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The social side to swinging !!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When you joined here how many of you expected to be socialing with the people of Fab at drinks nites/lunches or socials ?

This was a surprise element of swinging to me and not something i thought id be doing when i joined, but i luv it so much and have made many friends from the social side of here both platonic and plamymates .

Do you like the social side of fab too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a social, other than a wee social between us and our meets! Nae big party for us! One day tho!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Never been to a social, other than a wee social between us and our meets! Nae big party for us! One day tho!"
you should try one one day then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the social side and met sum lovely ppl and had a few great nites out.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really have the time. I find it difficult to make long term plans, never knowing if I have to cancel at the last minute which I really hate doing. When I do manage it I find it a bit of a mixed bag to be honest. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side is a great way of meeting others like yourself and haveing a great night out and you meet lots of people some who have become good friends xxx

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We have been known to attend the odd social night. however that's about as far as it goes,to much back stabbing and bitching for my liking at socials events from a small minority, then they are nice to their faces etc. So nope not really into the social side. Rather be with real life friends, swinging is to enhance an already good sex life, not to take over it altogether. More to life than swinging.

XxCxX

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

yeh i love it, good banter, company and usually good food too. chance to put a face to a name

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Never seen bitching or back stabbing at any socials ive attended or organised maybe a diffrent bunch of people to the ones uve attended.

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Never seen bitching or back stabbing at any socials ive attended or organised maybe a diffrent bunch of people to the ones uve attended."

Not just socials, coffee meets etc and also on forums. XxCxX

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Never seen bitching or back stabbing at any socials ive attended or organised maybe a diffrent bunch of people to the ones uve attended.

Not just socials, coffee meets etc and also on forums. XxCxX"
yes totally agree im sure everyones guilty of it now and again anyone who says they dont are liars ...anyway back to the topic at hand

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Very rarely do a social.

Trying to find time for fun is hard as it is so when we do, would rather be playing than socialising

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By *har1505Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We Love the social side of swinging love making new friends and makes future meets easier when already spoken face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love the social side, thats why we organise regular lunches, always good fun,friendly and good to put faces to names

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

maybe one of these years...think last one i attended was about 18 years ago....

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

It's been a while but we've attended a few social meets over the years. Sometimes just another couple or an organised one with a number of folks. It's so nice and relaxing being able to chat with others without having to watch what we're saying all the time. It's the best hobby we've ever had..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved attending socials.

Used to really look forward to them now all your waiting for is the call offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one don't know if I would be 2 shy to talk to anyone if I did go to one I bet yous are really nice people don't know if I would feel out of place because yous have all dun it before buy I supposed you have to start somewhere

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Never been to one don't know if I would be 2 shy to talk to anyone if I did go to one I bet yous are really nice people don't know if I would feel out of place because yous have all dun it before buy I supposed you have to start somewhere "
just take the plunge youl luv it and once uve done one youl be chomping at the bit asking whens the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got friends from fab who ive never played with but are now good friends x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"ive got friends from fab who ive never played with but are now good friends x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got friends from fab who ive never played with but are now good friends x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No want to be standing there with no one to chat to when everybody know every one lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

folk will talk to you theyre a friendly bunch try one and see how it goes.Ive met many lovelyfolks at drinks nights and lunches and theyre a great way of getting to know people

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

We always liked the social side years ago so hope nothing much has changed over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No want to be standing there with no one to chat to when everybody know every one lol"
the organiser would probably introduce u to a few folks n let the sociabilty start from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love the social side of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the social side of swinging. Any I have been to are great x x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"No want to be standing there with no one to chat to when everybody know every one lol"
that definatly wouldnt happen youd be introduced to a few peeps but youve got to put some effort into meeting people too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks just because am just new to it all yous sound like nice people tbh

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By *earhugs1Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We really enjoy the social side of swinging. Have met some really fab ppl.

Some ppl we have played with before have now become really good friends too.

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Been to a few socials in the past and we did like them but have not managed one for a while as we always seem to be working or have some other thing on when they come up nowadays.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

I like the social side, more the type where you can talk and relax rather than a nightclub where is hard to have round table chats.

You often find me in the kitchen at parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved the social side, have been to loads and organised a few.... but due to whats gone on with the press we wont be going to anymore, which is a real shame as we love meeting new people ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah agree there gandl, after the Xmas ones that's prolly it for socials for me. Too dodgy now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U just keep it to a few people not the full site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats not really a social bud if its just pals ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meaning keeping it quite so the papers and that don't find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to go into the Ball issue again but have changed my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how you do a social quietly ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what happened with the papers or that didn't even see it only thing I've seen is some of the posting on the forum would someone msg me a quick bit about it well I would put the dates up on this you could make a group on FB that way you can prove who's gen am only putting ideas out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should have been I wouldn't put the dates up here big fingers wee phone soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way things are, a lot of Scots are v suspicious of anyone that has recently joined. It's a long story and I was away for most of it, but I'm sure there will be someone fill you in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should really i guess ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's if you don't mind m8

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I really enjoy the socials and have met some great people

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By *unybunyWoman
over a year ago

Living in a Scottish office somewhere

Been to loads of socials up and down the country. Met loads of nice people and made really good friends too, alas due to recent events wont be going to as many now

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

We both love the social side - to us swinging is having a laugh and a great time with like minded ppl so why not the social side too - just makes it better and the sex is just the extra that sometimes happens.

We run socials anyone who is nervous or first time we tell them to join our table as we always have few oldies there as well as new ones lol. Normally you would find either Davy or myself outside having a fag anyway lol

But yes people a lot more cautious now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably be out with the smokers lol still don't know what's happen lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Been to a few of your socials Jacs and always had a great time as you know. I have been known to socialise with other fab friends too as it's not all just about the fun.

Made some really good friends in the year that I've been on and we've helped each other through good and bad times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never been to a socail!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a fair few socials over the years, mostly when I was on another site. I've been to two from this site and got another 2 coming up. They're always a good way to meet lots of new people at once.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Came initially for the sex, stayed for the social side and found a ton of people who I could laugh cry flirt and be serious with......

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I have a lot of people I consider good friends who I've met through socials.

Mostly it has been through another site but quite a few are on here too.

Apart from the extra caution and discretion required in light of recent press activity, the tricky bit is trying to explain to friends not involved with the scene how I know folk that I'm driving a hundred miles for a night out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a social meet whether if it's a one on one or a larger group. It gives you the opportunity to woo lol I love a good woo

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over a year ago

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