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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bloody fed up with the amount of fakers and pic collectors on here now. And the utter rudeness of some folks.. even verified is off the charts.

Its very disheartening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a HUGE moan about it doesn't do you any favours neither I'm afraid - that would attract me even less!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody fed up with the amount of fakers and pic collectors on here now. And the utter rudeness of some folks.. even verified is off the charts.

Its very disheartening "

Shit happens no point in moaning about it

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Having a HUGE moan about it doesn't do you any favours neither I'm afraid - that would attract me even less! "

Yeah, there's good moaning (try to stop yourself hearing that in a bad french accent allo, allo)

And there's bad moaning.

OP its very frustrating but it is what it is

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If you know they are fakes then it shouldn’t be a problem !

Just ignore them or report block and leave admin to deal with it .

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley


"Bloody fed up with the amount of fakers and pic collectors on here now. And the utter rudeness of some folks.. even verified is off the charts.

Its very disheartening "

I mean, you’ve been here over a year and haven’t been verified at all, so…

If you know they’re fake, just block and don’t send them picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just need to do some due diligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody fed up with the amount of fakers and pic collectors on here now. And the utter rudeness of some folks.. even verified is off the charts.

Its very disheartening

I mean, you’ve been here over a year and haven’t been verified at all, so…

If you know they’re fake, just block and don’t send them picture. "

He is verified, just not displaying them.

What makes you think they are fake OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol snide comments already. It wasnt a moan.. but hey i shouldve thought twice about posting it in the forum. Lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" He is verified, just not displaying them.

What makes you think they are fake OP? "

Thank you for being nice and not shooting me down.

Just verified people chatting then adding me as a friend then boom the profiles deleted from the site.

Then had one saying theyll post my pics on the internet unless i gave them money then the profiles vanished. Added with the utter snideness some folks spew out when were all here for fun and get along. Its nice to be nice and have a banter etc. treat folks how you want to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try not adding friends unless you've actually met in person.

I don't necessarily think a dissappearing verified profile means they are fake. I've had a few profiles, deleted for a variety of reasons.

Hopefully you have more luck soon!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


" He is verified, just not displaying them.

What makes you think they are fake OP?

Thank you for being nice and not shooting me down.

Just verified people chatting then adding me as a friend then boom the profiles deleted from the site.

Then had one saying theyll post my pics on the internet unless i gave them money then the profiles vanished. Added with the utter snideness some folks spew out when were all here for fun and get along. Its nice to be nice and have a banter etc. treat folks how you want to be treated "

Don't freely give out pics! Don't expect every chat to lead to a meet! Not everyone who stops chatting or disappears us a fake!

Have fun. Whinging isn't attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ffs im sorry i spoke “im a whinger , having a HUGE moan and not verified” all in the space of five / ten minutes.

I was just stating a fact and suddenly it feels im the bad guy lol

Dont confuse stating a fact, having an observation with moaning. Lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Ffs im sorry i spoke “im a whinger , having a HUGE moan and not verified” all in the space of five / ten minutes.

I was just stating a fact and suddenly it feels im the bad guy lol

Dont confuse stating a fact, having an observation with moaning. Lol "

Welcome to the forums. Thick skin required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how long you've been on here for OP but your profile says over a year. Unfortunately things like this happen on here, a lot! Welcome to the forum though. Just surprised it's taken you so long to post a thread. Familiarise yourself with the threads on here to get a feel for things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol snide comments already. It wasnt a moan.. but hey i shouldve thought twice about posting it in the forum. Lesson learned

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OP no to be so sensitive, you are having a moan, we all have moans and rants its not a big deal, spitting the dummy and saying lesson learned is like now playing the victim. The forums are a great platform to air your frustrations as you have done but it comes at a price where others are entitled to pass opinions on your choice of topic. If you can't handle others opinions then yes perhaps you should think twice about posting here.

As long as opinions don't include abuse then I'm afraid as said earlier you need to just learn to be thick skinned in here. Taking the huff is not an attractive trait either mate , just my opinion. All the best.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Lol snide comments already. It wasnt a moan.. but hey i shouldve thought twice about posting it in the forum. Lesson learned

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don’t let anyones opinions stop you posting .

I assume you were looking for feed back on the subject and that’s what you got Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regard to everything you've said OP, could it be you've been a bit too trusting??? I am a great advocator of good vetting. I'd never accept a friends invite or send pictures etc unless very sure of the person. That takes a bit of time but seems to work. Appreciate the frustration you must feel but as you say, lesson learned. There are many lovely people here, take time to find them, good luck xxx

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I'm not sure I would say they're fake, plenty of people join and leave all the time. It sounds like you might just need to learn to be a bit more cautious. General rule of thumb... don't send anything you wouldn't be happy for the world to see. As for someone b***ckmailing you... report them to admin, at the very least. It's a crime, and to b**ckmail someone on here, when they are too, is the lowest of the low, absolute scumbags! Anyone who uses this site to get one over on someone should be permanently removed from the site, no place for people who can't show discretion!xx

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’m all my time here I genuinely don’t think I’ve had a conversation with a time waster…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m all my time here I genuinely don’t think I’ve had a conversation with a time waster…"

Same, but that's the good vetting part for me anyway

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By *ightdelightsTV/TS
over a year ago

Central Edinburgh/Central Manchester

Try setting their expectations from the start - it works for me.

I DO NOT meet after a few messages - if we are going to meet it will be after regular chatting for quite a while first. If they continue chatting regularly then they’re somewhat genuine.

I also don’t share any ‘extra’ pics - if they’re not satisfied with 82 public pics then I know they are not worth talking too or genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try setting their expectations from the start - it works for me.

I DO NOT meet after a few messages - if we are going to meet it will be after regular chatting for quite a while first. If they continue chatting regularly then they’re somewhat genuine.

I also don’t share any ‘extra’ pics - if they’re not satisfied with 82 public pics then I know they are not worth talking too or genuine. "

I'm the opposite, if I dont get a number or meet aranged within the first 10 or so messages then they get bombed out . I'm not talking about people I know that are genuine and I would class as Fab friends , a knockback from them is just that. Won't stop me chatting to them as general conversation. Someone I'm interested in, on whatever platform I'm using only gets so much of my time , I'm not so desperate to keep chasing someone I know is just wasting my time. Works for me anyway.

As said earlier I can usually secure a meet on other platforms within a week .

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