FabSwingers.com forum: Sunday mail.....21.10

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just read this story!

Sunday mail set up a profile, as a single female, on Fabswingers!

Another unwanted mention in the media.

They ended up with over 200 replies, and end result being the exposure of a police man...........entrapment?????

How many other fabbers did they investigate before choosing this individual?

A few questions.......1, is this a witch hunt against Fab?.....2, is it time to say 'bye'?....3, wouldn't be better if they used their resources to expose more appropriate individuals, paedophiles, muggers, drug dealers etc?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because it is a bloody idiot who send pictures of himself/herself in a uniform from his/her place of work...... stupid, stupid & more stupid. They use the uniform as a sex enhancement and shows immense disrespect for the profession.

and the guys who prowl the new females icon and send mails within minutes of a female joining only goes to enhance the perception that people on here are sex obsessed, zero standard any hole is a goal fucking idiot.

but silly to do what they did... but it sells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he is as stupid as it seams he shouldnt be in the police anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're not doubting the lads an arse!

The point is, strains of the media are actively setting up profiles on here.

Are there couple profiles in the same vein?

Who's next, public sector, uniformed personnel, dentists, doctors........anyone they think will sell a paper?

A bit concerned that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"because it is a bloody idiot who send pictures of himself/herself in a uniform from his/her place of work...... stupid, stupid & more stupid. They use the uniform as a sex enhancement and shows immense disrespect for the profession.

but silly to do what they did... but it sells."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual fuck happened to privacy between consenting adults? What the fuck is their agenda?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did we miss, been on hols

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is bad news wait until a big paper down south starts an investigation !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one will stay on fab they won't stop me from having some fun...as said above im a consenting adult and this suits my needs so let them write there stories i couldn't give to f...s....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have just read this story unbelievable they must be trying to catch people in the no like stars n such so sad what next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a pathetic excuse of a newspaper but the guy has been a right numpty. Doesnt deserve this though and no doubt a ruined career especially as most of what he was bragging about was likely fantasy rather than fact.

Some folk on here are far too blazee(sp?). I was told a few weeks ago in a post regarding lack of meets that i need photos up and attend socials to get anywhere. Well looks to me like discretion is they way to go otherwise this is the sort of thing thats gonna happen.

Theyre gonna be like a dog with a bone and keep at this site hoping they find a celebrity no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it won't stop me from being on fab, we are not doing anything wrong, we are consenting adults,

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

only in this country can .............a guy wanting sex be news gotta laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has been stupid but what about privacy from his family? Surely his little sister or niece nephew or any of his family will now be teased at school or the work place.

The people who write these articles really dont think of the knock on effect to others.

I for one will be going back to work as a British Airways Captain in my uniform come Monday morning pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he had done it in his own time and not boated about being in the police it wouldnt have been printed. And if you have a job that could be sensationalised why on earth would you tell people what you did? Especially before you had met them.The simple fact is that if you think your world will come crashing down because of what you do dont do it or take steps to make sure you are as discreet as humanly possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will I lose my privileges as a County Court Judge then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every time.I see a story about here in.the papers I see the reporters as the puppets from spitting image

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

just back from taking the service at the cathedral...did i miss anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if you forget that I am always not guitly

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"only if you forget that I am always not guitly

yeah........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has anyone rumbled the hacks.profile yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only if you forget that I am always not guitly

yeah........

what you doubt me

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Discretion is a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but it would be interesting to find out who they are. and do they have a cpl profile? WE ARE ALL CONSENTING ADULTS WHO DO WHAT EVER WE DO BEHIND CLOSED DOORS.

WE HAVE DISCRETION AND ARE NOT BREAKING THE LAWS OF THIS COUNTRY.

THEY SHOULD BE LOOKING INTO, PAEDOPHILES, DRUGS AND ALL THE LAW BREAKERS, THERE IS PLENTY THEY COULD BE LOOKING AT.

BY THE WAY I'M AN ANGEL IN MY SPARE TIME.PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story must have done something cas the amount of new female profiles in the last few hours is something else...lol

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I'm not surprised they have been at it again. I wrote a blog article elsewhere following the last sensationalist story. In it, I identified that as a sexual "minority" we are not afforded the same legal protection as recognised minority groups. Sexual preference is just that and, as such can not be classed as orientation. If the same paper carried a story on gay or black police officers, they would rightly be open to prosecution. Swingers (and swingles) are an easy target.

The US have entrapment laws, the UK does not. Where someone may have a case is that of unreasonable invasion of privacy. Again sticky ground as the respondents volunteered their personal data, and specifically photographs. It would remain to be proved whether the conduct of the reporter encouraged this in an unreasonable manner.

