FabSwingers.com forum: Right own up !!

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Thought id do this following on from another post .

Just how many timewasters have you encounterd ?

Ive been here five years and had been stoodup twice in all that time which i think isnt too bad so is this site as bad for timewatsers as some believe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters come in all forms tho...

Those that,stand you up...

Those that,ask for pics but have none.

Those that,chat n chat n chat with no intention if ever meeting anyone.

Hey ho...aint ever gonna change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent had any time wasters

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Timewasters come in all forms tho...

Those that,stand you up...

Those that,ask for pics but have none.

Those that,chat n chat n chat with no intention if ever meeting anyone.

Hey ho...aint ever gonna change.

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yeah i agree but been here long enough to know whos never going to meet ..i mean people who actually arrange to meet then dont go through with it .

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By *lond and BaldCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

you also have the couples profiles who only have pics of the guys cocks

pic hunters and timewasters

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Only 1 in 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep saying, its like panning for gold on here, quite litteraly sifting through the,,,the,,,,anyway, to find gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real timewasters are those who are on this site with no intention of ever meeting anyone. Spend ages chatting etc then they back down. We have been very lucky in that we have rarely been let down for actual meets and when we have it has been for genuine reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters come in all forms tho...

Those that,stand you up...

Those that,ask for pics but have none.

Those that,chat n chat n chat with no intention if ever meeting anyone.

Hey ho...aint ever gonna change.

yeah i agree but been here long enough to know whos never going to meet ..i mean people who actually arrange to meet then dont go through with it ."
cpls...2

Single guys...2

But Thats in about 6 yrs.

Can spot the bullshitters a mile off now lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I usually avoid reading the timewaster threads but I suspect most of the complaints come from guys.

Guys who haven't undertaken elementary investigations before racing halfway across the country in pursuit of what was never going to be a shag.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I usually avoid reading the timewaster threads but I suspect most of the complaints come from guys.

Guys who haven't undertaken elementary investigations before racing halfway across the country in pursuit of what was never going to be a shag."
omg totally agree with you so many go on about not here to chat just want to meet shag and get on with it but i think thats where the problem lies way too many guys just jump on here put a meet add up set one up without really knowing who with and it goes tits up then they throw a wobbly lol

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Only ever had 2 since joining.

Loads of profiles though that just want to chat lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I usually avoid reading the timewaster threads but I suspect most of the complaints come from guys.

Guys who haven't undertaken elementary investigations before racing halfway across the country in pursuit of what was never going to be a shag.

omg totally agree with you so many go on about not here to chat just want to meet shag and get on with it but i think thats where the problem lies way too many guys just jump on here put a meet add up set one up without really knowing who with and it goes tits up then they throw a wobbly lol

In fairness, I suspect there are a number of serial offenders on both sides.

Guys who can't see beyond the end of their cock and supposed couples and single women who delight in deceit.

It takes all sorts.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ohhh yes i quite agree with you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wood waste their time with me anyway? no-1? lol.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Experienced lots of timewasters in the four years but thankfully never been stood up on a meet yet.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't really bother with timewaster threads either but I think everyone has their own idea of a timewaster. For example, 2nite I spoke to a couple who asked for a face pic & cock pic but didn't produce a face pic & when I said where I was in Glasgow they said I was too near so no meet. Now, some guys might rant on about them being timewasters but they are well verified by a variety of people & I tend to believe that they do live close to me & were wary.

Of "traditional" timewasters, I've yet to be stood up or be promised a meet that didn't materialise for no good reason. Well no, there was one who talked about meeting but then disappeared. I tend to find that I either get no response (most common) a polite no ta, or chat & it may go somewhere.

That's my tuppenceworth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do folk Actually ask for cock pics?

Why????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in the beginning due to inexperience. Chatted for a few days by mail and exchanged face pics. Then phone calls. Detected nothing to suggest I was dealing with a mentalist. Arranged to meet after work on the Friday. Agreed time and place to meet for a drink. Texted before leaving. All ok. Went along and waited for her. Silence

No apology. No reason. Went off to meet some friends instead. Checked fab again a couple of hours later to see she'd put up another meet today request.

Infuriating behaviour, but a good learning experience and water off a duck's back. Hasn't happened again. It's not an exact science. Shit happens.

Oh, I also met a woman who turned up too d*unk to have a proper conversation. But at least she showed! So can't call her a timewaster. Just a waster. Polite excuses were made

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Possible one we classed as time wasters, which isn't bad for 13 years on and off swing.

Basically we met the couple, despite their photos being grossly out of date we didn't class them as time wasters till we met. Got home and the goal posts had moved as to what and wasn't allowed.

The reason we class them as time wasters? Was we traveled a good hour in car to meet them as they had no transport. We thought we were doing them a good turn.

