FabSwingers.com forum: How long

By *pache1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Hey all

I know single females and couple receive a lot of messages from single males. They might read the mail and forget to reply or may want to reply when their partner/husband/wife are there.

How long do you leave before you decide that they are not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put any thought into it at all. If I don't get a reply, move on and forget about it.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

No reply = no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't put any thought into it at all. If I don't get a reply, move on and forget about it. "

This.

Send the message and forget about it. If it's meant to be, it will be.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"No reply = no interest. "

100% this.

Ive just blocked someone for sending Me 3 messages over 2 days, and i know every one but the 1st would have had the big yellow box before he sent warning him about pestering. I hate getting pestered, rips my fucking knitting..

OP. Id maybe wait a week or so, send another apologising for the 2nd, that you were just hoping you were missed amongst other mails but if you dont get a reply this time you wont bother them again...

Put a note on their profile to remind yourself and move on

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"No reply = no interest. "

Not always the case for me if it’s been read and I haven’t replied I’m not interested if it’s unread either I’ve been super busy and not been online, or I’ve been online and had so many mails I can’t be bothered getting to them and will eventually unless my status says I’ve deleted all because I couldn’t be arsed going through them

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

If im semi interested/undecided but busy, I'll mark them as unread again and come back to them later ??

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Double question mark us supposed to be sunglasses emoji, suppose i should consider renewing site pass, but again dunno if i can be bothered

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By *haredpleasuresMan
over a year ago

Fort William

A couple of days if they've been read.

Mind you I'm still hoping for a reply from some messages I sent pre covid....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only 1 message ... thats nowhere near enough ..only way to be sure if they arent interested is to bombard them with messages until they answer or block you ...then youll get your answer ...your welcome

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

If they dont reply demading my body in the first 300 years ..I give up.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Some folk don't reply!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least wait 2 full moons

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hey all

I know single females and couple receive a lot of messages from single males. They might read the mail and forget to reply or may want to reply when their partner/husband/wife are there.

How long do you leave before you decide that they are not interested?"
if you get no reply then take that as your thanks but no thanks .

However that doesn’t always mean never it could just mean not right now if the person you are mailing isnt looking to meet right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some folk don't reply!?

Just cos you’re irresistible

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By *pache1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Livingston

"Only 1 message ... thats nowhere near enough ..only way to be sure if they arent interested is to bombard them with messages until they answer or block you ...then youll get your answer ...your welcome

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By *pache1971 OP Man
over a year ago

Livingston

"No reply = no interest.

100% this.

OP. Id maybe wait a week or so, send another apologising for the 2nd, that you were just hoping you were missed amongst other mails but if you dont get a reply this time you wont bother them again...

Put a note on their profile to remind yourself and move on

Thanks for this. Yeah I think this is the road I'll go down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't get a reply that day ,i remain an adult,Throw my toy's oot the pram and instantly block the barstewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they read the message and don't reply and just assume they're not interested and move on, same with people that reply with 1 or 2 word replies.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"If they read the message and don't reply and just assume they're not interested and move on, same with people that reply with 1 or 2 word replies."

Unless those two words are "fuck" and "me", then you're still in limbo.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"If I don't get a reply that day ,i remain an adult,Throw my toy's oot the pram and instantly block the barstewards

Liar yer a big greetin face if you lost your mr snuggle .

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