Until it is actually a well paid individual able, and prepared, to take this discrimination through a court, papers will continue with impunity.

It is exactly the points being made by those at the Levisson (sp?) enquiry. Those most vulnerable, are ordinary people unable to tackle the press.

The good news is that the press have been left on the back foot by social media. In that respect, ordinary people are taking back power with newspaper circulation hit as a result.

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

"I'm not surprised they have been at it again. I wrote a blog article elsewhere following the last sensationalist story. In it, I identified that as a sexual "minority" we are not afforded the same legal protection as recognised minority groups. Sexual preference is just that and, as such can not be classed as orientation. If the same paper carried a story on gay or black police officers, they would rightly be open to prosecution. Swingers (and swingles) are an easy target.

Until it is actually a well paid individual able, and prepared, to take this discrimination through a court, papers will continue with impunity.

It is exactly the points being made by those at the Levisson (sp?) enquiry. Those most vulnerable, are ordinary people unable to tackle the press.

The good news is that the press have been left on the back foot by social media. In that respect, ordinary people are taking back power with newspaper circulation hit as a result. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has been stupid but what about privacy from his family? Surely his little sister or niece nephew or any of his family will now be teased at school or the work place.

The people who write these articles really dont think of the knock on effect to others.

I for one will be going back to work as a British Airways Captain in my uniform come Monday morning pmsl."

thank god we never fly BA lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has been stupid but what about privacy from his family? Surely his little sister or niece nephew or any of his family will now be teased at school or the work place.

The people who write these articles really dont think of the knock on effect to others.

I for one will be going back to work as a British Airways Captain in my uniform come Monday morning pmsl.

thank god we never fly BA lol"

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

"just back from taking the service at the cathedral...did i miss anything?"
hope they don't bash the bishop....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the article there and totally shocked !!! I've actually spoken to the guy and tbh I knew he was a police officer but he didn't reveal that to me for ages after chatting at length and he certainly didn't send me pictures or talk openly about his job I got the impression he was quite reserved and private about what he did and I'd be inclined to think he seemed like he would only have done so if he had been chatting at length to someone and not within a few days as the story suggests, I feel terribly sorry for the guy and who doesn't know police officers who text and call their other halves whilst on duty it's not like they immune to sexual urges like anyone else I'm disgusted at how he's being portrayed at end of the day if he's a single guy why would blackmail be an issue oh yeah that's right this society is so backward and has such outdated a negative _iews on sex ! How very British of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flying a plane with my knees gripping the steering thingy, texting with one hand whilst jerking off to fab with the other hand then realising the co pilot is sitting next me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flying a plane with my knees gripping the steering thingy, texting with one hand whilst jerking off to fab with the other hand then realising the co pilot is sitting next me .... "

Wahahaaahaaaa I can't get a signal in my work great big faraday blanket

gotta wait till I finish to get on or off as may be the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flying a plane with my knees gripping the steering thingy, texting with one hand whilst jerking off to fab with the other hand then realising the co pilot is sitting next me .... "

An Airbus is just one joystick to steer/fly it,(brought out the plane nerdy spotter in me,sorry) lol

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

i will say a prayer for u all next time i take a service at the cathedral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poor guy, i seen him in chat a few times. This is his life ruined. He prob lose his job over the claims eve nif they not fully true. Its bang out of order.

its a disgrase that we cant do anythign to stop these storys with out putting our selfs at risk of being dragged through the papers.

I can only see this getting much worse. Think we turning in to a 1984 society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read the story, so its clear that the sunday mail has an agenda against this lifestyle ,which is not illegal, as someone else has said the guy,s career is probly over thanks to them ,i wonder if they [ the reporter would be so smug if some part of there private lifes were put on public display?

so if the SM is reading the forums and having a laugh ,enjoy it , but remember the police have very long arms!! and wont enjoy one of there own being targeted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a double edged sward this, not comfy seeing the article top of list(it will be seen by fab people and those that are finding half assed journalistic scoops) yet i guess we have to be aware of it in some form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the same guy who has written all the other recent articles. if i was his editor i would be asking him what his special interest in swinging is. printing the guys picture is bang out of order, and more than likely as has been said his career will be ended. this will be the final straw for a lot of people.

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By *ing manMan
over a year ago

"poor guy, i seen him in chat a few times. This is his life ruined. He prob lose his job over the claims eve nif they not fully true. Its bang out of order.

its a disgrase that we cant do anythign to stop these storys with out putting our selfs at risk of being dragged through the papers.

