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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?" Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?" Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more. Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc... | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more. Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc..." Ahh. And I mean ahhhhhh. No I like tickles and such. Falcon, practice on some grapes. ![]() | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() How much torture? | |||
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" Ahh. And I mean ahhhhhh. No I like tickles and such. Falcon, practice on some grapes. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I sat mine then went straight for DAS LOL my bff is a pro domme and she does it all the time her are plenty of girls out there do it " Lol, I did my test on a TS100 waaay back. Straight on to a 600R and bounced a few times, but still didnt slow down. Only back on after a 25yr break during covid | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() Sent you a wee DM ![]() | |||
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"Maybe trying other websites that more suited towards the bdsm lifestyle than fab might be more successful ." Thanks. I don't honestly know of any. Its a long time since I partook. I've had a couple of DM's though, which may do for now. | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() Pick me! Pick me! ![]() | |||
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"Maybe trying other websites that more suited towards the bdsm lifestyle than fab might be more successful . Thanks. I don't honestly know of any. Its a long time since I partook. I've had a couple of DM's though, which may do for now." Fetlife and collarspace used to be one called bdsm uk aswell years ago that was really good but that shut down . | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though ![]() | |||
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites ![]() I'd have thought it was reasonably popular with ladies to help relieve frustration and annoyance, and less guys were into it due to exactly what the ladies get out of it ![]() | |||
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites ![]() ![]() I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it ![]() | |||
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it ![]() Be interesting to know how the scale goes from mild to extreme and see how twisted I am? | |||
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it ![]() A twisted mind and tolerance for pain I've found go hand in hand ![]() | |||
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" A twisted mind and tolerance for pain I've found go hand in hand ![]() that'll be me buggered then (figuratively). | |||
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it ![]() ![]() House!! ![]() | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?" The doctor sent me for some CBT when I had a shaky moment coming out of lockdown... I was so disappointed to learn it wasn't the kink! | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?" Or compulsory basic training for bikers. | |||
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"Sounds sore! " Nah, we don't feel a thing, the other person on the other hand ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more. Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc..." I see your Married. I thought you'd be getting plenty of the CBT or are you well passed the honeymoon stage ![]() | |||
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" I see your Married. I thought you'd be getting plenty of the CBT or are you well passed the honeymoon stage ![]() My bits were thrown into a lonely dungeon years ago without even bread and water | |||
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"Cock and ball torture is a fine art of evil skill. The mix of pleasure and pain inflicted on genetialia gives me goosebumps.. Everyone has there limits of course. But I keep wondering if I could ever nail a ball sack to a wooden board... that's next level CBT.... ![]() I think the Dark Edge couple said it earlier, doesn't hurt them at all. I dont want to give that lady more ideas as she has plenty already, but that's probably not a million miles away from what she did the other day | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures. | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() OMG Stace now we are all afraid ![]() | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them. | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How do you find the cattle prod. That's close to the top of her bucket list with me. How many shocks did you manage on your genitals? | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Have you tried using a bander? That looks like a whole different level. | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() whats a bander? | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() me me me ![]() | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?" i love nipple play ,, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i love nipple play ,, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() we have a safeword, and shes very respectful of boundaries, if its too much, she'll ease up a bit. its about both parties having fun | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? i love nipple play ,, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() This ![]() | |||
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Device used for animal castration, puts a very, very tight elastic band over the testicles. Left on long enough they drop off. Not for novice play | |||
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming " now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements? | |||
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements?" I’ve played something like this in the dungeon! Red was reward, black was bad. Everything from floggers to crops, and a rubber ball on a flexible stick! | |||
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"I read it as CBD…. ![]() not quite sure that would have the same result ![]() | |||
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"Sounds sore! Nah, we don't feel a thing, the other person on the other hand ![]() ![]() ![]() I'd definitely be willing | |||
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements? I’ve played something like this in the dungeon! Red was reward, black was bad. Everything from floggers to crops, and a rubber ball on a flexible stick! " Where is the dungeon? | |||
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"I got it on eBay, it's called Lancelot chastity cage. " thank you | |||
