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By *he way you move OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

I really get off on making a women orgasm so when I can make a girl squirt its a huge turn on for me. Recently a FWB asked me to stop doing it to her because even although I can make it happen over and over she said it desensitises her, making a regular orgasm less likely. I was a little disheartened. Where I thought I was giving mind blowing orgasms turned out in this case was the opposite.

Any ladies out there want to enlighten me a bit more. I know we all like different things and the female orgasm is far more complex than us guys. Is this view on squirting shared widely? Obviously with this particular friend I no longer try and get her to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really get off on making a women orgasm so when I can make a girl squirt its a huge turn on for me. Recently a FWB asked me to stop doing it to her because even although I can make it happen over and over she said it desensitises her, making a regular orgasm less likely. I was a little disheartened. Where I thought I was giving mind blowing orgasms turned out in this case was the opposite.

Any ladies out there want to enlighten me a bit more. I know we all like different things and the female orgasm is far more complex than us guys. Is this view on squirting shared widely? Obviously with this particular friend I no longer try and get her to do it."

so orgasms and squirting are two completely different sensations. and if your solely focused on the latter the important orgasms get forgotten about, think about it from a man’s perspective. i’d imagine squirting to be like pre cum for a man! it feels good it gets you going it lubes you up ready for what we really want. that mind blowing leg shaking orgasms. if we don’t get that you’ve just edged us and left us hanging. like not finishing your wank? wee need that end result eventually.

personal experience of it obviously. hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many guys fixate on the wrong thing.

I don't squirt.never have.never want to.

But by God the amount of guys wanting and "garentee" it if I meet them really is a HUGE turn off.

Maybe stop watching too much porn guys.

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By *he way you move OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"I really get off on making a women orgasm so when I can make a girl squirt its a huge turn on for me. Recently a FWB asked me to stop doing it to her because even although I can make it happen over and over she said it desensitises her, making a regular orgasm less likely. I was a little disheartened. Where I thought I was giving mind blowing orgasms turned out in this case was the opposite.

Any ladies out there want to enlighten me a bit more. I know we all like different things and the female orgasm is far more complex than us guys. Is this view on squirting shared widely? Obviously with this particular friend I no longer try and get her to do it.

so orgasms and squirting are two completely different sensations. and if your solely focused on the latter the important orgasms get forgotten about, think about it from a man’s perspective. i’d imagine squirting to be like pre cum for a man! it feels good it gets you going it lubes you up ready for what we really want. that mind blowing leg shaking orgasms. if we don’t get that you’ve just edged us and left us hanging. like not finishing your wank? wee need that end result eventually.

personal experience of it obviously. hope that helps "

Thanks for the reply, Does help a bit. I've always looked at the squirting as a build to something bigger rather than the end goal but in this girls case it made the real orgasm more elusive. So the way you've put it there makes sense why she doesn't want to squirt.

We're all different and exploring what makes us all click is all part of the fun. But I'm not so proud not to ask sometimes. Than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really get off on making a women orgasm so when I can make a girl squirt its a huge turn on for me. Recently a FWB asked me to stop doing it to her because even although I can make it happen over and over she said it desensitises her, making a regular orgasm less likely. I was a little disheartened. Where I thought I was giving mind blowing orgasms turned out in this case was the opposite.

Any ladies out there want to enlighten me a bit more. I know we all like different things and the female orgasm is far more complex than us guys. Is this view on squirting shared widely? Obviously with this particular friend I no longer try and get her to do it."

I think she's been faking it and now she can't be arsed with it anymore.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Who told you the female orgasm is complicated?

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By *he way you move OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"Who told you the female orgasm is complicated?"

In comparison to a guy that is. We'll cum without much variation or complexity.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Who told you the female orgasm is complicated?

In comparison to a guy that is. We'll cum without much variation or complexity. "

Some women do too

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I really get off on making a women orgasm so when I can make a girl squirt its a huge turn on for me. Recently a FWB asked me to stop doing it to her because even although I can make it happen over and over she said it desensitises her, making a regular orgasm less likely. I was a little disheartened. Where I thought I was giving mind blowing orgasms turned out in this case was the opposite.

Any ladies out there want to enlighten me a bit more. I know we all like different things and the female orgasm is far more complex than us guys. Is this view on squirting shared widely? Obviously with this particular friend I no longer try and get her to do it.

so orgasms and squirting are two completely different sensations. and if your solely focused on the latter the important orgasms get forgotten about, think about it from a man’s perspective. i’d imagine squirting to be like pre cum for a man! it feels good it gets you going it lubes you up ready for what we really want. that mind blowing leg shaking orgasms. if we don’t get that you’ve just edged us and left us hanging. like not finishing your wank? wee need that end result eventually.

personal experience of it obviously. hope that helps "

100% agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy giving oral to women but the objective is orgasm. ‘Squirting’ is only a potential byproduct and not my objective. Not everyone does it or wants to.

Perhaps communication is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of guys I've spoken too believe squirting to be the only finish line there is .. its.so not the case sometimes it puts you off .. the added pressure to squirt everytime you have sex .. the good old fashioned orgasm.is just as enjoyable if not more ... also can get dehydration headaches through squirting

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Alot of guys I've spoken too believe squirting to be the only finish line there is .. its.so not the case sometimes it puts you off .. the added pressure to squirt everytime you have sex .. the good old fashioned orgasm.is just as enjoyable if not more ... also can get dehydration headaches through squirting "

Totally agree with this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems it’s an unrealistic education learned from porn. Again.

If only people knew how fake porn is. (Still serves a purpose tho. Not anti porn in any way)

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By *eo54321Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

When did squirting become such a “thing”? I don’t remember seeing it, at least so graphically, in porn until relatively recently? Was it in 80s and 90s porn and I just missed it? ??

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I really enjoy cuming through oral. If the guy then uses his hands to make me cum then goes back to oral the chances of me cuming are very slim. The only way I'm coming is with a hand or toy

Think of it as tickling your arm with a feather then scratching it. The feather doesn't feel the same

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"When did squirting become such a “thing”? I don’t remember seeing it, at least so graphically, in porn until relatively recently? Was it in 80s and 90s porn and I just missed it? ??"

Why is it bad that it's a "thing"

People just like it

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