I can only see this getting much worse. Think we turning in to a 1984 society"

Poor guy I don't think so, he's in a position of trust and using the force and his position of authority to get a sex. I doubt he'll lose his job more like a reprimand for bring the force into disrepute.

As the article said he is tarnished and now could be subjected to blackmail.

He should have known better and when confronted by the press acknowledged the fact, but unfortunately for him, he got targeted by the press.

The press will see it as reporting in the public interest and frankly it should be. Your taxes are paying for him and other members of the force to be professional and to protect the public to which they are employed by.

Would you want an officer who has casual sex, allegedly while on duty to finish before he came to your aid?

I think not, I want them to be doing their jobs not fucking someone because they have a uniform.

Quote article {“In one message he described how he had sex with a female officer while both were on duty.”

“Yeah I'm a cop. And if you have any requests I'll happily bring my uniform for you

x”

Confronted Niven he said: “I've made a big mistake. I know I shouldn't be doing this.” }

So as much as I feel sorry he got targeted for his job, it was his own fault. If however he hadn't sent the photo of him in uniform on his initial message then I very much doubt he would have been news and the paper/ reporter would have picked on someone else after all they had 200 victims.

I also think the recent articles about the site have/ should make people realise that the internet is not a safe place to be, you can't trust anyone on face value and if you voluntarily give information out then you're likely to get burned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they had over 200 messages so they picked out the one person that would be a great story (or so they thought). What about the other folk who replied to the profile? Did they not fit the "Lets cause as much sensational headlines as possible?" side of things?

Maybe the Sunday Mail should be out chasing the drug dealing scum or doing a story about these legal loan sharks that advertise on the tv?

The other sad thing is the paper did a big thing a few years ago about people using brothels and street prostitution, so now its have a go at consenting adults.

We will have to see what they do next...the one thing is that the article will have more folk registering on the site to see what its about.

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

ok let me think,

fab swingers story, orrrr

whats happening to the missing girl in wales,,,

fab swingers story orrrrr what happened to the couple that set there house on fire killing there kids,

fab swingers story or someone knowing all over the world being a pedofile,

think its time the papers wised up,

and for any guy never mind a policeman to meet someone without phone calls, chats, cams,and verification, all a can say is thank fook we have an army to look out for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok let me think,

fab swingers story, orrrr

whats happening to the missing girl in wales,,,

fab swingers story orrrrr what happened to the couple that set there house on fire killing there kids,

fab swingers story or someone knowing all over the world being a pedofile,

think its time the papers wised up,

and for any guy never mind a policeman to meet someone without phone calls, chats, cams,and verification, all a can say is thank fook we have an army to look out for us lol"
whi is to say he never spoke on phone nor cam and who nis to say that the reporters profile wasnt verified ?????

Every one is always fast to judge on this site,so hes a cop is it really that bad ,builders have work pics on as do many other proffesions on here ,uniform is a huge kink for some ,its just sad that so many judge without sitting back and looking at the whole story,

He was a single guy ,on here looking for the same as the rest of us,if it had been you me or someone else on site ,would we all have been as quick to judge ,i think not.

Dam right this site is clique ,if you dont know them and they aint in your gang then just out them .

Some really need to sit back and have a look at themselves and think really how would i feel if it was me.

i wish him all the luck ,and hopes he has better support out with .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia.

For the record, I have always posted in these forums my complete respect for the police and always will, I could not do the job and the thought of knocking on someones door to tell them their child has died sends shivers down my spine. I have also been consistent with discussions around guys in their military/police uniforms and that I think it shows disrespect to the profession... and as for the people with the penchant for people in uniform, those who take no risk but ask others to risk their career..... think on.

I also wish the guy all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sppokily enough I had contact from a single female two weeks ago but kept going on about uniforms. I am really genuine new but want you to wear a uniform. I just laughed and said sorry not me byeeeee as I thought just another fantasies. but I think back now and do think they were after someone in the services police or doctor etc.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia

Im not either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia

Im not either

You can be in my clique if you want jacs.

You only gotta shag me to become a life member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not surprised this has happened.

The press always target those who war uniform as they can sensationalise it plus there is always a code of conduct in the uniformed/emergency services that means the sack if you're caught on a swinging site.

It wouldn't make the same headlines if it was a builder/plumber etc.

The guy, in my opinion, was a bit silly to upload and send a pic of himself on duty and sadly he'll be hauled over the coals for doing nothing wrong.

A pound to a penny that someone sitting on his hearing panel will have been fucking around behind their partners back.

