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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at a few profiles for single lady’s and say blocked all my sex when trying to message or wink

Not looking for single guys. Men aged 25 to 50 only

How can you not be looking for single guys but then have Men ages 25-50! Nout said about looking for couples or any other type of meet

It’s crazy lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

They don’t want people messaging them they want to search and initiate themselves that’s their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t want people messaging them they want to search and initiate themselves that’s their choice "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Not looking for bigguy1990555".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oudooor bjs seem to be a theme . I’ve not tapped into that yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at a few profiles for single lady’s and say blocked all my sex when trying to message or wink

Not looking for single guys. Men aged 25 to 50 only

How can you not be looking for single guys but then have Men ages 25-50! Nout said about looking for couples or any other type of meet

It’s crazy lol "

Had mines set to this when I first came back saves getting 100s of junk messages.

Heavily use the message filters now instead so don't get many messages and search myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it doesnt matter what you write on your profile we still gey guys sending messages for an instant meet or friend requests anyway.... Delete

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Looking at a few profiles for single lady’s and say blocked all my sex when trying to message or wink

Not looking for single guys. Men aged 25 to 50 only

How can you not be looking for single guys but then have Men ages 25-50! Nout said about looking for couples or any other type of meet

It’s crazy lol "
perhaps it’s because they want to do their own searches and mail those who interest them instead of being bombarded by messages from people who don’t .

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"To be honest it doesnt matter what you write on your profile we still gey guys sending messages for an instant meet or friend requests anyway.... Delete"

^^^ this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it doesnt matter what you write on your profile we still gey guys sending messages for an instant meet or friend requests anyway.... Delete"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a message filter OP. Nothing crazy about it

I usually turn it on when I'm clearing out my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest I never sat back an thought about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"" Not looking for bigguy1990555".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"" Not looking for bigguy1990555".

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you're terrible MM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do any of us actually know what we are searching for across the life span? Does anyone actually find it? …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of us actually know what we are searching for across the life span? Does anyone actually find it? ….."

That’s a deep wee ponder… maybe you should be re named BoyofPonder

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"To be honest it doesnt matter what you write on your profile we still gey guys sending messages for an instant meet or friend requests anyway.... Delete"

I would presume you’re status update invites it.

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there


"Do any of us actually know what we are searching for across the life span? Does anyone actually find it? …..

That’s a deep wee ponder… maybe you should be re named BoyofPonder "

Fabs own philosopher....

(Strange fact: I've a friend who's job title for years was 'Senior philosopher'

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Do any of us actually know what we are searching for across the life span? Does anyone actually find it? …..

That’s a deep wee ponder… maybe you should be re named BoyofPonder

Fabs own philosopher....

(Strange fact: I've a friend who's job title for years was 'Senior philosopher'"

He’s a pretty smart guy that’s been here for years so ya could be right.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Do any of us actually know what we are searching for across the life span? Does anyone actually find it? ….."

I think sometimes it’s like being hit by a bus everything happens when you least expect it

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Looking at a few profiles for single lady’s and say blocked all my sex when trying to message or wink

Not looking for single guys. Men aged 25 to 50 only

How can you not be looking for single guys but then have Men ages 25-50! Nout said about looking for couples or any other type of meet

It’s crazy lol "

This could be just because I'm in a pissy mood tonight, so I will apologise for coming across rude.

But, why do we need to be looking for anything? I'm not meeting just now. No playing, no sexting, no socials, nothing. And some of the men on here seem to think I'm wasting THEIR time by being on here. No, I'm wasting MY time. I'm choosing to be on here and reply to hundreds of messages, saying the exact same thing because they haven't read my profile and can't understand that I'm not meeting, or think they'll, somehow, be the exception to the rule. We don't have to be looking for anything, maybe we just want to have a perv, maybe we want to keep in touch with friends we've made or maybe we're telling you one thing but doing another. Either way, you are not owed anything, simply because you are on this site.

Apologies for being abrasive x

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By *reyw01fMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

to be honest in all my time here i think 1 meet was started by mail and that began by answering a status any other have been though chat or mails after meeting at a social best policy is to not expect anything as stated above if they want you they will find you

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Dont get some people here. For example if a woman clearly states she's looking for other women (which is fine) then surely the last thing she be doing is fabbing my pictures right? But cant message her because she blocked messages receiving from men

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Dont get some people here. For example if a woman clearly states she's looking for other women (which is fine) then surely the last thing she be doing is fabbing my pictures right? But cant message her because she blocked messages receiving from men"

Fabbing a picture could be because we find it's a good picture and we're not looking for anything more. And because it leads to people getting annoyed because we fabbed a picture so we should shag you, I stopped fabbing pictures.

Or maybe it's accidentally pressing random buttons when they weren't paying attention x

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By *ittlemissbella69Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Dont get some people here. For example if a woman clearly states she's looking for other women (which is fine) then surely the last thing she be doing is fabbing my pictures right? But cant message her because she blocked messages receiving from men"

I'm not looking for women but i can still like and appreciate their photos and just because someone has fabbed your pics doesn't necessarily mean they wish to chat either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get some people here. For example if a woman clearly states she's looking for other women (which is fine) then surely the last thing she be doing is fabbing my pictures right? But cant message her because she blocked messages receiving from men

Fabbing a picture could be because we find it's a good picture and we're not looking for anything more. And because it leads to people getting annoyed because we fabbed a picture so we should shag you, I stopped fabbing pictures.

Or maybe it's accidentally pressing random buttons when they weren't paying attention x"

This.

I fab photos all the time regardless of sex, because I appreciate the aesthetics.

I chat to and smile at men on a night out because I find them funny and good company.

None of this means I want to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking to chat and hopefully meet sometime with some nice women

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