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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Anyone feeling the same? Looking to explore my bi side more but everyone you approach seems very "unapproachable"

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Folk say that all the time. ‘It’s gone down hill!’

I imagine it has changed or evolved over the years. However, i’m here 5 years later and I still enjoy it. You get back what you put in. If I was not enjoying it, I would leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it has. I'm only still here for the forum, sometimes x

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Yeah but you get the ones who seem they shit gold haha plus too many timewasters x

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


"Yeah but you get the ones who seem they shit gold haha plus too many timewasters x"

I shit platinum. But humble with it...

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

You might of had some good ones in the 230 messages you deleted

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Yeah but you get the ones who seem they shit gold haha plus too many timewasters x"

Block them. First sniff of shit or time wasting, get rid. You owe them nothing. Be ruthless.

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

I’m a highlander maybe I can get it going back uphill

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"You might of had some good ones in the 230 messages you deleted "

I was thinking that too!

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Believe me we scanned through them and it was either dick pics or where they would like to cum or one of those copy and pasted messages haha. I mean cmon put a bit of fucking effort into a message haha.

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Yeah but you get the ones who seem they shit gold haha plus too many timewasters x

I shit platinum. But humble with it... "

Aslong as your humble then its all good haha xx

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"You might of had some good ones in the 230 messages you deleted "

There's a few aye, but still.. there's desperate and there's borderline obsession lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes downhill, sometimes uphill ,

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You’ll need to be the one that sends the messages to the guys you are interested in then and block guys from messaging you.

Make it clear in your profile that you’ll block dick pics and inappropriate messages.

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm new to fabswingers and I'm here to have fun. I have sent about 50 messages and no replys . I know what the sites says about no reply is not being rude just busy. But the same people that I message and get a non reply, they are able to post comments on to a forum. I do not get it. Has this site gone down hill lots of fakers on here no doubt on that.

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By *uriousnewcummerMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

It’s not the best…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said I'm leaving at 50..March.. but can honestly say I will before that..its full of wannabe pornstars and onlyfan chick's.

The actual swinging is getting lost I think.the standard of messages is drastically going downhill as fancy a fuvk hen is not my thing.

As iv been on here since my mid 30s iv seen and heard it all I thought but it's more and more a fetish site more and more a anything goes site which is cool but not the reason I joined those yrs ago.

Prob more my age now and what I'm looking for has changed ..ie just a normal guy looking hor normal sex

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Always said I'm leaving at 50..March.. but can honestly say I will before that..its full of wannabe pornstars and onlyfan chick's.

The actual swinging is getting lost I think.the standard of messages is drastically going downhill as fancy a fuvk hen is not my thing.

As iv been on here since my mid 30s iv seen and heard it all I thought but it's more and more a fetish site more and more a anything goes site which is cool but not the reason I joined those yrs ago.

Prob more my age now and what I'm looking for has changed ..ie just a normal guy looking hor normal sex "

So what was your reasons for joining fab. Mine was to find fun. But it seems to me that this site has its fair share of fakers one handed cock jockeys and loads of members up there and pretending to be elite.

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By *inthgowmale45Man
over a year ago

linlithgow

Ive been on and off fab for years deleting profiles sometimes and having a big break. Other times hidding profiles. Had some great meets earlier and connecting with people seemed easier back then. Might be the man to women ratio now. Not sure. I hardly meet anymore. Like the forums and of course the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always said I'm leaving at 50..March.. but can honestly say I will before that..its full of wannabe pornstars and onlyfan chick's.

The actual swinging is getting lost I think.the standard of messages is drastically going downhill as fancy a fuvk hen is not my thing.

As iv been on here since my mid 30s iv seen and heard it all I thought but it's more and more a fetish site more and more a anything goes site which is cool but not the reason I joined those yrs ago.

Prob more my age now and what I'm looking for has changed ..ie just a normal guy looking hor normal sex

So what was your reasons for joining fab. Mine was to find fun. But it seems to me that this site has its fair share of fakers one handed cock jockeys and loads of members up there and pretending to be elite. "
my reason was to meet other cpls with my husband which we did and it was fantastic...Scottish forum was more of a community which made the big social events a great night out and not so much a money making scheme.things evolve as do tastes so tried meeting separate also..hubby decided it wasn't as much fun as it was so happy for me to meet alone which is really few n far between now.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm fairly proactive in making fab work for me, so I really can't complain

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

No sure its gone down hill so much as its maybe evolved. The most basic description of swinging (in my mind) is couples meeting and sharing partners. Fab is a long way from that and with no restriction on who can join it is never going to be that. I doubt if most folk on here actually see themselves as swingers and just see the site as somewhere else to try and get sex. Maybe there should be a rethink on the structure of the website (like fabguys) or a place within it where by only couples can contact other users thus taking it back to being more of a swingers area? I dont know, but it works/doesnt work for everyone in a different way.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"I'm fairly proactive in making fab work for me, so I really can't complain "

This.....I think like any site, it is what you make it. I haven't been on fab long but can see it is far better than most for the social side of things

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Cheers for the replies folks, hopefully it gets better!

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


"Yeah but you get the ones who seem they shit gold haha plus too many timewasters x

I shit platinum. But humble with it...

Aslong as your humble then its all good haha xx"

I wrote the book on humility.

It's called " The five most humble people in the world, and how I met numbers 2 to 5".

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think it would be better if you block all from messaging you then do your own searches .

That way you are interacting with those who are of interest to you .

If you don’t the just delete all emails that contain dick pics .

I’d say using your filters is definitely the best way to go

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

It's been rather hit and miss for us for a long time, and covid didn't help.