That's regarded as normal though, so they don't discipline for it.

Have the brass neck to do it openly and with consent and it's another matter and they show you the door.

Would be interesting to know the reporters previous sexual history and marital status.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia

Im not either

You can be in my clique if you want jacs.

You only gotta shag me to become a life member

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia

Im not either

You can be in my clique if you want jacs.

You only gotta shag me to become a life member

lol

FFS One oh then days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many people so quick to judge , so what the guy sent some pics maybe he shouldn't have , does that mean he deserved this , the guy at the end of the day arranged a meet and turned up ..who on here has done the same ..and do you really believe everything that's written in the papers maybe just maybe its been somewhat sexed up to make it sound that wee bit more juicier ..

i for one am not going to kick a guy while he's down ...i feel sorry for him his whole life wrecked all down to some rag wanting to write about a lifestyle that doesn't harm anyone . xx

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By *avy42 n jazCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

aye ok hes a cop,

like we pay taxes for his uniform and no for some eejit to use it to get a shag, if ma taxes a paid for went towards jan getting fre sex toys from nhs and you never would ya complain also lol,

and shame a women can steep so low to lie to get a story,

thats if they have a profile,

guess the person that wrote the story is a church goer,

and for him using uniform, what would you say if cops started taking there wifes and kids out in the squad car to do shopping, lol

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

I totally agree feel really sorry for the guy, it is the papers we are really cross with as said before we are doing nothing wrong and there is so much other stuff going on in the world that we dont hear about I think that is all Davy was trying to say earlier not have a go at this guy.

We talk to anyone and try not to judge all we are saying is with things going on you just have to be a bit more carefull as i agree they seem to be on a witch hunt.

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Having been here a while and had some utter shocking message sent my way in that time and I mean really bad messages if all they could find was a police guy then id say in a strange way thats lucky because it could have been a whole lot worse than that.

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By *avy42 n jazCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

and what am going on about, is the papers should report storys about missing kids,

where pedos are getting re housed near single mothers,

murders, bla bla bla,

no fab, shows you that the person writting the story does not understand swinging, and not its all about shaggin

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By *avy42 n jazCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

see if the guy went there without his uniform,,,, would there be a story about it,,, hope the person that wrote it writes about a doc, them they meed an op, and get a sex op instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely post anything but this has really incensed me.

I'm sorry but it's a very easy thing to say in hindsight that he's been stupid and shouldn't disrespect the uniform etc ... give the lad a break.. his life has been ruined and from the comments made by ladies he's actually spoken to, he's been described as a decent, reserved guy. I strongly feel that once the hook was set, he's been "encouraged" to reveal the uniform angle and consequently he's been exposed in such an unfair manner. This type of sensationalist expose is really rather sickening. For such a harmless, consenting pastime, those responsible should be truly ashamed for their so called "work".

No doubt you (or those) responsible will be reading this.... well, can I say to you this... Is there any moment when you think, we are ruining someone's career, relationships, life? You've actually effectively preyed upon someone and caused (I presume) no end of pain and heartache to many.

Maybe time to move onto journalism of a more rewarding and ethical nature perhaps?

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I very rarely post anything but this has really incensed me.

Maybe time to move onto journalism of a more rewarding and ethical nature perhaps?"

The part that really annoys me about this is out of all the really dodgy guys ive found on this (although some have been removed) is they choose one of the normal guys to use as an example and ruin the life/career of.

But heyho thats papers for you. Ive taken off my display pic now and really thinking of leaving. Im not meeting at the moment anyway and if all this is going on im probably better keeping safe

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk

It would be interesting to see what was said and sent to him by the journalists.

I would imagine (and hope) that he was not simply sending constant and explicit messages to them without encouragement. Photos in uniform was however stupid.

Am sure admin could tell us who they were, what their profile said and who they were trying to contact.

For all the couples etc who have complained when a guy has been reluctant to send a face pic etc I do hope that you can see why there may have been a reason.

There was nothing in the public interest about this story and the guy can complain / sue. Unless he was using the uniform to try and get his leg over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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"I very rarely post anything but this has really incensed me.

Maybe time to move onto journalism of a more rewarding and ethical nature perhaps?"

Theyre no gonna give a fuck about ruining his life. Ffs they were gloating last week about folk being caught by their families due to them blowing the lid on sordid pastimes.

