FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Scotland

Here’s a question…

Jump to newest
 

By *uriousnewcummer OP   Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Do straight guys mind when curious/gay guys compliment on their photos? Or send messages of compliment?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking to meet gay/bi guys so have them blocked.

Any guy moaning about attention from gay/bi guys who doesn't have them blocked is at it. Lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousnewcummer OP   Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

That makes sense haha!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a guy but a compliment is a compliment.

The problem arises when folk become fucking pears after you say "Thank you".

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*pests

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"*pests "

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you mind getting a compliment?? You'd have to be a real tit to not want a compliment on the grounds of gender - this is not the 70s. A compliment form a guy is not going to "turn you" or diminish your blokey credentials if we see a great pic it gets fabbed, regardless of gender.

Mr.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"*pests "

I'd rather be a pear than a pest

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, I've seen them posting about it on here, asking how to block men from seeing their profile at all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I often get fabbed from "straight /bi and gay guys ..it really doesnt bother me ..however as i have guys blocked they cant message me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousnewcummer OP   Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Nice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my past 100 viewed by, it generally goes 90 Male, 4 couple, 3 TV, 1 Woman.

I chat regularly with a couple of lovely ladies, but every now and then a message pops up from a guy. Like Miss Muff said, a compliment is a compliment, so I'm polite and the conversation usually drops shortly afterwards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie


"Do straight guys mind when curious/gay guys compliment on their photos? Or send messages of compliment? "

I don't complain or get fussed when I get fabs, compliments and offers from straight married guys. Even if I wanted to they've usually got me blocked, very strange.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).

At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.

I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.

Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan.

C x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oyeur 777Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).

At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.

I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.

Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan.

C x "

Totally agree, I don't mind letting a guy know when he's handsome.

I'm not bi or gay, can just appreciate a good looking person whether man or woman when I see one.

The problem for me arises when my profile clearly says straight but I have men messaging me telling what they'd like to do to me.

Surely they can just look up bi or gay men to message?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind and I'll chat to anyone decent. Just don't get offended that I don't want my cock sucked because you said I have a nice elbow.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).

At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.

I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.

Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan.

C x

Totally agree, I don't mind letting a guy know when he's handsome.

I'm not bi or gay, can just appreciate a good looking person whether man or woman when I see one.

The problem for me arises when my profile clearly says straight but I have men messaging me telling what they'd like to do to me.

Surely they can just look up bi or gay men to message?"

I can see why that would be frustrating.

I guess the easiest way to avoid that would just be to block messages from single guys in message filters and not pin it all on your requests in your profile. That's exactly what we did when we joined as we knew it was likely, due to the huge number of single guys messaging us within minutes of joining, we would continue to receive contact from those not reading our profile. Sadly, it seems not all that many on the site actually check anyone's bios anyway...

C x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking to meet gay/bi guys so have them blocked.

Any guy moaning about attention from gay/bi guys who doesn't have them blocked is at it. Lol. "
this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *enni WhiteTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.

I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.

I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him.."

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.

I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him.."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind and I'll chat to anyone decent. Just don't get offended that I don't want my cock sucked because you said I have a nice elbow. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Doesn't bother me, in fact my photos have been liked by more men than women

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

If a gay guy doesn’t give you compliment it’s over !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Nah, all compliments are good.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I think if straight guys haven't blocked guys from messaging them, then they're open to compliments.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A compliment is a compliment.

Maybe guys that complain about this kind of thing are trying to cover up for something.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A compliment should be taken as intended regardless of who it's from. If you're not comfortable with compliments from the same sex and you haven't blocked them from messaging you then you may be in denial. Just my humble opinion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top