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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. " ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored. | |||
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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored." Sorry but I think you need to look up the definition of ignorance. That’s not what you’re describing. And it’s a pretty strong word to apply to anyone unless you know them well enough to call them ignorant. | |||
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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored. Sorry but I think you need to look up the definition of ignorance. That’s not what you’re describing. And it’s a pretty strong word to apply to anyone unless you know them well enough to call them ignorant. " Aprt from you playing to female audience my interpration is that when someone reads a question...and not a met request... just wanting to know what they put on profile and total no reply thaylts is being ignorant. As for stating not true meaning use your head that is someone being ignorant...you want to play further female audience to put u in lights carry on | |||
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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored. Sorry but I think you need to look up the definition of ignorance. That’s not what you’re describing. And it’s a pretty strong word to apply to anyone unless you know them well enough to call them ignorant. " | |||
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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored. Sorry but I think you need to look up the definition of ignorance. That’s not what you’re describing. And it’s a pretty strong word to apply to anyone unless you know them well enough to call them ignorant. " you message someone ask them a question and you see they read your message but dont reply..would you class thatvas ignorant | |||
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"A status update isn't necessarily an invitation to message someone." i understand that but put out something happening as i was working didnt knkw whatcwas going on so i asked what has happened but totally ignored and as usual someone looking to score brownie points | |||
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"A status update isn't necessarily an invitation to message someone." Absolutely, I get messages asking me questions or sometimes direct comments especially over forum posts, they usually get deleted even blocked, except for a chosen few and communicate with - at MY CHOSING. It's her free choice and ignorance has nothing to do with a refusal to respond to 'two' unsolicited messages if which the second, came with a prompt that as you'd not received a reply it might be better to not send again. I'm sure the second message really peed her off. | |||
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"A status update isn't necessarily an invitation to message someone. Absolutely, I get messages asking me questions or sometimes direct comments especially over forum posts, they usually get deleted even blocked, except for a chosen few and communicate with - at MY CHOSING. It's her free choice and ignorance has nothing to do with a refusal to respond to 'two' unsolicited messages if which the second, came with a prompt that as you'd not received a reply it might be better to not send again. I'm sure the second message really peed her off. " u missunderstamding point as member wrote a detailed thing of sonething going om in us and men should take action....questioned an no reply....so why post | |||
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"You literally passed by my comment and replied to someone else. The lady probably just done the same as you. People pick and choose who they reply to as you've just shown " never daw your post but if i getbmessage i reply even if neg i dont like to be ignotant | |||
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"It's a free country, her perogative and not an open invitation. Thinking saw the profile you are referring to, thought 'oh, ok' and carried on scrolling - I wasn't compelled to write. This going to go on and on? She ain't interested in communicating, leave it at that. That must be at least worth 4 Brownies.." nothing to be arranging meet asked what she was posting regarding males as news in Us but no replies but as usual females thing its males hareassing the female ....if u post saying trouble in area and someone one naturally replies where and whats happend ...its just normal question but then they read your message and no reply ...total ignorance | |||
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"Think you might also be getting Ignorance and Ignore confused. It is not Ignorant to Ignore someone from my understanding. To ignore something is to disregard it. If you ignore the rules of grammar, you're likely to be misunderstood. It's easy to see the relationship between ignore and a word such as ignorant. To be ignorant of something is to know nothing about it. A good way to be ignorant about something is to ignore it. In other words, if you want to be ignorant about a certain subject—that is, if you want to know nothing about it—then by all means ignore it. " i understand the meaning but u trying to show good on frmale side u tell me your deinition of someone ignoring u ...do u need to google or u just brain dead | |||
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"It's a free country, her perogative and not an open invitation. Thinking saw the profile you are referring to, thought 'oh, ok' and carried on scrolling - I wasn't compelled to write. This going to go on and on? She ain't interested in communicating, leave it at that. That must be at least worth 4 Brownies.. nothing to be arranging meet asked what she was posting regarding males as news in Us but no replies but as usual females thing its males hareassing the female ....if u post saying trouble in area and someone one naturally replies where and whats happend ...its just normal question but then they read your message and no reply ...total ignorance" If I was you, I'd quit while you're behind. | |||
