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"Use your filters to filter out men and do your own searching " That is one option but I always feel you miss out on some of the social aspects of the site doing that. An example would be getting private messages on forum topics. | |||
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"Use your filters to filter out men and do your own searching " How would that stop the messages as they come from veried guys aswell and guys that in the same age range that I'm looking for. I do my own searching also | |||
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"Use your filters to filter out men and do your own searching How would that stop the messages as they come from veried guys aswell and guys that in the same age range that I'm looking for. I do my own searching also " No new men would be able to send you the type of messages you're complaining about | |||
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"Use your filters to filter out men and do your own searching How would that stop the messages as they come from veried guys aswell and guys that in the same age range that I'm looking for. I do my own searching also No new men would be able to send you the type of messages you're complaining about " Most of them come from guys that have been on for over a year. Dont get me wrong it's not a complaint just an observation  | |||
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"Some men wonder why they get no replies to messages neve mind a meet. Messages I've recieved over the weekend, and I'm sure I'm not the only one 1. Wanna fk 2. Anymore pics 3. Can I cum in you 4. Wanna sux ma c**k The list goes on anyone want to add to the list "I wouldn't know, I don't send those type of messages, in fact I don't send many at all. | |||
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"It’s the men like that who ruin it for the rest of us, who have at bit of class to them. No wonder many women have the age preference set higher and leave people my age potentially missing some great users. I promise, I don’t use text speech and enjoy conversations to establish connections "I'm pretty sure those "great users" you allude to have age preference filters set for reasons outwith dickishness. | |||
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Iv always said at the end of the day it is a sex site but it did used to be more a swinging site previously rather than a meet n blow. | |||
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"It's all getting a bit tedious on here unfortunately with the.. show me your pics messages or.. can you meet now. No attempt of reading profile's I always reply back but even I'm like why the feck should I respond to that shit?
Iv always said at the end of the day it is a sex site but it did used to be more a swinging site previously rather than a meet n blow."This is spot on. I to used to reply to all but got fed up wasting my Time so I now delete and block maybe harsh to some but if thats the effort they make with a first message then I aint going to waste my time meeting them | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk "Does sound like a complaint though.  | |||
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"It’s the men like that who ruin it for the rest of us, who have at bit of class to them. No wonder many women have the age preference set higher and leave people my age potentially missing some great users. I promise, I don’t use text speech and enjoy conversations to establish connections "This is one of the most ridiculous myths that get bounded on fab. Ooh some guys are arseholes and spoil it for us gods. Mate if your no getting yer hole it's on you !! not the actions of others . It's as simple as that. | |||
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"It’s the men like that who ruin it for the rest of us, who have at bit of class to them. No wonder many women have the age preference set higher and leave people my age potentially missing some great users. I promise, I don’t use text speech and enjoy conversations to establish connections
This is one of the most ridiculous myths that get bounded on fab. Ooh some guys are arseholes and spoil it for us gods. Mate if your no getting yer hole it's on you !! not the actions of others . It's as simple as that. "It's the simping white Knight approach to getting women. It works for some. Let's not be too harsh on the guy. It's similar to the "got 597 and a half messages to get through" status that is completely irrelevant since all women here get inundated with hundreds of messages every day. I tend to think this is a "come look at my profile to see what makes me popular" status as much as the "fab my pics if you want to (insert sexual act here)" on pictures to get up to the top page of fab'd pics. All of this happens. We all see it. We all just usually let it slip past without comment until a forum post is made to talk about it. | |||
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"Some men wonder why they get no replies to messages neve mind a meet. Messages I've recieved over the weekend, and I'm sure I'm not the only one 1. Wanna fk 2. Anymore pics 3. Can I cum in you 4. Wanna sux ma c**k The list goes on anyone want to add to the list "You up to much tonight mate? U huge? Are you hiding a suckable cock? | |||
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"Some men wonder why they get no replies to messages neve mind a meet. Messages I've recieved over the weekend, and I'm sure I'm not the only one 1. Wanna fk 2. Anymore pics 3. Can I cum in you 4. Wanna sux ma c**k The list goes on anyone want to add to the list
You up to much tonight mate?
