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"I don't get them very often tbh but if I get a fucking pest after politely declining then I just block them. Don't engage or attempt to reason. Funnily enough, after being called a stuck up cow I'm even less likely to want to pump them in the backseat of their Corsa....who'd have thunk it. You'll drive yourself mad trying to figure out folks' motives for saying or doing things on here. I've had equally nasty messages from females too btw. " Haha thing is after they give me abuse im either a fat cow amd he didnt want to meet anyway or they ask u sure u dont want to meet. Women have sent me abuse as well and also badmouthed me to guys but thats a sign of insecurity on their part x | |||
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"Just block them OP. I block for other reasons, mainly crude messages because I don't get nasty messages so doesn't really apply. Forget about them and move on honey x" I have. It just pisses me off cos im not nasty to anyone but hey theres nowt as queer as folk x | |||
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"Just block them OP. I block for other reasons, mainly crude messages because I don't get nasty messages so doesn't really apply. Forget about them and move on honey x I have. It just pisses me off cos im not nasty to anyone but hey theres nowt as queer as folk x " Especially on here  x | |||
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"The problem is theirs not yours. Block and move on, they will too, probably to some other undeserving woman. " I know. Just helps to vent sometimes  | |||
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"Just block them OP. I block for other reasons, mainly crude messages because I don't get nasty messages so doesn't really apply. Forget about them and move on honey x I have. It just pisses me off cos im not nasty to anyone but hey theres nowt as queer as folk x Especially on here x" | |||
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"Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? When i 1st joined i tried tonreply to all messages usually with a "sorry not meeting anyone new" bit got replies ranging from trying to change my mind to name calling . So i added " if i dont teply im not interested" to my profile. So tonite after getting half a dozen messages to which i didnt reply i got a nasty message saying "Manners cost nothing but u obviously left urs in 2015 and replaced them with ur profile picture which is a bit disingenious dont u think" As he isnt verified i presume hes sitting scratching his head wondering why no one replies ?? "Block and report | |||
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"I don't get them very often tbh but if I get a fucking pest after politely declining then I just block them. Don't engage or attempt to reason. Funnily enough, after being called a stuck up cow I'm even less likely to want to pump them in the backseat of their Corsa....who'd have thunk it. You'll drive yourself mad trying to figure out folks' motives for saying or doing things on here. I've had equally nasty messages from females too btw. Haha thing is after they give me abuse im either a fat cow amd he didnt want to meet anyway or they ask u sure u dont want to meet. Women have sent me abuse as well and also badmouthed me to guys but thats a sign of insecurity on their part x " I honestly don’t get any although yes some have got a bit arsey if I’ve not replied to their messages but that’s no big deal I just ignore them . Women on the other hand yes I’ve had a couple who have done the same to me who have never met me and know nothing about me . Only advice I can give is the same as the others don’t give them the time of day just block & report if you feel you have to and move on . | |||
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"Aint just the ladies who get them,fabs changed so much over the years,many people have an aura of elitism about them nowadays and feel they have a superiority over others and think its fair to berate and belittle people to keep their heads in the clouds,and also the 6 day newbies who think it`s an asda click n collect site and get all stroppy when someone says no." This  | |||
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"Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? When i 1st joined i tried tonreply to all messages usually with a "sorry not meeting anyone new" bit got replies ranging from trying to change my mind to name calling . So i added " if i dont teply im not interested" to my profile. So tonite after getting half a dozen messages to which i didnt reply i got a nasty message saying "Manners cost nothing but u obviously left urs in 2015 and replaced them with ur profile picture which is a bit disingenious dont u think" As he isnt verified i presume hes sitting scratching his head wondering why no one replies ??
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"Yes. If someone is being abusive you should block and report the message to admin. | |||
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"I've had a few nasty messages from woman claiming they want to cover me in baby oil and feck my brains out. They wanted to rip my clothes off, sit me on a chair, make me watch 6 women have sex with one another then cover me in champayne and they could all lick it off. It was ridiculous..I reported it to admin for advice. I didn't know if i should wear my denim shirt or my good Versace one. Honest.. "The cheapo primark one. Rips easily   | |||
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"Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? When i 1st joined i tried tonreply to all messages usually with a "sorry not meeting anyone new" bit got replies ranging from trying to change my mind to name calling . So i added " if i dont teply im not interested" to my profile. So tonite after getting half a dozen messages to which i didnt reply i got a nasty message saying "Manners cost nothing but u obviously left urs in 2015 and replaced them with ur profile picture which is a bit disingenious dont u think" As he isnt verified i presume hes sitting scratching his head wondering why no one replies ?? ""Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? When i 1st joined i tried tonreply to all messages usually with a "sorry not meeting anyone new" bit got replies ranging from trying to change my mind to name calling . So i added " if i dont teply im not interested" to my profile. So tonite after getting half a dozen messages to which i didnt reply i got a nasty message saying "Manners cost nothing but u obviously left urs in 2015 and replaced them with ur profile picture which is a bit disingenious dont u think" As he isnt verified i presume hes sitting scratching his head wondering why no one replies ?? "Sorry to hear about this. You replied with the best of intentions as well. It's ironic considering that it's their aggressive reactions which have caused you to not reply anymore. They're just idiots. If not replying to messages is preventing you getting this kind of abuse, then it's good that you stopped | |||
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"Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? " Report, block, delete, forget about it (keyboard warrior, entitled egotistical small dick syndrome!). Next... Nothing else to think about. It's that simple | |||
