FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Do you flirt ?

If so how do you flirt ?

Is it all in the eyes or in what you say or is it a bit of both ?

I’m a big flirt and think I do it with the eyes & a little bit of teasing in what I say, not too much just enough to let the person I’m meeting know I’m interested lol

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

The eyes, a little touch, a little bit of innuendo, just whatever feels right

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"The eyes, a little touch, a little bit of innuendo, just whatever feels right"
all sounds like a good flirt to me

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"The eyes, a little touch, a little bit of innuendo, just whatever feels rightall sounds like a good flirt to me

Yeah one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!"

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I'm not any good at flirting. I might need to search Dr G and YT for some tips.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!" "
lmao miss muff which the chat you have I’m sure flirting comes to you so easily lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!" lmao miss muff which the chat you have I’m sure flirting comes to you so easily lol "
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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"The eyes, a little touch, a little bit of innuendo, just whatever feels rightall sounds like a good flirt to me

Yeah one day

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!" "

as Isa said PEOPLE HUV TAE KNOW

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm not any good at flirting. I might need to search Dr G and YT for some tips.

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no Margaritas or Don Julio?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Only with intention

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I'm not any good at flirting. I might need to search Dr G and YT for some tips.

no Margaritas or Don Julio?

Margaritas, moi

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!" "

Oh you tease. And Yiu say you don't know how to flirt! Let me think about that one for 3 seconds.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Only with intention "
it should always be with intention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on purpose. I think I'd feel like a twat if I actively tried to do it but if I'm attracted to someone I'm naturally a flirty person, it just happens.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Not on purpose. I think I'd feel like a twat if I actively tried to do it but if I'm attracted to someone I'm naturally a flirty person, it just happens. "
yeah this is kinda me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!"

Oh you tease. And Yiu say you don't know how to flirt! Let me think about that one for 3 seconds. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the eyes with me and a little smile

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"Not on purpose. I think I'd feel like a twat if I actively tried to do it but if I'm attracted to someone I'm naturally a flirty person, it just happens. "

Bingo. Right person, right place, right moment … you’re in the middle of chatting and your eyes meet for just a microsecond longer than they needed to … and suddenly the whole moment has changed and there’s a hint of chemistry in the air - and you both know it. Flirting’s quite a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im terrible at flirting

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Im terrible at flirting "
you sure ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

I think it’s a natural ability that I don’t know if I possess

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!" "

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t flirt all the time but when I want to turn him on, I can turn it on.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've been told I flirt naturally, but I really don't intend to, nor realise I'm doing it.

However as a flip-side, I can't read it in any way when it's directed at me. It takes a fe good hours to sink in. However if it's directed at someone else, I can normally spot it easily.

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’m following this as I’m terrible at flirting hoping to pick up some tips.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I don’t flirt all the time but when I want to turn him on, I can turn it on.

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that should be a given lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've been told I flirt naturally, but I really don't intend to, nor realise I'm doing it.

However as a flip-side, I can't read it in any way when it's directed at me. It takes a fe good hours to sink in. However if it's directed at someone else, I can normally spot it easily."
I don’t think at times I realise I’m doing it until I’m told I am lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"I’m following this as I’m terrible at flirting hoping to pick up some tips. "

I think you might be being modest there … your photos have flirtatious written all over them!

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I’m following this as I’m terrible at flirting hoping to pick up some tips.

I think you might be being modest there … your photos have flirtatious written all over them!

Haha oh yea I’m a dab hand at flirting with myself or when I’m dancing but when it comes to the important times like showing someone I’m actually interested in them. It’s a system failure

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"… when it comes to the important times like showing someone I’m actually interested in them. It’s a system failure "

Haha! Okay, that I can understand. Solidarity for us sexy-but-still-awkward people.

Scene: a bar, three or four drinks in.

Me: going back to my table after talking to a super-hot girl at the bar.

My pal: “Mate, she is SO into you.”

Me: “Huh? What? How?”

Every time …

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"… when it comes to the important times like showing someone I’m actually interested in them. It’s a system failure

Haha! Okay, that I can understand. Solidarity for us sexy-but-still-awkward people.

Scene: a bar, three or four drinks in.

Me: going back to my table after talking to a super-hot girl at the bar.

My pal: “Mate, she is SO into you.”

Me: “Huh? What? How?”

Every time …"
I can be a bit like this too … not very good at picking up the signs and often just see as them being friendly lol

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I don't know if I do...in real life anyway. I'm just more likely to chat and try to make you laugh if I'm into you. And then a wee brush of the hand etc will happen along the way.

Always feel I look a bit of a tit when I'm trying to be sexy and flirty. Exception is when I'm on cam and half cut so not caring

Mr "What happened to being flirty and classy?"

Me "PEOPLE NEED TAE SEE MA FANNY!"

Oh you tease. And Yiu say you don't know how to flirt! Let me think about that one for 3 seconds.

There you go doing it again.

I'm sure you meant, fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im terrible at reading people so i dont recognise if anyone is flirting with me to reciprocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how to flirt and am oblivious if someone is flirting with me.

Someone needs to set up some classes on how to flirt. Would make a fortune.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I have no idea how to flirt and am oblivious if someone is flirting with me.

Someone needs to set up some classes on how to flirt. Would make a fortune."

If you find any classes signe up at the same time mate.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I can’t actually remember the last time a woman flirted with me ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally enjoy chat with people or fellas and normally have a laugh anyways.

