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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever make exceptions to the normal rules you have for meeting fabbers?

I tend to say no to people just visiting the area but damn, a real hottie just mailed me!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do you ever make exceptions to the normal rules you have for meeting fabbers?

I tend to say no to people just visiting the area but damn, a real hottie just mailed me! "

I don’t understand why people won’t meet people just visiting the area as it’s no different to meeting a one off local

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By *ocalfun888Man
over a year ago

Angus

Met an unverified couple once..... a few red flags in the chats we were having....

My only explanation is they subliminally tampered my mind

Turns out to be one of the best fab encounters I’ve ever had

Never done it since though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you ever make exceptions to the normal rules you have for meeting fabbers?

I tend to say no to people just visiting the area but damn, a real hottie just mailed me! I don’t understand why people won’t meet people just visiting the area as it’s no different to meeting a one off local "

For me I'm not really looking for one off meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but I learned some lessons the hard way. Sticking to my rules/boundaries guarantees me decent meets and so far so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any rules as I feel it puts barriers in my way.

However, I there is one situation that I doubt I'll put myself in again as it didn't work for me, never say never though.

I just do what feels right for me at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only rule I won't budge on is you have to be green tick verified before any social or otherwise meet with me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have a way that I like to go about things, rather than rules

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Do you ever make exceptions to the normal rules you have for meeting fabbers?

I tend to say no to people just visiting the area but damn, a real hottie just mailed me! "

Yes all the time

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Do you ever make exceptions to the normal rules you have for meeting fabbers?

I tend to say no to people just visiting the area but damn, a real hottie just mailed me! I don’t understand why people won’t meet people just visiting the area as it’s no different to meeting a one off local "

I prefer not to do one offs

And then you make the exception and like five months later maybe more you’re still texting that guy who is the only one out his team keeps getting sent to Southampton when the rest of them are five minutes up the road lol I do keep joking I might go flirt with his work colleagues cause there are a few fit ones but then he gets all upset lol I told him it was a bad idea to swap phone numbers lol

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I have self imposed rules for meeting but I break them all the time. No discipline, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are your rules , break them if you feel you want to. End of the day a guy passing through can just as easily be asked for a social and if the feelings are good a bit of fun can be had.

Rather than talking to a local guy for a while , then arranging a meet that doesn't go that well and you don't meet again.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I have certain rules/boundaries that are set in stone, others are a bit more flexible

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I stick with my social meet first rule. I have been known to play the same day but not often.

It does help out with those that don’t respect your choices.

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By *n_the_air_tonightMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *n_the_air_tonightMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have pretty simple rules but I really do stick to them - the person needs to be photo-verified before I meet, and I need to see at least one or two clear face pics. I think these are the bare minimum so I wouldn't let anyone break these rules

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