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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you feel about them ,i recently have been using them quite alot , but recently read on someone's bio , They would rather have a shit message.So im thinking,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All started with a wink for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd rather have a shit message. Then he's actually not been lazy and sent a wink. I really cannot be bothered checking winks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd rather have a shit message. Then he's actually not been lazy and sent a wink. I really cannot be bothered checking winks x"
That's it then,the winks are dead to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them, it's not lazy in my opinion, it just lets the person know you're interested, if they wink back, it's up to you to then message if they haven't done so.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How do you feel about them ,i recently have been using them quite alot , but recently read on someone's bio , They would rather have a shit message.So im thinking, "
Thats the thing people say it’s lazy & they would rather have a message yet Il bet they don’t do the messaging themselves .

A wink to me is an initial opening way of saying I like what I see she let’s see if they think il worth getting to know .

I don’t mind winks at all

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I only wink as part of a forum thread now, I used to but as the saying goes it's only a different vowel.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

It's quicker to wink and be ignored than type out a message and be ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind winks. If i recieve one I'll look at their profile and if im interested I wink back

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t mind winks, I think it’s a good way to signal interest in each other then start messaging

I’m saying that I don’t always check them

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yea shite message all the way. Never look at winks.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Yea shite message all the way. Never look at winks. "

Literally winked you twenty mins ago

*Exits thread

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By *ugarplumpfairyWoman
over a year ago

scotland

I delete them. I’d prefer a message

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By *ngelnfugyCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

We like the wink opening to interest then can message from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we receive a wink we know its cause there is interest so we don't mind

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By *uriouscayotesCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Winks are useful if it starts something. They are useless when you both wink each other then the feckers ignore your message. Maybe our messages are shit though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at all winks if interested il wink back.

If not I don't.

Easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a reply from a wink, never replied to one either. Although if any of them were from F/MF I might have done!

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't think it's lazy to wink... Just let's the person /couple know your interested in chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd rather have a shit message. Then he's actually not been lazy and sent a wink. I really cannot be bothered checking winks x That's it then,the winks are dead to me "

Whats more annoying is people that don't read your profile then wink or message anyway. #block

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If I receive a wink and am interested I will message. Have had a couple of meets on the back of an initial wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'd rather have a shit message. Then he's actually not been lazy and sent a wink. I really cannot be bothered checking winks x That's it then,the winks are dead to me

Whats more annoying is people that don't read your profile then wink or message anyway. #block"

Yeah that too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I m still drafting All my shit messages to send out

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We like receiving a good wink and also send a few to see if others wink back then we will send a message to them and take it from there.

So get furiously winking folks.

It's a winkathon lol x

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

I admit I tend to use winks..if it prompts a wink back or a message ...there you have it. I do try and message and start a conversation but sometimes a wink is best id say

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By *iltycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Greenock

We use them.

If we wink at someone and they wink back we take that as an invite to message knowing it will be read and replied .

If someone winks at us we will wink back and as far as we are concerned that means they are welcome to message us and we will reply.

Don't mind winks at all. Much better than a friend request when you haven't even spoke to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at mines really.

Sometimes I wink if someone is outwith my filters cause it'll allow them to message me and I'm not sure I'm their type, but 9/10 I'd usually just send a message myself first to open my filters.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I usually wink and send a follow up message. Using a wink on its own doesn't feel right to me for some reason :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we receive a wink, we will generally wink back. We used to send a message thanking them for the wink, but we gave that up when some didn't reply. If they reply to our return wink, we reciprocate.

Reminds me of the Facebook poke from years ago.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't mind them

They can lead to some pretty good adventures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like we're pretty much split on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely check winks, I just forget to, would prefer a message. X

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I do check them but If they’re miles away I tend to ignore them. Unless it’s forum winks

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Depends who you're winking I suppose. Single women apparently get 100s of messages a day so whats the point in sending a message when it's going to get lost in the wash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who you're winking I suppose. Single women apparently get 100s of messages a day so whats the point in sending a message when it's going to get lost in the wash?"

This is why I usually send the odd wink. Can’t stand out in an inbox wall of yellow

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