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"...small dick syndrome!" This is the 90% of the cases.. | |||
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"...small dick syndrome! This is the 90% of the cases.." Does this mean I have to start sending abusive messages?  | |||
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"Ladies, how do un deal with bitter nasty messages? When i 1st joined i tried tonreply to all messages usually with a "sorry not meeting anyone new" bit got replies ranging from trying to change my mind to name calling . So i added " if i dont teply im not interested" to my profile. So tonite after getting half a dozen messages to which i didnt reply i got a nasty message saying "Manners cost nothing but u obviously left urs in 2015 and replaced them with ur profile picture which is a bit disingenious dont u think" As he isnt verified i presume hes sitting scratching his head wondering why no one replies ?? "I got a nasty message the other day from someone I’d been chatting too and agreed to a social with. He wasn’t for me, there was no spark at all when he met, he did all he could to get me back to his (even walking to the meeting place in the hope of a lift home) kept saying all the things he’d like to do, oh just come to mine for a juice…. A coffee…. We could have a wee play….. all the while I’m saying no….. in the end I took him back, then he’s inviting me down whenever to watch a movie… (I can do that in my own house) so when I got home I sent him a polite message explaining he’s not for me, and we should leave it at that. What he replied was plain nasty and really knocked my confidence, he threw his toys out his pram. | |||
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"It really is all part and parcel of being on a free site like this. You’ll always get them, you just have to grow a thicker skin and take it with a pinch of salt. "It happens on paid sites as well. In fact, with some twats the more they’ve paid the more entitled they are so the nastier they get when turned down. | |||
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"It really is all part and parcel of being on a free site like this. You’ll always get them, you just have to grow a thicker skin and take it with a pinch of salt.
It happens on paid sites as well.
In fact, with some twats the more they’ve paid the more entitled they are so the nastier they get when turned down."I know. Its more to do with personality ( or lack of) than how much u pay x | |||
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"Sorry to intrude on a thread aimed at the ladies, but abusive messages come from female members too. Had one this evening saying I don't deserve to meet anyone due to being 'pig ugly'. If people don't like how I look, just scroll on through. No need to be insulting "Too many arseholes on here with enormous egos. And hidden behind their keyboards they'll pull out all the stops. Report and block and don't give it a second thought x | |||
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"Too many arseholes on here with enormous egos. And hidden behind their keyboards they'll pull out all the stops. Report and block and don't give it a second thought x" Yeah have reported/blocked. Makes you wonder what they get out of being like that x. | |||
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"Sorry to intrude on a thread aimed at the ladies, but abusive messages come from female members too. Had one this evening saying I don't deserve to meet anyone due to being 'pig ugly'. If people don't like how I look, just scroll on through. No need to be insulting "some people are just horrible … I hope you reported this ? | |||
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"It's a very different level on here. Being called nasty names, insulted etc is one thing that we all unfortunately get used to on social media. Block, delete and move on. That being said, the amount of death and r*** threats on messages is beyond a joke. And fab often does nothing when they are reported. They are horrible to receive, get tiring and can scare some women off the scene altogether. Something really does need to be done to get their profiles removed permanently. Jigs xx " Rape threats !!! No way that should be reported police not fab that's disgusting | |||
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"It's a very different level on here. Being called nasty names, insulted etc is one thing that we all unfortunately get used to on social media. Block, delete and move on. That being said, the amount of death and r*** threats on messages is beyond a joke. And fab often does nothing when they are reported. They are horrible to receive, get tiring and can scare some women off the scene altogether. Something really does need to be done to get their profiles removed permanently. Jigs xx Rape threats !!! No way that should be reported police not fab that's disgusting" The advice you'd get from the police is to come off the site. Until someone appears on your doorstep they won't do anything. And if a profile is permanently removed, they'd just come back with another one. | |||
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"It's a very different level on here. Being called nasty names, insulted etc is one thing that we all unfortunately get used to on social media. Block, delete and move on. That being said, the amount of death and r*** threats on messages is beyond a joke. And fab often does nothing when they are reported. They are horrible to receive, get tiring and can scare some women off the scene altogether. Something really does need to be done to get their profiles removed permanently. Jigs xx Rape threats !!! No way that should be reported police not fab that's disgusting The advice you'd get from the police is to come off the site. Until someone appears on your doorstep they won't do anything. And if a profile is permanently removed, they'd just come back with another one." The good still outweighs the bad though. Otherwise I wouldn't be on here x | |||
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"It's a very different level on here. Being called nasty names, insulted etc is one thing that we all unfortunately get used to on social media. Block, delete and move on. That being said, the amount of death and r*** threats on messages is beyond a joke. And fab often does nothing when they are reported. They are horrible to receive, get tiring and can scare some women off the scene altogether. Something really does need to be done to get their profiles removed permanently. Jigs xx Rape threats !!! No way that should be reported police not fab that's disgusting The advice you'd get from the police is to come off the site. Until someone appears on your doorstep they won't do anything. And if a profile is permanently removed, they'd just come back with another one." I'm actually sickened by what I'm reading I've made silly comments pissed and frustrated but that's no excuse, but to make threats like that is a whole other level think my times nearing a end on here tbh some sick things | |||
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"Very simplistic - delete block next.. No point in getting worked up or taking anything to heart. Keyboard warriors with nothing better to do than belittle woman to try and make them feel vulnerable.. Don't deserve the time of day.. "Missed out BLOCK also.. | |||
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