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By *riti Pear OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

The most annoying thing about this site are the men/people who cannot take no for an answer with a grown up attitude and some dignity!

So because I say no to you, I must be a fake? Should be given abuse and called names?

All this tells me is that I made the correct choice and dodged a bullet. I hope other women are lucky enough to dodge you too!!

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket


"The most annoying thing about this site are the men/people who cannot take no for an answer with a grown up attitude and some dignity!

So because I say no to you, I must be a fake? Should be given abuse and called names?

All this tells me is that I made the correct choice and dodged a bullet. I hope other women are lucky enough to dodge you too!!"

I think the most annoying thing about this site is women that won't say yes. What can you do eh?

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"The most annoying thing about this site are the men/people who cannot take no for an answer with a grown up attitude and some dignity!

So because I say no to you, I must be a fake? Should be given abuse and called names?

All this tells me is that I made the correct choice and dodged a bullet. I hope other women are lucky enough to dodge you too!!"

Totally agree although we use the term ‘men’ loosely. More like little boys throwing tantrums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullet dodging is my specialized subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and get on with your day not giving a jot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand why some people have zero self respect.

Even if I was besotted with someone on here, if they knocked me back and made it clear they weren't interested, they'd never hear from me again. Name calling and spitting the dummy cause someone doesn't fancy you is play ground stuff.

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By *riti Pear OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"The most annoying thing about this site are the men/people who cannot take no for an answer with a grown up attitude and some dignity!

So because I say no to you, I must be a fake? Should be given abuse and called names?

All this tells me is that I made the correct choice and dodged a bullet. I hope other women are lucky enough to dodge you too!!

Totally agree although we use the term ‘men’ loosely. More like little boys throwing tantrums "

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By *ab365XMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"The most annoying thing about this site are the men/people who cannot take no for an answer with a grown up attitude and some dignity!

So because I say no to you, I must be a fake? Should be given abuse and called names?

All this tells me is that I made the correct choice and dodged a bullet. I hope other women are lucky enough to dodge you too!!"

I hope Bert is reading this thread!!!!

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

There are people here that simply should not be here. Mentally they are not ready or built for this lifestyle. Perhaps they are not here for this lifestyle and just for a quick shag as they see it as a sex site and cannot understand why ots so hard to obtain sex.

Block and forget them and move on is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a no, I politely reply thanking them for taking the time to reply.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

What do you class as a no though? I messaged someone a few weeks ago. The reply was they don't know as not feeling a connection. I probably should have ignored but I replied asking how can you tell if there's a connection after 1 introductory message only to be what can only be described as abused and told to take no for answer.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I've taken a few "" No thanks"" in my time on here.

I've never msgd giving abuse about it.. Would that help change the ladys mind?

Plenty more ladies and cpls to chat with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you class as a no though? I messaged someone a few weeks ago. The reply was they don't know as not feeling a connection. I probably should have ignored but I replied asking how can you tell if there's a connection after 1 introductory message only to be what can only be described as abused and told to take no for answer."

If someone replied to that I'd assume they were either trying to let me down gently or do some running to convince them we had a connection.

Either way it would be the last message I sent them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you class as a no though? I messaged someone a few weeks ago. The reply was they don't know as not feeling a connection. I probably should have ignored but I replied asking how can you tell if there's a connection after 1 introductory message only to be what can only be described as abused and told to take no for answer.

If someone replied to that I'd assume they were either trying to let me down gently or do some running to convince them we had a connection.

Either way it would be the last message I sent them."

This.. unless they say yes or want to chat more take it as a no and move on

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Its easy, no reply or no thanks, fine move on.

If no reply after a day take the hint.

Plenty more fish in the sea, no possible need to be rude or abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

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Its one saying already sent ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ...."

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics".

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics"."

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics"."

Or a simple......fuck off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics".

Or a simple......fuck off....."

I've said that when they won't take the hint

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics".

Or a simple......fuck off.....

I've said that when they won't take the hint "

And did that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics".

Or a simple......fuck off.....

I've said that when they won't take the hint

And did that work?"

Yeah because I block the twats too

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Was actually talking to a friend the other day about messages etc. I recall that a reminder pops up if you try to message someone when you've already sent 1 (or is it 2?) and they're unread. Would be great if you were temporarily blocked from sending further messages if 2 or 3 remained unread.

Its one saying already sent ....

OK, after that then you should get a message saying "Hawl, Shit For Brains, you've been dinghyed. Take the hint you saddo and go have a wank/laugh at the hot pics".

Or a simple......fuck off.....

I've said that when they won't take the hint "

I took the hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse when there is good exchange of messages over a few days or weeks then just silence or block that I do not understand

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