FabSwingers.com forum: Getting going

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, we have the verifications from meeting other couples at organised socials (they live too far away unfortunately), we are pretty good company, able to chat on a wide range of topics; we are smart, clean and easy on the eye; we’re friendly, easy to get along with and not in the least bit pushy or desperate, but still no meets yet (altogether now, aahh!).

We’ve done our best to mix and chat at socials, although it has to be said some socials are pretty cliquey and it’s hard to keep a conversation going when some people keep shuffling away from us! Left us a bit paranoid, checking our personal hygiene and between our teeth for bits of spinach.

Like others here we’ve had our share of fake profile contacts and single men who just want a moist, warm place, any moist, warm place to stick their dicks, but contact from very few nice people we have been able to chat with, much less meet.

Are we missing something or is it hard to get that elusive first meet?

By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

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"Well, we have the verifications from meeting other couples at organised socials (they live too far away unfortunately), we are pretty good company, able to chat on a wide range of topics; we are smart, clean and easy on the eye; we’re friendly, easy to get along with and not in the least bit pushy or desperate, but still no meets yet (altogether now, aahh!).

Are we missing something or is it hard to get that elusive first meet?

We can relate to what you say but keep the faith after 2 months of the fakes and single men pretending to be couples we have managed to chat and arrange two meets (still to come though) with two lovely couples

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should consider going to a club like CJs,very friendly and relaxed,plenty of great easy going conversation and banter with a group of really chilled people.you dont have to get involved but certainly a good oppertunity to meet folk who are genuine and not time wasters.