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"Straight answer: think you're bang out of order to send a second after the first was ignored, regardless of reason for making contact, even the first is questionable. Maybe, if you'd messaged and asked for a meet, you'd had got a reply. Most would block you - I must be Brain Dead, then again if I was, then it would be impossible to write this. See, ignorance to that fact of what Brain Dead actually means!! That's the problem, when suckered right in, didn't get the response you liked, so you become aggressive instead. Think there is something underlying? Think she was right to stay away..." Kinda what I tried to say so politely earlier but but no joy. Move on and don’t let it wind you up so much. Aggressive and sanctimonious is not gonna work for you here. Or anywhere’s else. I’m out. | |||
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"Just because you chose to message her about her status update, it does not entitle you to a response from her. You're not entitled or deserving of a reply on Fab, no one should not feel forced to respond to every unsolicited measage she receives. She didn't want to speak to you, suck it up and move on." All of this... suck it up, move on... Delete your "attentively" sent messages and block the individual as they are not interested in communication and therefore not intetest in you. Reason for blocking; so you do not make the mistake of sending "Another" message to the same person "again" Problem solved.. | |||
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"Think you might also be getting Ignorance and Ignore confused. It is not Ignorant to Ignore someone from my understanding. To ignore something is to disregard it. If you ignore the rules of grammar, you're likely to be misunderstood. It's easy to see the relationship between ignore and a word such as ignorant. To be ignorant of something is to know nothing about it. A good way to be ignorant about something is to ignore it. In other words, if you want to be ignorant about a certain subject—that is, if you want to know nothing about it—then by all means ignore it. i understand the meaning but u trying to show good on frmale side u tell me your deinition of someone ignoring u ...do u need to google or u just brain dead" Maybe Google would have helped you find out what was happening re her status update. I would put money on the question being a precursor to the eventual let's meet question. Your attitude here shows her and many more females she made the best decision to ignore/avoid | |||
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"A female wrote on her profile about something happening in another country and men should do sonething. I messaged person and rhey read message but no reply. I asked again what it related to as she said men should do something about it but again ignored. I understand when messaging someone regarding possible meets a no reply means not interested and i respect that. But a general question asking what it related to and still ignored is a lack of respect as i not once asked for meet etc but asked what she was saying but as usual a single man is made to look small and out of order..." Ooooft, I'm with you on this one big guy, as a matter of fact this is what is wrong with all single females in the world but especially here in the unreal world of fab where females rules the world (well in their heads anyway)they think they can just ignore and belittle us men to the point it hurts our testosterone levels and manhood, we cant be having that...I say we stand up to this nonsense and rally to all the other men in the world that we have had enough of females thinking they are superior to us, how bloody dare she ask a question then ignore the message you sent her....send her to the gallows! P.s. if we do have a rally can we arrange it for a day that my partner says I can go to it, she's the boss and makes all my decisions for me.. | |||
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"A status update isn't necessarily an invitation to message someone. i understand that but put out something happening as i was working didnt knkw whatcwas going on so i asked what has happened but totally ignored and as usual someone looking to score brownie points " If you were so interested in what was going on, maybe you could have investigated it yourself with a bit of Googling or watching the news? Maybe she didn't want to get into a lengthy debate on the subject, just wanted to make her own feelings known re her status update? You'll never know her reason for not replying. You think it's ignorant, many do not. I say let it go and chill out before your BP gets any higher | |||
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"Here's the follow up.. Happy Birthday x " How could I ignore this though? Thank you very much | |||
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"Here's the follow up.. Happy Birthday x How could I ignore this though? Thank you very much " Ahhhh happy birthday. Have a fab day x | |||
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"Here's the follow up.. Happy Birthday x How could I ignore this though? Thank you very much " Damn, I was hoping to flame you for not responding and wasting my time.. :-; My plan's ruined!! You're welcome - enjoy as the conveyor belt of life never pauses. | |||
