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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this the place for feelings ?

Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?

Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put fab in completely different mental box to the real world. And never the twain shall meet.

Without sounding harsh or cold - it's just sex.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

It depends tbh it’s natural if you like someone but personally I can be a bit of a cold hard bitch tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put fab in completely different mental box to the real world. And never the twain shall meet.

Without sounding harsh or cold - it's just sex.

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yeah ..agree,,, find as I'm getting older I am getting more involved

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By *reyw01fMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

In what seems a lifetime ago I was in a committed relationship with a woman in the fetish scene in London she mentioned a few times she wanted to watch me fuck other women in particular bukkake she didn't want to go with other blokes I wasn't interested. As far as I was conserned I would feel to guilty even with consent. Strange perhaps i know. But I couldn't help but think it would create problems later

Unfortunately we still split up a few years later :/

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By *olfblondeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Is this the place for feelings ?

Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?

Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x "

it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this the place for feelings ?

Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?

Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x

it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "

True

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By *reyw01fMan
over a year ago

Hamilton


"Is this the place for feelings ?

Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?

Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x

it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "

Indeed we are not machines male or female. yes in many cases this is NSA.. But for me if you can be friends and have some sort of feeling. Starting with compassion and empithy ect (but having clear lines of boundaries) it makes for a better dynamic both in and out the bedroom I mean if you don't like sombody what's the point

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By *eth DMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

End of the day it’s natural and majority of the time it can’t be helped if you’ve been regularly meeting. Don’t let it get to you, use that emotion and make the sex even better. Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if there is real sexual chemistry then feelings will always follow. That's how I'm made at least.

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By *ngelnfugyCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

You can use your feelings as a positive. I personally love the fact that we can both play with others watch or know about it and get a kick out of it.

Its a lifestyle choice.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

If there isn't a connection you can't have feelings. If you don't have either then what is the point of having sex with someone, it would then just be a transaction.

A connection can come in many forms, pure lust, emotional, something deeper etc.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Were you lovebombing some cunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were you lovebombing some cunt"
u keep out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings of an almost human nature. This will not do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put fab in completely different mental box to the real world. And never the twain shall meet.

Without sounding harsh or cold - it's just sex.

"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this the place for feelings ?

Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?

Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x

it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "

This is spot on.

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By *reme de la creme500Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

We are all human and no matter how hard we try not to we will get feelings. Personally i think it adds to making the sexual chemistry mind blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can keep them seperate, maybe I'm dead inside. Or too scared of getting hurt.

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