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"Here I was thinking CBT was Compulsory Bike Training ![]() ![]() It still does Also Cognitive behavioural therapy too ![]() | |||
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"Here I was thinking CBT was Compulsory Bike Training ![]() ![]() ![]() ive only 1 from 3. im too old for the bike bit. Got my license a long time ago and jumped straight from a 100cc to a 140mph+ | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() Happy to try myself new to it so feel free | |||
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"Cock and ball torture is a fine art of evil skill. The mix of pleasure and pain inflicted on genetialia gives me goosebumps.. Everyone has there limits of course. But I keep wondering if I could ever nail a ball sack to a wooden board... that's next level CBT.... ![]() Out of everything cbt it's not as extreme as you think, the sensation is quick. When you look at heat play for example. The pain lasts a lot longer | |||
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"Ive been into it for a while now. Im happy for anyone who wants to see some pics to get in touch or arrange some time together to see if firsthand. " Feel free to send me pics | |||
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites ![]() Me being one of her victims haha | |||
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"Another big fan here! CBT is alive and kicking. Been for a few 'Pro' sessions, and had partners that indulge - but still looking for a real enthusiast :p" Not far from me ?? | |||
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" I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it ![]() Agree , sadism should never be performed when angry or frustrated. | |||
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites ![]() My boy ![]() | |||
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites ![]() ![]() ![]() My kind of gal | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() Feel free to hit me up as it were | |||
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"I find it really really fun. Boys are so cute when you torture them " It might take a lot to make me cute lol | |||
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"I find it really really fun. Boys are so cute when you torture them " You sound adorable. We do make some lovely sounds when we're tortured don't we? | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?" Compulsory Bike Test! | |||
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc" That would feel great on the skin | |||
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc That would feel great on the skin " On the skin is always where I feel things | |||
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc That would feel great on the skin On the skin is always where I feel things" As opposed to? | |||
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc That would feel great on the skin On the skin is always where I feel things As opposed to?" Well quite. I"m not opposed to it. Quite the opposite in fact | |||
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"Im doing wee expriments on myself in the house but need guidance lol" Honestly just try different things. Heat, wax, needles, pressure, jaggy things. Try everything ![]() | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?" Compulsory Basic Training to me ![]() | |||
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"Can't beat abit of CBT and ballbusting" No? I thought CBT and ballbusting was all about the beating ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can't beat abit of CBT and ballbusting No? I thought CBT and ballbusting was all about the beating ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im doing wee expriments on myself in the house but need guidance lol Honestly just try different things. Heat, wax, needles, pressure, jaggy things. Try everything ![]() She’s genuinely not scared to do anything lol | |||
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment? " Me | |||
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment? Me" reliably boring | |||
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment? Mereliably boring" reliably squiffy apologies.Never boring(well maybe except when you ve got a bee in your bonnet about something/ someone and you won't let it go) but apart from that? ) | |||
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment? Mereliably boringreliably squiffy apologies.Never boring(well maybe except when you ve got a bee in your bonnet about something/ someone and you won't let it go) but apart from that? )" Yawn. | |||
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult. Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more. Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc... Ahh. And I mean ahhhhhh. No I like tickles and such. Falcon, practice on some grapes. ![]() Don’t you mean plums ![]() | |||
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"There are plenty of us kinksters about , CBT is a dying art more because people think it's a swift kick in the balls and done with where it depends on preferences , degregation,cages , sound bars and so much more.toy just need to find the right person with the right experience . " E-stim and sounds are fun but svar s many off. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There are plenty of us kinksters about , CBT is a dying art more because people think it's a swift kick in the balls and done with where it depends on preferences , degregation,cages , sound bars and so much more.toy just need to find the right person with the right experience . " Well put, always before a grab and squeeze myself | |||
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"Think its a dying art because after you've been kicked in the balls 1000 times you cant have kids ![]() I know this to not be true lol | |||
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"Oh I’d definitely be up to try it on someone. Just need to practice ![]() You can use me as your subject | |||
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"There are plenty of us kinksters about , CBT is a dying art more because people think it's a swift kick in the balls and done with where it depends on preferences , degregation,cages , sound bars and so much more.toy just need to find the right person with the right experience . E-stim and sounds are fun but svar s many off. ![]() ![]() Wouldn't scare me off ;P | |||
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"Excuse my ignorance but is it not dangerous? Not shaming just a genuine question " You'll be fine. No, seriously, you won't feel a thing. | |||
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