The past couple of months we have been very proactive and things are a lot different, hopefully it stays that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say it's went downhill, it's definitely not got any better either, what I've noticed is people are less willing to chat and come online looking for exactly what they want and nothing less, why not, don't want to waste anyone's time I guess.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We've been members, off and on, since 2004 and we both think it has gone downhill. They have also had issues with people setting up fake profiles but there appears to be a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you delete 230 messages without speaking to anyone then it might not be the site that's the problem

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"If you delete 230 messages without speaking to anyone then it might not be the site that's the problem "

We've only deleted 183 messages so it's not our problem

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By *nbhir Air DuineMan
over a year ago

Ayr


"Of course it has. I'm only still here for the forum, sometimes x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes through spells where I think it is.

Like most things though, you get out of it what you put in.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

I have been on Fab in various guises, for years and it has always been much the same: up hill and down dale, it's just that one gets better at recognising the 'danger steep hill' signs.

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By *art-time321Man
over a year ago

renfrewshire

Your right it seems to come in Waves and an occasional sunami for no reason.lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It waxes and wanes I’ve been on and off for years. Goes in phases like many things.

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By *implyfun1Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It has its good days and bad days i think.

If you come on with no expectations then you shouldn’t be disappointed

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I think the actual swinging element of FAB has changed. People use the site for all kinds of reasons ie chatting, meeting 1-1, posting pics on a daily basis but never meeting ….. I’m not stating there is anything wrong with that people are free to use the site as they wish but in terms of swinging I think it has gone downhill yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been shit since Carlos Fandangos left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the actual swinging element of FAB has changed. People use the site for all kinds of reasons ie chatting, meeting 1-1, posting pics on a daily basis but never meeting ….. I’m not stating there is anything wrong with that people are free to use the site as they wish but in terms of swinging I think it has gone downhill yes. "

Yeah, if you look at a lot of the top videos it's basically like Tik Tok. Folk twerking to Nicky Minaj. I know I'm just turning into an old bint but can't help thinking "wtf is that all aboot?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been shit since Carlos Fandangos left. "

He left a big boabie shaped hole that simply can't be filled.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

This is something which is raised from time to time. My pennies worth.

Fab evolves, I've done the swinging thing years ago now, and had a measure of success in attracting ladies. But that was 15 or so years ago, now I'm having zero success.

Most recently, I was fortunate to have 2 longish FWB relationships.

So is it going downhill? Maybes aye, maybes no!!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Anyone feeling the same? Looking to explore my bi side more but everyone you approach seems very "unapproachable"

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Hey beautiful! After reading your profile, I'm sure you've just not stumbled across the perfectly matched profiles yet!

Cjs soon ? We love fun bants ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone feeling the same? Looking to explore my bi side more but everyone you approach seems very "unapproachable"

Hey beautiful! After reading your profile, I'm sure you've just not stumbled across the perfectly matched profiles yet!

Cjs soon ? We love fun bants ! X"

D'awww...ain't that sweet!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Anyone feeling the same? Looking to explore my bi side more but everyone you approach seems very "unapproachable"

Hey beautiful! After reading your profile, I'm sure you've just not stumbled across the perfectly matched profiles yet!

Cjs soon ? We love fun bants ! X

D'awww...ain't that sweet! "

I do try Nah, I know what Fab is like, one month in on it all the time, then the next absolutely Nothing interests me haha..

But definitely feeling Cjs again after last weeks visit

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"It's been shit since Carlos Fandangos left.

He left a big boabie shaped hole that simply can't be filled."

Lmao

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By *onnieandClyde08 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Anyone feeling the same? Looking to explore my bi side more but everyone you approach seems very "unapproachable"

Hey beautiful! After reading your profile, I'm sure you've just not stumbled across the perfectly matched profiles yet!

Cjs soon ? We love fun bants ! X"

Hmmm perhaps not, just looking at yours though and I'm intrigued! Yeah im definitely down to pop the CJ's cherry! tell me more! I love bants

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By *AVERICK7Man
over a year ago

alexandria

The elite,hits it on the head, so many people so far up their own arse now,

Was on years ago and you didnt have to go through the whole interview with cv and references

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. Im part of a couple but we play separate so maybe don't fall in to the typical idea of swingers. But judging from the messages my wife gets there appears to be a lot of single guys out there with a sever lack of vocabulary and reading skills

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

It’s getting better as more TVs and CDs join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience definitely. I first started here as a single well over ten years ago and had some great meets. 1to1 group, parties and CJs. yes it took some effort but FUN occurred.

Life gets in the way and things change but there’s certainly a culture now of “look at me, FAB my pics “ that has crept in and of course the Pandemic didn’t help.

I do feel for us clubs will be the way forward as life’s pretty full and We just actually want to meet strangers that want to get naked …..when the fancy takes us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The elite,hits it on the head, so many people so far up their own arse now,

Was on years ago and you didnt have to go through the whole interview with cv and references "

THIS ……it’s supposed to be casual encounters no need for National Insurance No and “where do you see yourself in five years time?”

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We joined almost 5 years ago to find friends in the scene. Also to find out events/clubs info and post sexy pictures.

We come and go from fab, we have disappeared twice this year for a couple of months at a time.

Each time we have come back fab just feels different. It's more a sex site than a swingers site. Then we get abuse for saying no or not replying to vile approaches.

I know this issue has always been the case, it just seems to have increased. Maybe the rota of men to couples to females is completely out of sync oh and add in the fakes.

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s like life…..ups and downs and swings and roundabouts.

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By *astmale123Man
over a year ago

Parkhead Glasgow

I think they need to update the search/filter /looking for technology, its quite difficult to find people you want to message and block idiots. Definitely less genuine people and more fake couples , fantasy land guys on now

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