FabSwingers.com forum: Regrets

By *bwgirlygirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does anyone ever posted photos or videos and wish you hadn't. Has anyone ever been recognised. Have you recognised anyone. I notice there are a lot more female photos/videos than males. Are the males more shy or are they just not as daft to have their face spewed online

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Both been recognised and recognised some people from here 1 that I know recognised me was someone I'd had a meet with before but tbh was a glance at each other then looked away and my face is up here BTW truly as I've got to the age where I don't really care no more were all adults or meant to be

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

I'm just daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d put pictures on our couples profile and someone my missus knew messaged and asked if it was her, she said no but became a bit of a pest, had to warn him off. I regret posting this pictures and not blanking out some areas.

Other time someone knew me but I didn’t care about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few .. but then again too few to mention

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I had someone say they recognised a tattoo of mine and they knew exactly who I was. After a chat, they did not recognise the tattoo and did not know who I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup been recognised and pestered on more than one occasion. So now pay more attentions to the pics I put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had a few .. but then again too few to mention "

Did you see it through wihtout exemption?

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By *ab365XMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Yeah, I planned each charted course

Each careful step along the byway

And more, much, much more

I did it, I did it my way

Yes, there were times I'm sure you knew

When I bit off more than I could chew

But through it all, when there was doubt

I ate it up and spit it out

I faced it all and I stood tall and did it my way

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"Does anyone ever posted photos or videos and wish you hadn't. Has anyone ever been recognised. Have you recognised anyone. I notice there are a lot more female photos/videos than males. Are the males more shy or are they just not as daft to have their face spewed online

One of the reasons I don’t have pics on here and don’t send any not even in a relationship

My ex and father of my two youngest used pics of me to pretend to be a younger female and chat to other females on lesbian dating sites

Then to rub salt on old wounds when I split from another long term relationship he threatened to publish stuff online and send to my work and childrens nursery so had to involve police and military police

Once bitten twice shy ! The only naked me a guy gets to see how is with his two eyes in person and as for videos use your memory for those ! And as well I also don’t send face pics either if you wanna see just how fucking hot and sexy I am come meet me for a coffee or come say hi in a club

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By *rBlueCarMan
over a year ago

Lanark

I've not been recognised on the street or anything and haven't had anyone "spot" me online, but I found my uncle's couple profile on here and my cousin (other side of the family) on Fet...

Oh, actually, there was an incident years ago where a colleague e-mailed me a screenshot of my profile from another site. Got HR involved there pretty quick! They didn't need to know what site, fortunately

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I have been recognised a few times and spotted a few familiar faces over the years.

Sometimes it ended up a knowing look, another some truly amazing sex, once super awkward as his girlfriend now fiance and mother of offspring didn't know he was on here.

It is part of the reason I'm so good at the customer interaction side of my job; always be nice and friendly, you never know who you'll meet at a club or online

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No regrets

But back when we first became more active Mrs told a few of her friends what we we're doing. One if them wanted to come with us to CJs one night and joined fab but never put any pics up.

Night came to go to CJs and she bottled it but she then told everyone about us and showed Mrs solo profile off to people that knew us.

Tbh most of the responses from people were quite positive.

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By *enni WhiteTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

As long as you did it your way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Je ne regret rien.

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By *ac_ShelbyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I try to be careful with pics on here, don't even like background being shown. I'm probably being overly precautious, but wouldn't feel comfortable posting otherwise.

It obviously doesn't bother some people, which is fine, but if you want to be in control of who sees your pics and who knows you're on fab then the less recognisable the better.

Recognised a few people on here, one girl I know pretty well, and a guy I used to work with liked one of my pics a while ago which was a bit of a shock haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets they don't work

No regrets they only hurt

Sing me a love song

Drop me a line

Suppose it's just a point of view

But they tell me I'm doing fine

Tuuunnnneeee

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"I try to be careful with pics on here, don't even like background being shown. I'm probably being overly precautious, but wouldn't feel comfortable posting otherwise.

It obviously doesn't bother some people, which is fine, but if you want to be in control of who sees your pics and who knows you're on fab then the less recognisable the better.

Recognised a few people on here, one girl I know pretty well, and a guy I used to work with liked one of my pics a while ago which was a bit of a shock haha. "

Very nice pics

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By *ac_ShelbyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Very nice pics

Why thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember revenge porn and publishing of pics is illegal, they can be prosecuted for it.

You’ll get a bit embarrassed by going to the Police but they are counting on you not approaching the Police.

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By *ikerBloke...Man
over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth

Regrets..............i`ve had a few,but then again,too few to mention...........

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I have face pics on my profile and have been recognised a few times which is understandable.

I am not ashamed of my lifestyle, its not illegal, so it doesn't matter to us who knows.

No regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised someone who it turns out we were following each other on Instagram. I mentioned the Insta connection when we’d chatted on here. Hindsight being the wonderful thing it is I wouldn’t have now. Looking back could have seemed a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it would turn me on if I recognised a neighbour in here. But I assume guys that are hiding photos are like me and married

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I recognised someone who it turns out we were following each other on Instagram. I mentioned the Insta connection when we’d chatted on here. Hindsight being the wonderful thing it is I wouldn’t have now. Looking back could have seemed a bit odd. "

As odd as your user name, Cornholio?

I’ve never had a video or picture used against me. I would hope that anyone who has access to them is mature enough to not be a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As odd as your user name, Cornholio?

I’ve never had a video or picture used against me. I would hope that anyone who has access to them is mature enough to not be a dick. "

Ach what’s a user name among ‘Friends’ eh?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

As odd as your user name, Cornholio?

I’ve never had a video or picture used against me. I would hope that anyone who has access to them is mature enough to not be a dick.

Ach what’s a user name among ‘Friends’ eh?

Smarty pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. That's why I don't post any explicit pics.

I just arrive in chat at half 11 on a Saturday night, half cut and act like I'm auditioning for a geriatric strip club

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