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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile advice is subject to different opinions I'd guess , but I'd say a face picture might help folk determine their physical attraction right away ,rather than chatting, swapping pics for them to decide your not their type .

This happens alot on here I'm sure , but nothing to do with anything other than time wasters and people's choices . Maybe open up to couples to, some couples play separately at times or not much involvement from males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics and profile seem fine to us. On our opinion keep the face pics until you're chatting to someone privately.

Most of us like our discretion, you have stated what you're looking for so as soon as someone reads the profile they know you're not looking for males or couples.

Get on the forums and see if there are any group socials near to you

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Profile looks OK, a few more pics might be helpful and possibly a bit more info about what you have to offer a single female, why should she meet you rather than the thousands of single males or other couples?

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

Looks like a fake profile to me. Better off getting a single guys profile if you're only looking for girls. You'll get accused of being a time waster, fantasist etc but not fake.

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

A couple only wanting to meet single females and all female couples. Good luck with that one. I think you really have to work hard at that. I had a mf couple profile years ago with my fab friend and finding a single lady was very very difficult and two ladies in a couple virtually impossible.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It rarely if ever sounds convincing when the woman of a couple is pimping her man out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit your profile is one that I (mrs) would block if it showed up in a search within our radius. When I see too much emphasis on the male half meeting alone, more pics of the male than the female in a couple, and meets advertised because the male half is in the area and his Mrs would like to see pics of the meet, I suspect its a guy posing as a couple. Good luck though

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket


"A couple only wanting to meet single females and all female couples. Good luck with that one. I think you really have to work hard at that. I had a mf couple profile years ago with my fab friend and finding a single lady was very very difficult and two ladies in a couple virtually impossible. "

Virtually??????? I imagine you could have left that word out of your post.

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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow Edinburgh Leeds Manchester


"I have to admit your profile is one that I (mrs) would block if it showed up in a search within our radius. When I see too much emphasis on the male half meeting alone, more pics of the male than the female in a couple, and meets advertised because the male half is in the area and his Mrs would like to see pics of the meet, I suspect its a guy posing as a couple. Good luck though "

100% agreed with this.

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By *bzHotCplCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *bzHotCplCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I have to admit your profile is one that I (mrs) would block if it showed up in a search within our radius. When I see too much emphasis on the male half meeting alone, more pics of the male than the female in a couple, and meets advertised because the male half is in the area and his Mrs would like to see pics of the meet, I suspect its a guy posing as a couple. Good luck though "

Totally agree. That’s what it looks like…

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I have to admit your profile is one that I (mrs) would block if it showed up in a search within our radius. When I see too much emphasis on the male half meeting alone, more pics of the male than the female in a couple, and meets advertised because the male half is in the area and his Mrs would like to see pics of the meet, I suspect its a guy posing as a couple. Good luck though "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks like a fake couple to me. Single guy trying the old 'permission to play solo' line.

But the guy has done well with all the profile views and comments as a result of his post.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

To me it looks like the profile has been put together by a man. Two of the females pictures look like they have been taken while she was asleep. (Different bedding too….you’d think you’d be doing all your initial pics together). The emphasis is on Stu, both on pics and on bio.

It screams WARNING to me.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated. "

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough

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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow Edinburgh Leeds Manchester


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough "

Well considering what the OP stated in first instance and the woman/couple comments in this thread, we wouldn't be so optimistics.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough

Well considering what the OP stated in first instance and the woman/couple comments in this thread, we wouldn't be so optimistics."

How does photo verification work for couples? Do both have to show their faces, or could he get away with only showing himself?

If they are photo verified, I would just assume they have both been seen by admin

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough

Well considering what the OP stated in first instance and the woman/couple comments in this thread, we wouldn't be so optimistics.

How does photo verification work for couples? Do both have to show their faces, or could he get away with only showing himself?

If they are photo verified, I would just assume they have both been seen by admin"

Photoshop or equivalent

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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow Edinburgh Leeds Manchester


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough

Well considering what the OP stated in first instance and the woman/couple comments in this thread, we wouldn't be so optimistics.

How does photo verification work for couples? Do both have to show their faces, or could he get away with only showing himself?

If they are photo verified, I would just assume they have both been seen by admin

Photoshop or equivalent "

Exactly.

Verification from accredited people, that's would be something real.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Hey guys TY for reading. We were wondering if yous could look at our profile and offer any tips. We are looking for a lady to join us and we are happy to travel. We seem to get some people responding and sharing pics then they just stop talking when you ask about meeting.

Stuart also has permission to play alone but we can't always search for LF man as we are a joint account.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Profile looks fine to me .

I can't imagine you have any trouble generating interest. It's quite a common problem on here to get people who flake out when it comes to organising meets. There are quite threads on the forums about this kind of frustration.

Personally, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find the right ones soon enough

Well considering what the OP stated in first instance and the woman/couple comments in this thread, we wouldn't be so optimistics.

How does photo verification work for couples? Do both have to show their faces, or could he get away with only showing himself?

If they are photo verified, I would just assume they have both been seen by admin

Photoshop or equivalent "

I guess so, just seems like a lot more effort and hassle than just starting a profile as a single guy. He's bound to get found out eventually if he's lying

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"A couple only wanting to meet single females and all female couples. Good luck with that one. I think you really have to work hard at that. I had a mf couple profile years ago with my fab friend and finding a single lady was very very difficult and two ladies in a couple virtually impossible.

Virtually??????? I imagine you could have left that word out of your post."

I know.... But I thought maybe a couple somewhere, in a parallel universe may have met a ff couple

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By *veryMansDreamCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A couple only wanting to meet single females and all female couples. Good luck with that one. I think you really have to work hard at that. I had a mf couple profile years ago with my fab friend and finding a single lady was very very difficult and two ladies in a couple virtually impossible.

Virtually??????? I imagine you could have left that word out of your post.

I know.... But I thought maybe a couple somewhere, in a parallel universe may have met a ff couple "
We have met a few couples

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By *irtycumboCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your a new account.....get to some socials etc and get veris then ppl will know your real and not time wasters etc

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"A couple only wanting to meet single females and all female couples. Good luck with that one. I think you really have to work hard at that. I had a mf couple profile years ago with my fab friend and finding a single lady was very very difficult and two ladies in a couple virtually impossible.

Virtually??????? I imagine you could have left that word out of your post.

I know.... But I thought maybe a couple somewhere, in a parallel universe may have met a ff couple We have met a few couples "

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

TY for your help we will have a look at this.

Have you got any advice on getting rid of the fake look all the rest are talking about.

As it is we are just thinking of deleting as we have only chatted to one or two people then they stop talking (feels like bots)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both showed in the pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have tryed but even social meets fall apart.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Popcorn anyone ?

Grab a seat over here.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"We have tryed but even social meets fall apart. "

Look for organised group socials…gets you involved in the scene, get a couple veris and it’s easier to stand out in person than over messages.

Not sure if Perth would have regular socials but you could check in the meets section, otherwise Dundee may have more; Dundee also has the club Kudos if you are looking to socialise/meet in a swinging club setting.

Agree with other comments; need to find a way to stand out…why would a single woman meet you over other single guys/couples?

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