I work in a large open plan office and I tend to be the "go to person" for the printer/technical stuff and some IT. One day an engineer had to fix printer, and a female colleague jokingly said loudly to the guy "I'll direct you to Heather, you can't miss her cos she's a man eater" I was mortified. But I guess until that day I hadn't realised I was a natural flirt

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By *traightrimmerMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I generally enjoy chat with people or fellas and normally have a laugh anyways.

I thought it was going to say: you can’t miss her she’ll be photocopying her boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im terrible at reading people so i dont recognise if anyone is flirting with me to reciprocate "

Yep. Someone could be winning the flirting gold medal right in front of my face, and I'd still probably think they're just being nice

Then again, half the time when I'm talking to folk it could be interpreted that I'm flirting, even if I don't realise it.

Maybe I'm a secret Jedi, so secret I don't even know it?!

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By *owboyPandaMan
over a year ago

Wishaw

I forgot a long time ago how to do it need some practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one that's terrible at flirting, and rarely recongise when someone's flirting with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was going to say: you can’t miss her she’ll be photocopying her boobs!"

Pmsl I'm not tall enough to reach!

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I thought it was going to say: you can’t miss her she’ll be photocopying her boobs!

Pmsl I'm not tall enough to reach! "

Get a stool. IKEA do potable ones.

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By *traightrimmerMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I thought it was going to say: you can’t miss her she’ll be photocopying her boobs!

Pmsl I'm not tall enough to reach! "

Just looked at your pics….Going to need a bigger photocopier too!

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Flirting is an art, some can, some cant, some are natural others have to work on it.

Me i cant flirt and certainly dont recognise being flirted with.

However i do enjoy the chat and banter if that counts.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Me ? Flirt ? I wouldnt know where or how to start

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t have it in me and can never tell if anyone is flirting with me either!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I don’t have it in me and can never tell if anyone is flirting with me either! "

We can just go sit in the corner and people watch ..watch how they flirt and see if we can pick up any ideas

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I too have no idea when or indeed if someone is flirting with me . Ultimately I just presume they are being nice .

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By *owboyPandaMan
over a year ago

Wishaw

"Another one that's terrible at flirting, and rarely recongise when someone's flirting with me"

Am the same it needs to be black and white

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Ooo a little touch of the hand, leaning into someone holding their arm.

Innocuous but you will know right away if there is chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likes a

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By *arkwaitsforyouMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Eye contact holding it that extra second

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By *aulaWiltshireTV/TS
over a year ago

Inverness

"Do you flirt ?

If so how do you flirt ?

Is it all in the eyes or in what you say or is it a bit of both ?

I’m a big flirt and think I do it with the eyes & a little bit of teasing in what I say, not too much just enough to let the person I’m meeting know I’m interested lol

Definitely! Flirting is all part of the pleasure of being with someone I like (or think that I might like). It is very much about the eyes but also the words spoken - definitely some gentle teasing. The trouble is, I don't always realise that I am doing it

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By *HE PROBLEMMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I don’t flirt all the time but when I want to turn him on, I can turn it on.

Never noticed

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I don’t flirt all the time but when I want to turn him on, I can turn it on.

Never noticed

Shut up and do what you’re telt!

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I've got a sleepy eye, so I constantly look like I'm winking. That's all I got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just enjoy talking to people, missed it with working at home. Suppose I do it without thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes I can be flirty but if I "try" I find it way too hard.

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By *range lilyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think sometimes I can be flirty but if I "try" I find it way too hard.

I'm the same, sometimes there's a natural connection and the flirting is easy, then other times I just shit it haha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"I think sometimes I can be flirty but if I "try" I find it way too hard.

Oh, I don’t know. Just grabbing someone and kissing them seems to work fine.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I feel a wee Saturday night flirt coming on

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

Saturday night’s alright for flirting?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Saturday night’s alright for flirting?"
any days a flirting day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a sleepy eye, so I constantly look like I'm winking. That's all I got. "

Do you only start winking with the good one when you're really intae them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you flirt ?

If so how do you flirt ?

Is it all in the eyes or in what you say or is it a bit of both ?

I’m a big flirt and think I do it with the eyes & a little bit of teasing in what I say, not too much just enough to let the person I’m meeting know I’m interested lol

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I usually just send a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looked at your pics….Going to need a bigger photocopier too!"

Hah hah the copier is mahoosive and more than adequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know I'm doing it half the time. Think it's definitely got alot to do with the eyes and smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes I can be flirty but if I "try" I find it way too hard.

I'm the same, sometimes there's a natural connection and the flirting is easy, then other times I just shit it haha "

I think it's a wee bit of nerves and also worrying I'm not reading the signs correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes I can be flirty but if I "try" I find it way too hard.

Oh, I don’t know. Just grabbing someone and kissing them seems to work fine."

seems to have worked very well recently

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"seems to have worked very well recently

See? *that’s* how to flirt.

Someone will be along telling us to ‘get a room’ soon if we don’t stop doing this on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seems to have worked very well recently

See? *that’s* how to flirt.

Someone will be along telling us to ‘get a room’ soon if we don’t stop doing this on the forums."

haha now that's a great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me ? Flirt ? I wouldnt know where or how to start

Ohh this is me too

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

"Someone will be along telling us to ‘get a room’ soon if we don’t stop doing this on the forums.

haha now that's a great idea! "

See? You’re getting the hang of this flirting thing.

It’s working too. I’m checking hotel bookings right now in another tab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone will be along telling us to ‘get a room’ soon if we don’t stop doing this on the forums.

haha now that's a great idea!

See? You’re getting the hang of this flirting thing.

It’s working too. I’m checking hotel bookings right now in another tab.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Manchester / London

… aaand that’s my cue to take this off the forums and just text you.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Guess when I'm ready I gotta get on with the flirting...

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