FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so just putting the question to the masses, In your opinion should people have the full verifications displayed on their profile? Or would the green tick that they have been verified be suffice? As a rule of thumb are people more likely to meet someone who has got their veri's displayed compared to someone who hasn't?

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By *piderxMan
over a year ago

west lothian

i think a tick is ok a couple of the people i have met have left the site so lost there verification

if they were all i had it would look like i had not met anybody and could be a timewaster

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

No sorry dont agree all a tick tells you is that they have been verified many people on here are only photo,phone or cam verified and that means nothing but they are male/female

not genuine swingers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to say when im.looking at someone profile.one of the first things i check is to see if they have been verified. i agree a green tick means nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

A green ticks means someone is verified , whether its by the method u choose is neither here or there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dont just go one someone else word either its a combination of thing well for me anyways x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have two profiles and verify youself.

we wouldnt like to drive down south for a meet to find its all a load of bollocks!!!

Maybe an indication of the number of verifications would help.

You can be out a lot of time and money arranging meets, if you travel.

It's nice to be sure they are genuine first.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"A green ticks means someone is verified , whether its by the method u choose is neither here or there.

I personally dont read verifications as i would rather find out for myself what people are like and not take someones word for it , after all how one person is with u isnt necessarily going to be the same for someone else we are all different and individual and I for one would rather trust myself than a verification from a stranger."
I do read verivications people have left for people who have asked me to meet but like you i dont make my judgemnt on meeting them based on what others have said way to often people are judged before any one has met them so make up your own mind rather than going on what others have told you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it isnt really about judging the people. As you say its up to your own experience in meeting them your self.

It's about making sure they are who the say they are and they meet and play like they say they do.

Cookin'

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes i read verifications but i think u have to meet the person and as jacs says not take some ones word for it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"You can have two profiles and verify youself.

we wouldnt like to drive down south for a meet to find its all a load of bollocks!!!

Maybe an indication of the number of verifications would help.

You can be out a lot of time and money arranging meets, if you travel.

It's nice to be sure they are genuine first. "
Exactly and people are being a lot more cautious due to recent events on here im astounded at the amount of new profiles on here just now some on an hour and verified some 3/4 hours and yes i know it maybe a case of someone rejoining but just makes it a little more than suspicious .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a whole week before I got verified :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A green ticks means someone is verified , whether its by the method u choose is neither here or there.

I personally dont read verifications as i would rather find out for myself what people are like and not take someones word for it , after all how one person is with u isn't necessarily going to be the same for someone else we are all different and individual and I for one would rather trust myself than a verification from a stranger.I do read verivications people have left for people who have asked me to meet but like you i dont make my judgemnt on meeting them based on what others have said way to often people are judged before any one has met them so make up your own mind rather than going on what others have told you ."
I totally agree with Miss D, you should find out for yourself what others are like, and not listen to judgmental peeps, Specially when they have not met the people they have judged! Well said Miss D! Also Veri's are only one persons experience and they are all different

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Well we have the green tick but don't show the actual veri's as it is our business who we have met. To me, they only have a certain amount of value as I make my own judgements on messaging and phone. I also have the choice of briefly showing the veri's whilst chatting to potential meets.

If you were to decide purely on what is listed on veri's, then you are just as likely to come unstuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah all well and good in saying that having the tick is fine etc but i know for a fact that some people have had like 100's of verifications and you literally have to scroll down the page for a good 30 secs to see the end of the list, Surely having that many verifications is off putting?

Take myself, I dont pretend to have a whole load of verifications, in fact i only have 3! (how pathetic i know) but i have decided to hide them as im not a kiss and tell kind of guy, any meets should be between you and the other party. But people on here don't believe that you are genuine when clearly you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it isnt really about judging the people. As you say its up to your own experience in meeting them your self.

It's about making sure they are who the say they are and they meet and play like they say they do.

Cookin'

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"For us it isnt really about judging the people. As you say its up to your own experience in meeting them your self.

It's about making sure they are who the say they are and they meet and play like they say they do.

Cookin'

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lmao u said that two hours ago opppps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can have two profiles and verify youself.

you cant

you need to be verified to verify someone :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us verifications or reviews as we see them mean heehawww!

All they tell us is that the person reviewing had a ball, it is now way of an indication of the good times that are ahead if you chose to interact with them.

Newbies or 1st timers hav to start somewhere so its a shame to ignore them or regard them as fakes or timewasters. We have met quite a few newbies and had great nights, if we went on veries then we would have missed out on a lot of fun!

I think some people use veris as a way of gaining a fab status. Like people who go to sociels etc, and hav a dozen veris for the one event! Does thìs make that 1 person more attractive than the perron with 1 Veri from 1 Meet?

I think if you like a profiles content and pics then message them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah all well and good in saying that having the tick is fine etc but i know for a fact that some people have had like 100's of verifications and you literally have to scroll down the page for a good 30 secs to see the end of the list, Surely having that many verifications is off putting?

