FabSwingers.com forum: Still learning the world no expectations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just want to get to know as many as possible where that be fun or social im.6 momths old on the scene but i lile to get to know ppl im not goin to be everyones cup of tea but what i am as real if am for you then thats ok pointers will be appriacted x

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

To be fair, you don't seem to be struggling. Your verifications are all very complimentary. I would just keep doing what you're doing. Be friendly, chatty, charming and fun. Seems to be working so far xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i try my best but im a nervous wreck every time although ppl might look at me and not think that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just want to get to know as many as possible where that be fun or social im.6 momths old on the scene but i lile to get to know ppl im not goin to be everyones cup of tea but what i am as real if am for you then thats ok pointers will be appriacted x"

Yes bud you can give me all the pointers you want. Hugh Heffner has nothing on you mate . I'll be your wing man any day, don't mind if I get the ugly friend while you "the stud" go in for the kill.

For 6 months in mate you don't need pointers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mate ive been lucky to meet so many great ppl but im still not in the swing swing side of it im here for everyone n hope everyone is for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the looks of it, you’re already doing no bad there chum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just missing a body like yours big man hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just missing a body like yours big man hahaha "

That’s actually a real compliment man thank you but ultimately it’s all about what’s inside than on the out

…..and the penis

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your veris seem to be mostly from cjs so if you're looking to meet a wider variety of people, my main advice would be to attend a mixture of different events.

Parties, organised socials, pre drinks and specific events are commonly advertised on here & are a great way to meet different circles of people. Also getting involved in the forums, chat rooms & kik groups can be fun as well as another way to meet new people.

Happy swinging

Jigs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheere jigs every day we learn something took onboard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just missing a body like yours big man hahaha

That’s actually a real compliment man thank you but ultimately it’s all about what’s inside than on the out

…..and the penis

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ull be sound my man if youbcan be anyome in life what i learned is be yourself

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

TRUST

RESPECT

HONESTY

DISCRETION

The first two take time to earn from people and that’s not really going to happen quickly on here folk have been stung far too many times by fakers etc , the second two well people talk on the site and it will soon become apparent whether or not you have those qualities as well or wether your sharing all the intimate details about your time on fab. Not everyone leaves folks verifications or announces that they have played with a person when they verify them they like to keep the veris very neutral and non descript.

6 months isn’t a long time to be on fab and as great as your verifications are and how many you have they’re just a tiny snapshot of one night where you met someone and they got along with you. People have been on here years and still don’t get invited to private parties because they don’t maintain “friendships” for any length of time so no one really knows what they are like, chats like kik etc are good to get to know folk and develop a better idea of a person but as much as folk are discrete if someone does anything to Piss folk off or disrespect them they will soon pass word around their friends about folk to avoid etc

as they say in the hospitality industry if someone enjoys their visit they may tell one or two friends if someone hates it they will tell 10 !!

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"Just missing a body like yours big man hahaha "

I concur !!

I’d climb him like a tree although he’s not that tall

ok I’d ride him like I stole him lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally get that their are people who ive met close to home that we have nlt verified each other as a matter of fact there are several that i have repeated meets with but dont feel need to keep veryfing im totally not everyomes cup of tea but im new to it all n and i take people as face value althou meeting ppl for short space of time you dont actually know them but there was a point when i just joined i never thought my friends list would grow lol

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Fab friends can actually turn out to be some of your best friends, there’s things ou can share with fab friends other folk just wouldn’t understand, conversations can be very taboo elsewhere but for the most part the fabbers don’t judge and any conversation is fair game. For a lot of people and women especially it brings out a lot of confidence and strength sexually and emotional that sadly society has tried to suppress. Again a lot of fabbers have shared experiences that they’re happy to talk about that perhaps other folk would keep to themselves because generally we’re just very much more open in conversation.

I’ve met so many amazing folk on here who I love spending time with and it’s totally non sexual and when I was ill last year and even now as I’m still not too great my fab friends are the ones checking in all the time making sure I’m ok dragging me out and cheering me up x x

Just keep doing what you’re doing cause it’s clearly working for you even if you think it’s not, you’re also quite young give it a few years and you’ll be like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let you in on a sectret im not my age im younger lol trying the curve ball of discretion but then i ended up getting fed up of sending my face picture in .essages so made it my profile picture at one point lol ive defo mellowed down with the the private messages these days was like a dog on heat at the start lol

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