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Is there more to swinging than sex ?

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By *autious Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

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We are starting to feel there is more to swinging than just the sex have had our time of just the sex years ago but now feel there has to be respect and trusting before any fun begins is this a age thing or just us being silly now or to open when we were younger ?

"discuss"

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If "discuss" is a genuine invitation, is it possible some people (couples AND singles) feel the need to justify their activities on the grounds of having 'some sort of relationship' with the people they have sex with?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We are starting to feel there is more to swinging than just the sex have had our time of just the sex years ago but now feel there has to be respect and trusting before any fun begins is this a age thing or just us being silly now or to open when we were younger ?

"discuss""
Swinging is what feels right for you guys there is no right or wrong way to do it just have fun guys as im sure you will xxx

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By *autious Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

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I never asked for justification and never asked if you had to have a relationship with them i was asking is it a age thing where as when we were younger would gladly have fun with most people without having a bit of respect for them or us but now we we feel we do

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"We are starting to feel there is more to swinging than just the sex have had our time of just the sex years ago but now feel there has to be respect and trusting before any fun begins is this a age thing or just us being silly now or to open when we were younger ?

"discuss""

Theres sex?????

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By *autious Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"We are starting to feel there is more to swinging than just the sex have had our time of just the sex years ago but now feel there has to be respect and trusting before any fun begins is this a age thing or just us being silly now or to open when we were younger ?

"discuss"

Theres sex????? "

Yes as far as we can remember lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the socialising and conversation to build a friendship. Makes the sex so much better

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By *autious Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"Love the socialising and conversation to build a friendship. Makes the sex so much better "

And yous are not even old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends...I have different kinds of meets...most will involve sex, but I can sit n watch a dvd etc with a swing friend on occasions.I just wouldnt pigeonhole myself into one type of meetup ie just here for sex

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"depends...I have different kinds of meets...most will involve sex, but I can sit n watch a dvd etc with a swing friend on occasions.I just wouldnt pigeonhole myself into one type of meetup ie just here for sex"

Isn't that an example of what meets 'can' develop into?

It may very well and understandably start as just sex but evolve into something a bit more complex but (hopefully) without any misunderstandings on either side about the limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True but then there's the one you fall for ;( can't help falling for some great guys that tock all the boxes but hey it's not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True but then there's the one you fall for ;( can't help falling for some great guys that tock all the boxes but hey it's not a dating site "

currently thinking of ur box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsfl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But isn't it simply that swinging is different things to different people, and if you've been involved in it for a number of years then it is very possible that it can evolve into something different to what it was when u started.

Personally, I prefer there to be a social aspect to it, but then some people run a mile from that idea because they're worried about emotions getting involved.

Much is said about couples being 100% secure in their own relationship before starting to swing, but I think singles need something similar. They need to decide and know exactly what they want out of it.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I like to chat and get to know people before meeting.

I prefer to skype/msn alittle to get to know a person/people or have a social meet prefer going any futher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us Or,should be

Message ,chat ,meet for sex...

If only it was that simple.

Some cpls need to know what we had for our,dinner everynight and want to go for dinner before we have sex...

I mean who can have sex on a full stomach

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with original post. I don't think it's 'age', it's just wishing to have a comfortable time, as safe, but horny as possible for all concerned. I personally think that your approach is a good one. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, theres more to swingers than just swinging,,,people are people and the lovely variety of who we meet/choose to meet is always the appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely people, loving the socialaties....x

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yep, theres more to swingers than just swinging,,,people are people and the lovely variety of who we meet/choose to meet is always the appeal."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have to say there is more to swinging than sex it can take time but we have been on and off fab a few times over the last few years but still got some great friendswe can meet for a social night and the sex is just extra the better you know your friends the better the social side and sex side are v&k xxx

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