Just adding a wee bit but if you don't have any verifications people don't think your genuine and they don't take the chance so that's the hard bit to get to know someone becouse they just look at your verifications and not the person you should be able to tell by talking to them over time and could be a different experience for you if U ever met the person

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By *addie bunnetMan
over a year ago

glasgow

There's a guy on here with two profiles both have ticks photos been verified the photos on his cpls profile aren't of him so having the big V means nothing any way when you see some profiles and the amount of meets they have had means the big fab pole comes out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah but thats the thing, people dont even take the chance to speak to people, i mean i have been on here for a few months, chatted away to some people, had "friends" but to be honest the amount of replies i get in a week i can count on 1/maybe 2 hands! Im not sending filth messages or anythingm just asking folk how they are etc and that i like their profile. Maybe a different tac is needed, do people prefer dirty messages? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same Scottishschlong only send nice messages and got not a thing back

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"A green ticks means someone is verified , whether its by the method u choose is neither here or there.

I personally dont read verifications as i would rather find out for myself what people are like and not take someones word for it , after all how one person is with u isn't necessarily going to be the same for someone else we are all different and individual and I for one would rather trust myself than a verification from a stranger.I do read verivications people have left for people who have asked me to meet but like you i dont make my judgemnt on meeting them based on what others have said way to often people are judged before any one has met them so make up your own mind rather than going on what others have told you . I totally agree with Miss D, you should find out for yourself what others are like, and not listen to judgmental peeps, Specially when they have not met the people they have judged! Well said Miss D! Also Veri's are only one persons experience and they are all different

Wasnt miss D u quoted though lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's kinda a bit of a double edged sword for me while I don't always believe what someone's wrote in a verification depending on who's left it can make a difference if I see lots of guys with the same girls verifying them and I find the verifications extremely crude and ott and there are lots of unsafe sex pics then yeah I'm a snob and think they're not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys!!! would a single female with lots and lots of verifications be more appealing than a girl with only a few verifications??? (assuming they have been members same length of time).

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

It occurs to me that a lot of people are missing one big important point about verifications, explicit or otherwise. There is not one single verification on this entire site by any poster of any gender that is compulsory for any other person to read. Bottom line, verifications annoy/disgust you, don't read them. If you do, don't complain about them. Nobody made you read it. The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge people on there's verfi's no point cas how they make one person thing doesn't mean they'll make me feel like that...verfi's to me are,a bit of tongue and cheek find it's all getting way to serious....it's about having fun

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

We read verifications and use them as a tool Not to judge and it is not totally down to them if we meet them or not but reading them in conjuction to what they have written on their profile etc eg only want to meet single fems no couples then they are verified by a couple saying met last night and wow we both enjoyed the sex - just makes you wonder then if what they have written is true. Also they may say dont want to meet lots of different people but looking at their verifcations they do meet lots of ppl very close together and play. So to us verifications are important but are not used on their own. If people dont want to show a verification on their profile they dont have to it is up to them but personally at least having a few does help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can be helpful, other can be cringe worthy but all in all it's each to their own.

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

"Some can be helpful, other can be cringe worthy but all in all it's each to their own.

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We like to keep verifications private, however if someone asks to see them we do.XxCxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guys!!! would a single female with lots and lots of verifications be more appealing than a girl with only a few verifications??? (assuming they have been members same length of time)."

why should I care who came before me or who will after me?...I'm not here to seek a relationship.

And these days, some are getting 1 or 2 verifications...faked ones...

So when I see someone who has a good few, it leads me to believe theres been a few good meets(helps if I end up knowing one of the verifications)

I wont copmplain about meeting a timewaster/fake...because I simply wont meet them

I'm fairly well versed into checking especially new people out...or those lingering on the site in the pretense of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to verify me as being human at least lol I've been trying to get verified for ages lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Anyone want to verify me as being human at least lol I've been trying to get verified for ages lol

Ages?? You've only joined 2 weeks ago lol

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Its all about choice. We are heavily verified, i;d love to remove some , but sadly admin does not allow a mass delete option.

On choosing potential partners we do use verification system, after all, that's why its there.

Why on earth would we choose to show what we look like to everyone? That's insane. We meet players.. The verification system, to date, allows for that feature via verifications. XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got know time for photo or cam veris to me they mean nothin. A meet in person veri tells you a lot more about the person.

But thats my opinion so pls keep the toys in the prams lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications to me mean fuck all basically, I have had guys tell me they have wrote girls a ''good'' verification to receive a good one back.

Also I have had a time when someone has had a verification and wasted my time.

For me I'd rather find out for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications to me mean fuck all basically, I have had guys tell me they have wrote girls a ''good'' verification to receive a good one back.

Also I have had a time when someone has had a verification and wasted my time.

For me I'd rather find out for myself."

I read it as, your on about the wording, the specifics within a verification?

I dont go near the "member a year/no verification tick" personally.

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