U huge?
Are you hiding a suckable cock?"well..are you?  | |||
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"Some men wonder why they get no replies to messages neve mind a meet. Messages I've recieved over the weekend, and I'm sure I'm not the only one 1. Wanna fk 2. Anymore pics 3. Can I cum in you 4. Wanna sux ma c**k The list goes on anyone want to add to the list
You up to much tonight mate?
U huge?
Are you hiding a suckable cock?well..are you? "Not much, it's fine, is covered but not deliberately hidden. Lol | |||
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"It’s the men like that who ruin it for the rest of us, who have at bit of class to them. No wonder many women have the age preference set higher and leave people my age potentially missing some great users. I promise, I don’t use text speech and enjoy conversations to establish connections "Absolute nonsense. The actions of others do not reflect on you. I'm sick of saying this. The wankers actually make the good guys shine through. Also age filters are nothing to do with shit messages. Most females don't want to shag someone close to the age of their kids. | |||
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"It’s the men like that who ruin it for the rest of us, who have at bit of class to them. No wonder many women have the age preference set higher and leave people my age potentially missing some great users. I promise, I don’t use text speech and enjoy conversations to establish connections
Absolute nonsense. The actions of others do not reflect on you. I'm sick of saying this. The wankers actually make the good guys shine through.
Also age filters are nothing to do with shit messages. Most females don't want to shag someone close to the age of their kids. "I'd assume his profile age range is 18-99 so he doesn't miss out on all of those 99 year old stunners our there ready to ride him like a rodeo bull. | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk "Ring ring. Dialled out cause I’m a geriatric. Guys just get fed up with hoops and loops to jump through. Or a sad and desperate or just just crass. Simple as that. My personal journey has been far more enlightening because I’m true to myself. Also simple. | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk
Ring ring. Dialled out cause I’m a geriatric.
Guys just get fed up with hoops and loops to jump through. Or a sad and desperate or just just crass. Simple as that.
My personal journey has been far more enlightening because I’m true to myself. Also simple. "The hoops, loops and unrealistic demands are a bit tiresome. | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk
Ring ring. Dialled out cause I’m a geriatric.
Guys just get fed up with hoops and loops to jump through. Or a sad and desperate or just just crass. Simple as that.
My personal journey has been far more enlightening because I’m true to myself. Also simple.
The hoops, loops and unrealistic demands are a bit tiresome. "If no one jumped through them. They would have to change their approach. Some folk have a superiority complex. I also see them as wankers who let the good ones shine through. Suppose it's all about perceptions | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk
Ring ring. Dialled out cause I’m a geriatric.
Guys just get fed up with hoops and loops to jump through. Or a sad and desperate or just just crass. Simple as that.
My personal journey has been far more enlightening because I’m true to myself. Also simple.
The hoops, loops and unrealistic demands are a bit tiresome.
If no one jumped through them. They would have to change their approach.
Some folk have a superiority complex. I also see them as wankers who let the good ones shine through.
Suppose it's all about perceptions "I read every profile that catches my eye before I even go to have a look at any public pictures. There are reasonable requests and there are unreasonable demands. The latter is very unattractive to me | |||
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"To be honest this is what I do Think this post has been taken the wrong way. It is in mo way a complaint just an observation. It does make me chuckle at times as some folk can think of here as dial a fk
Ring ring. Dialled out cause I’m a geriatric.
Guys just get fed up with hoops and loops to jump through. Or a sad and desperate or just just crass. Simple as that.
My personal journey has been far more enlightening because I’m true to myself. Also simple.
The hoops, loops and unrealistic demands are a bit tiresome.
If no one jumped through them. They would have to change their approach.
Some folk have a superiority complex. I also see them as wankers who let the good ones shine through.
Suppose it's all about perceptions
I read every profile that catches my eye before I even go to have a look at any public pictures.
There are reasonable requests and there are unreasonable demands.
The latter is very unattractive to me"Can I ask what these unreasonable demands might be? Apart from a face pic, which is not unreasonable, I’ve not experienced this. My only nag is people judging me by my age or preferences and that’s always a given to them. Move on. The diamonds always surface. | |||
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