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"Ignorance means lack of knowledge or understanding....I'm not sure that she is the ignorant one in this scenario. I'm amazed that anyone couldn't work out what her status was likely referring to. K" Absolutely this, I'd say the ignorant part is not knowing a currently massive global news topic tbh. (and probably anyone who doesn't know about it isn't someone she wants to speak with!) | |||
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"What do you make of all these Chads replying to your post OP" Happy Birthday BB. WISHING BB a good time is far more interesting than the thread’s topic. And my name isn’t Chad. | |||
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"You literally passed by my comment and replied to someone else. The lady probably just done the same as you. People pick and choose who they reply to as you've just shown never daw your post but if i getbmessage i reply even if neg i dont like to be ignotant " Maybe she just didn't see your message | |||
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"Happy Birthday BB. WISHING BB a good time is far more interesting than the thread’s topic. And my name isn’t Chad. " Thanks Cha... I mean Jim And thanks to the other happy birthdays from you lovely lot. Don't wanna ignore anyone | |||
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"I find the fact you've came to the forum and made a post about it a bit dickish A status is just that not a cue to message and start a conversation,especially seeing you dont know what the status was referring to. In fact some could say you wee being nosey. Like a wee fab Iza If you get ignored dont take it personally give yourself a shake and put your big boy pants on and move on. Some guys get abuse back so you could think yourself lucky " But people huv tae know! | |||
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"A female wrote on her profile about something happening in another country and men should do sonething. I messaged person and rhey read message but no reply. I asked again what it related to as she said men should do something about it but again ignored. I understand when messaging someone regarding possible meets a no reply means not interested and i respect that. But a general question asking what it related to and still ignored is a lack of respect as i not once asked for meet etc but asked what she was saying but as usual a single man is made to look small and out of order..." Probably earned yourself more blocks than brownie points with this one! | |||
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"You literally passed by my comment and replied to someone else. The lady probably just done the same as you. People pick and choose who they reply to as you've just shown " That's true he was ignorant by not replying to you so he just as bad lol | |||
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"I have been practicing my guitar over the weekend, still a little off-key, but here goes: You don't own me I'm not just one of your many toys You don't own me Don't say I can't go with other boys And don't tell me what to do Don't tell me what to say And please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display 'cause You don't own me Don't try to change me in any way You don't own me Don't tie me down 'cause I'd never stay I don't tell you what to say I don't tell you what to do So just let me be myself That's all I ask of you I'm young and I love to be young I'm free and I love to be free To live my life the way I want To say and do whatever I please And don't tell me what to do Oh, don't tell me what to say And please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display I don't tell you what to say Oh, don't tell you what to do So just let me be myself That's all I ask of you I'm young and I love to be young I'm free and I love to be free " Can you play Blackbird? | |||
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"Whatever her reason was for not replying, it’s her reason. Don’t overthink it. Move on. ....sorry thats ignorance to me as wanted to know what had happened in US a simple reply could have been made ...us men get bad press when messaging females when female not interested..i understand that. There is alot of ignorance on the website for no reply as you make a statement...then when asked about it just ignored. Sorry but I think you need to look up the definition of ignorance. That’s not what you’re describing. And it’s a pretty strong word to apply to anyone unless you know them well enough to call them ignorant. Aprt from you playing to female audience my interpration is that when someone reads a question...and not a met request... just wanting to know what they put on profile and total no reply thaylts is being ignorant. As for stating not true meaning use your head that is someone being ignorant...you want to play further female audience to put u in lights carry on " One who cares? Why does it bother you so much what some one states? Two she has every write to not speak to you or just plane tell you to fuck off her prerogative. Three your the ignorant one mate not her as anyone not living on the moon would now exactly whats she talking about when it comes to the US. I was on holiday in spain on a beach island with shite wifi an still now…. 4 and this ones pretty important TOXIC AND I MEAN TOXIC MASCULINITY like your showing is whats wrong with this site and the US… Now push off buttercup and dont let the door or a womens point of view hit you on the way out | |||
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"Is this actually a serious thread? It's the kinda self-entitled shite my 11 year old comes out with, if so. " another ass licker trying to look good with the ladies. I asked simple question in response to post but usual on this website as more than myself have messaged if u criticise a female you get whole website of females on your back and guys just looking to score points. I dont expect answer from all messages but asking what post related too but as usual we get slated..i just detest peopke who just ignore people and by some of responses most females who commented are self centered | |||
