FabSwingers.com forum: Are you an instigator ?

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Well as the title says are you and insigator or one who sits back and waits to see what happens ?

I mean both in asking people to meet and in a meet situation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely message people, dunno why, just us. In a meet situation, always go with the flow,

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

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Sit and wait kind of people never quiet sure how to approach the subject so willing just to wait till asked

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I do bit of both if i fancy someone enough il ask to meet also instigate fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might instigate chat but at a meet its up to the fem to instigate "fun". We find in general if the women are happy everybodys happy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no shy so always say hi I'm not desperate so never pester

In bedroom I'm dominant and lead (can be as Dom as other wants )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both for me. If I see it and want it i'll go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess that 99% of instigation is done by the couples and single fems on here.. us single guys are inundated with offers and just sit and wait, choosing the best after remaining aloof for a bit.... wait, oh no, I've got that wrong..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly wait....but have been known to send the odd wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just give the girls a freddo bar and i am on my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both for me. If I see it and want it i'll go for it

Waiting in background kicking ma feet here feel free to have a wee wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy to instigate in any circumstance. It pays to be a little bold sometimes. If I've misread the situation, then 'no' is the worst that can happen really.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm quite happy to instigate in any circumstance. It pays to be a little bold sometimes. If I've misread the situation, then 'no' is the worst that can happen really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would guess that 99% of instigation is done by the couples and single fems on here.. us single guys are inundated with offers and just sit and wait, choosing the best after remaining aloof for a bit.... wait, oh no, I've got that wrong..lol"

You as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never instigate...too busy replying to messages received

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Im an instigator and firestarter and possibly an alligator in a previous life lol but I can respect other people's personal preferences and varying pace of engagement in indulging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you know,,,probably people see us as instigators, but we are not. some people get us(like you do) and some people dont. never scared to comment or ask for anything. we like joining in on the fun,,lol

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