

By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If a guy posts on here that he’s never cum from a blowjob, does that make you think:

1. He’s probably just saying that

2. Sounds like a challenge!

3. Poor guy, I bet he feels like a failure

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

None of the above.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't think I'd think any of those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think "oh well, some guys can't. Whatever".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thought:"Thanks for sharing".

Then I laugh at those who post recounting stories of how they can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

None of them!

I would think it’s none of my business

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I’ve seen a few posts of a similar nature on here and quite often it gets dismissed, whereas it could be a genuine issue for some guys and affect their confidence

Personally, I have never ejaculated through oral sex. I orgasm, but can’t or don’t ejaculate and it really gets to me cos it makes me think I’m a failure. End of session, thanks for attending lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve seen a few posts of a similar nature on here and quite often it gets dismissed, whereas it could be a genuine issue for some guys and affect their confidence

Do you wank a lot?

I think this can be part of the issue for some. You just can't get the sane kind of stimulation from a gub as you can from your own hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the guys got too much time on his hands

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’ve seen a few posts of a similar nature on here and quite often it gets dismissed, whereas it could be a genuine issue for some guys and affect their confidence

Do you wank a lot?

I think this can be part of the issue for some. You just can't get the sane kind of stimulation from a gub as you can from your own hand."

Define “a lot” lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Life would be boring if we weren’t all different. What works for some doesn’t work for others. We don’t get turned on with the same things. Whoever they are playing with would find what works for them and have lots of fun.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Some women struggle to cum while getting head.

In my experience it’s mainly cos lots of guys are shite at it right enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If a guy posts on here that he’s never cum from a blowjob, does that make you think:

1. He’s probably just saying that

2. Sounds like a challenge!

3. Poor guy, I bet he feels like a failure"
All it makes me think is he’s never cum from a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair to the OP

I get where he’s coming from. It does come up a lot and it’s often glazed over. But women also have the same issue (yes as said above cause a lot of men are shite).

It’s just who we are as Individuals.

I struggle to cum from oral. I love bjs. Foreplay for me is often more exciting then sex, oral is amazing, sensual, a million other adjectives. But it just doesn’t get me there.

But i don’t mind, it is me, my body, and I know I’ll cum eventually. Doesn’t bother me or slow me down.

It has caused the odd issue where my partner blamed herself. And a wee chat, fix that, move on.

It’s life bro. We are all different. Embrace it as it’s a part of your sexual identity.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

Ah someone over 6ft 6 eh.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

No need to feel a failure or inadequate. I'm so studdily successful I normally cum just before a blowjob, but we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

Ah someone over 6ft 6 eh. "

He said his name was Harold and all the ladies here know him

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

Ah someone over 6ft 6 eh.

He said his name was Harold and all the ladies here know him

I've heard of this monster and seemingly seeing is believing. I won't be going to look as I don't want scared for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

Ah someone over 6ft 6 eh.

He said his name was Harold and all the ladies here know him

I've heard of this monster and seemingly seeing is believing. I won't be going to look as I don't want scared for life. "

Same

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I think the guys got too much time on his hands

I wonder what he will do with his hands to pass the time!!!

Wank then post about it on fab once he can see straight again

What is this "wank" you talk about?

Dunno a big boy told me to say that

Ah someone over 6ft 6 eh.

He said his name was Harold and all the ladies here know him

I've heard of this monster and seemingly seeing is believing. I won't be going to look as I don't want scared for life.

Same

As the saying goes anything over a handful is a waste!

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"To be fair to the OP

I get where he’s coming from. It does come up a lot and it’s often glazed over. But women also have the same issue (yes as said above cause a lot of men are shite).

It’s just who we are as Individuals.

I struggle to cum from oral. I love bjs. Foreplay for me is often more exciting then sex, oral is amazing, sensual, a million other adjectives. But it just doesn’t get me there.

But i don’t mind, it is me, my body, and I know I’ll cum eventually. Doesn’t bother me or slow me down.

It has caused the odd issue where my partner blamed herself. And a wee chat, fix that, move on.

It’s life bro. We are all different. Embrace it as it’s a part of your sexual identity. "

Cheers man, appreciate that. It usually always expected when a woman goes down on you that you’re going to ejacualte. There’s never a right time to say “by the way, you’re wasting your time there cos nothing’ll happen” lol

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

He'll get lots of offers from guys to be the first to make it happen. Fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

You’re absolutely right there hahahahah

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

Man’s a genius! hahaha

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

No daft, but slower than an obese tortoise.

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

I never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Automatically I'd think he's just wanting any female to take up the challenge while all the while he's talking bullshit.

Sorry but you did ask

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By *idas Man OP Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Automatically I'd think he's just wanting any female to take up the challenge while all the while he's talking bullshit.

Sorry but you did ask

No, that’s fair enough. I appreciate your honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

No daft, but slower than an obese tortoise. "

.....on temazepam

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

"Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

Probably thought it was the only way to stop you from talking.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Mr used to tell me that he had difficulty cumming from oral and that my technique was crap.

27yrs later and with many a skint knee later, it's just dawning on me that this was a cunning plan to have his knob permanently in my gub.

Am no daft.

Probably thought it was the only way to stop you from talking.

Nah, she would just chomp it off for a snack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy posts on here that he’s never cum from a blowjob, does that make you think:

1. He’s probably just saying that

2. Sounds like a challenge!

3. Poor guy, I bet he feels like a failure"

4. He's seeing my ex-wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy posts on here that he’s never cum from a blowjob, does that make you think:

1. He’s probably just saying that

2. Sounds like a challenge!

3. Poor guy, I bet he feels like a failure"

There’s also the issue of the person doing the sucking. Now my opinion here is of females only as I am straight and not fab straight so I can comment on guys.

But, a lot of women have a slow sucking style that’s very soft, would literally take years to come from it. I’d say it’s more rare to find a girl that sucks cock like a bulldog goes at an ice cream. Those women make you feel the tingle early on!

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

I quite often dont cum from a bj but nobody ever fails to cum only once usually twice from 1 of my "special" bjs lol

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