Live & Learn. XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly folks shout "timewasters" too quickly, as mentioned, by relatively new folk, who, joined the site, thought you just ping a message, chat a bit, meet, BOOM, nae bother.

Theres another brand of timewaster though,, "the busy-boy", their so spoilt for choice, juggling options, forgetting who they said yes, might do, can do and the best one, "count me in i will be there", pocket full of excuses to hand when they realise they have cocked up though, always.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

thankfully none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 arranged meet and stood up and no word . Gave up all hope on here looks like I will stay a virgin

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Only the once.....

My couple profile and it was by a couple!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do folk Actually ask for cock pics?

Why????

Some do, but not many. I think they simply wanted proof of being well endowed, didn't want to take my word for it.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

On a serious note. Supposing a Fabster sends someone a cock shot which isn't theirs.

Matters progress, a meet is arranged and takes place.

Does the female recipient of the willy pics compare the reality to the offer and decided not to proceed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a good point Onny. I met a girl last week and she said she'd backed out of a meet recently because some bloke got it out and had a totey todger. Said she gave him some vaguely believable reason and felt bad for him but just wasn't attracted anymore and couldn't do it. He' probably say she's a timewaster but she's certainly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been stood up 3 times and always when we were at the pub waiting on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened a couple of times to me now!

Single ladies 2

Couples 1

I can understand if they tell you prior but when you've driven a good hours drive and spoken for weeks and all the way to the meet point, then when you say your there no response, that's annoying!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have had more Luck on other normal dating sites we being honest what I'm after . Never been stood up and things have progressed 80 percent of time the rest has been they decide they want more .

Maybe need to get to a party to get better known on scene

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

This goes back to the interpretation of 'timewaster' , we all seem to think of it differently. For me a timewaster is someone who arranges to meet and then just doesnt turn up , no explanation , no contact .

I think we have to accept that this site attracts lots of different people and we all use the site for our own agenda, yes the pic collectors , yes the guys who just want masturbation fodder on cams and of course the attention seekers who come in chat get the cams on and have the guys all over them telling them they are gorgeous etc but when u check out the profiles they are verified only be webcam been on the site a year and never had an actual meet , to some they may be timewasters but a little nosing around in their profile shows the signs.

I have never had a timewaster.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think its just awful and abit bizarre as to why people would want to waste their own time and other peoples time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been stood up after putting myself out once, and that was on another site.

Been chatting to another TV for a few days, we both wanted to meet. Arranged a time, she was an hour away. I text before I left, still ok. She gave me her area postcode and said she'd direct me when I got there as it was a bit tricky. I thought fair enough. Arrived, called, no answer.

Lesson learned.

Timewasters usually (not always) don't have pics, veris (other than cam) or much info on profile. They may be chatty but when you mention definite dates/times to meet always become vague or clam up completely.

Having done it a while now I think I have a handle on the idiots. And on the rare occasion I'm stood up now its always when I've made sure I haven't put myself to trouble to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 3 ladies and 2 couples not turn up in a space of 2 weeks,and I went to pub to meet them only to be left there,even had txts saying they on there way,

Heard some great excuses why didn't come

But thats life on here lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

As u all know from various posts on here i have had a few time wasters but now i just take it folk were never taught good manners Ive also been called a time waster because ive taken my time getting to know people well i have very broad shoulders and can take that this isjust par for the course at times in here .But hey ho such is life

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I had 3 ladies and 2 couples not turn up in a space of 2 weeks,and I went to pub to meet them only to be left there,even had txts saying they on there way,

Heard some great excuses why didn't come

But thats life on here lol

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Shocking way to treat people I've even known some guys who have initially met up socially with people then went on to arrange play meets only to be left sitting in hotel rooms waiting for for them to arrive and been let down ..sickening way to treat people who have gone to the trouble of sorting out the room leaving them financially out of pocket too .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

daily ..................when i look in the mirror !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down twice once by a couple after i traveled to fife they never met me in the prearranged location the other time was when a single lady txted me to say she couldn't make after I had reached the met point granted she did contact me

But still lots of genuine folks on here who have done what they said they would

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

a canny get a fecking met lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been stood up twice on here by two couples ....just hope they dont ever contact us again...some folk got a right cheek to call others time wasters when they do it also....other than that we have met some real genuine cpls...long may that continue

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

People we have arranged to meet and they havent shown ....NEVER

People who have called off before hand ....A COUPLE ... but they in my opinion are not timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair few time wasters and the worst offenders for standing me up are the guys who have been on here the longest and seemingly have a good reputation for meets I guess it must be something wrong with me eh

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Never had a problem with no shows or time wasters as such. I only have a very small circle of reliable playmates.

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