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"Is this actually a serious thread? It's the kinda self-entitled shite my 11 year old comes out with, if so. another ass licker trying to look good with the ladies. I asked simple question in response to post but usual on this website as more than myself have messaged if u criticise a female you get whole website of females on your back and guys just looking to score points. I dont expect answer from all messages but asking what post related too but as usual we get slated..i just detest peopke who just ignore people and by some of responses most females who commented are self centered" I think rather than being arse lickers the guys who responded 'get it". Unlike you. As someone else said your sense of entitlement and toxic masculinity will probably have earned you plenty of blocks so you won't need to worry about replies in future! | |||
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"Is this actually a serious thread? It's the kinda self-entitled shite my 11 year old comes out with, if so. another ass licker trying to look good with the ladies. I asked simple question in response to post but usual on this website as more than myself have messaged if u no i asked simple question but as usual women on her ignore..even through simple questuon and women go crazy And makes who like to look good infront of them criticise a female you get whole website of females on your back and guys just looking to score points. I dont expect answer from all messages but asking what post related too but as usual we get slated..i just detest peopke who just ignore people and by some of responses most females who commented are self centered I think rather than being arse lickers the guys who responded 'get it". Unlike you. As someone else said your sense of entitlement and toxic masculinity will probably have earned you plenty of blocks so you won't need to worry about replies in future! " | |||
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"A female wrote on her profile about something happening in another country and men should do sonething. I messaged person and rhey read message but no reply. I asked again what it related to as she said men should do something about it but again ignored. I understand when messaging someone regarding possible meets a no reply means not interested and i respect that. But a general question asking what it related to and still ignored is a lack of respect as i not once asked for meet etc but asked what she was saying but as usual a single man is made to look small and out of order... Probably earned yourself more blocks than brownie points with this one! " why should i expect a block because total idiot like you decides...you need to soften.approach as no matter how innocent a person is you put your mouth in | |||
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"Note to self: Stop messaging females asking for meets, instead ask for more info on profile text and demand a reply. That's where I have been going wrong the last 15 years here.read " was notvasking for meetbjust simp answer to what they posted...you are out of order for giving wrong info love a 1 to 1 | |||
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"I find the fact you've came to the forum and made a post about it a bit dickish A status is just that not a cue to message and start a conversation,especially seeing you dont know what the status was referring to. In fact some could say you wee being nosey. Like a wee fab Iza Wee fab Iza haha If you get ignored dont take it personally give yourself a shake and put your big boy pants on and move on. Some guys get abuse back so you could think yourself lucky " | |||
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"Hey OP heads up- just because someone responds to a forum post doesn't mean they want to discuss it via private message " Oh, he didn't direct message you did he? | |||
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"Hey OP heads up- just because someone responds to a forum post doesn't mean they want to discuss it via private message " But was he asking to meet! Don't you know he deserves a reply.... | |||
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"Hey OP heads up- just because someone responds to a forum post doesn't mean they want to discuss it via private message " Ooooft, OP you don’t care for an easy life, do you? | |||
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"Hey OP heads up- just because someone responds to a forum post doesn't mean they want to discuss it via private message But was he asking to meet! Don't you know he deserves a reply.... " Careful, ignore him too long, he'll be sending a follow up. Fail to reply to that one, you're name will be pooh here!!.. | |||
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"Hey OP heads up- just because someone responds to a forum post doesn't mean they want to discuss it via private message " Fuck sake OP Get a grip mate your in the fucking wrong. Every fucking statement you have made is wrong and its nothing to do with point scoring… if you had emailed me asking what my status was about and it had nothing to do with you i would just ignored you because and this is a big one “YOUR JUST A NO ONE FROM THE INTERNET” i dont need to explain anything to you “SELF RICHOUS” dick | |||
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"Thats a real subject as usual single guy takes a hit but usuaual females criticise any posy but post slating single men all the time " Are you trying to take my "most hatest guy on fab crown"? Ffs Ive only had it a few weeks after Zest gave it to me..atleast let me enjoy it for awhile you can be my predecessor once I leave. | |||
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