Theyre obviously hellbent on bringing this place down, making out were all sickos. Id say its them who are the sickos messing with the lives of ordinary people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself was receiving messages about three weeks ago from an unverified fem who kept going on about uniforms and asking for personal details so often that I ended up blocking her. Unsure if it's the same person however.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I myself was receiving messages about three weeks ago from an unverified fem who kept going on about uniforms and asking for personal details so often that I ended up blocking her. Unsure if it's the same person however."

Not overly surprising since you say you have a uniform fetish??

I would take a guess if she's still there on your block list it wouldn't be the same person. I don't think the SM's fake female profile will still be here... They'll have new ones by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its a case of when the birds up the brains are oot the windae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am just gonna soldier on...I'm not in uniform anyway

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

But heyho thats papers for you. Ive taken off my display pic now and really thinking of leaving. Im not meeting at the moment anyway and if all this is going on im probably better keeping safe"

well we are the same all pics pulled and are likely to stay in the background for time being.

Totally disgusted at way this poor guys been made out when theres loads of other issues they could be reporting on.

I hope the guy has some money and takes the paper to court and gets a packet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I have been considering something.

Can we not message Fabswingers to consider legal action on our behalf a lot people pay money to be members. This newspaper has openly admitted breaking terms and conditions. They are also unlawfully harassing a business that is not breaking the law with the thinly veiled deflection of displaying public intrest.

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

"Actually I have been considering something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually I have been considering something.

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over a year ago

I also think the website should not be for public _iew..unless u are a member nobody has any business being ON here

I was actually quite shocked seeing I can _iew the forums without being a member

again...some of us have to take responsibility... not discussing dogging locations is a given...but also basically just not talking about meets where u mighta shagged in asdas toilets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am sorry but how everyone missed it i dont know ....yes this is a swinging site for like minded adults with OPEN MINDS to chat an meet...so he's a cop....does that mean his mind should be closed (although am no fan of cops).. is he not entitled to same privacy as anyone else....as for his uniform...ergh has no one ever seen the ad for UNIFORM DATING.com......i rest my case m'lud......gutter press at its best making a seedy story from nothing !!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"am sorry but how everyone missed it i dont know ....yes this is a swinging site for like minded adults with OPEN MINDS to chat an meet...so he's a cop....does that mean his mind should be closed (although am no fan of cops).. is he not entitled to same privacy as anyone else....as for his uniform...ergh has no one ever seen the ad for UNIFORM DATING.com......i rest my case m'lud......gutter press at its best making a seedy story from nothing !!"

and do you think dating is considered the same as swinging, group sex, dogging, mmf, ffm, mmmmf, greedy girl nights

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I dont think it matters what profession or job people have , what people do in the privacy of their own homes has nothing to do with anyone else, i am also in agreement with the people who think the press should be investigating things of real public interest such as , the effect of drugs on society as a whole , the depression statistics of the unemployed , but no the gutter press choose to out someone for being liberated sexually.

Lets face it this guy was on here doing what he wanted with who he thought was a like minded adult , but instead the gutter press set up profiles to entrap and snare , the so called womans profile would have been encouraging him and asking for pics and probably even saying how they wanted to have sex with him with it on , whose in the wrong here , the guy for wanting to be a bit more adventurous, or the gutter press , ensnaring and trapping with lies and deceipt.

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thing is, he was probably only 'offering' what many other police officers do in the privacy of their own home with their wives/husbands/partners - a little fun with the cuffs and the hat. I don't see that being plastered all over the rags.

Somehow it's wrong because it was arranged through a site that promotes fun between like-minded and consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the fact he could of be compromised that the police are worried about...

The papers as i said when the ball atory broke are looking for some one famous or in a point of authority so that they can sell there papers...

And this forum proves my point... You would make them money if you didnt read the bloody thing... Its simple economics

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over a year ago

no _iew i dont consider swinging as same as dateing ...but i do consider we all have our own prefrences ....my point was the paper makes an issue of his job and uniform being used to get meets "dates".... and isn't that the main criteria of uniform dating......what goes on within those dates is entirely there own buisness...and from what the article in paper says...it was a 121 meet ..no mention of group sex dogging or otherwise

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"no _iew i dont consider swinging as same as dateing ...but i do consider we all have our own prefrences ....my point was the paper makes an issue of his job and uniform being used to get meets "dates".... and isn't that the main criteria of uniform dating......what goes on within those dates is entirely there own buisness...and from what the article in paper says...it was a 121 meet ..no mention of group sex dogging or otherwise"

agreed it was a 121 and as I said in my original comment on the thread 'what they did was wrong in my opinion'

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

After reading the terms and conditions of the website the reporter has broken clause 5.8 and also clause 10 of the agreement, which means he has broken copyright law.

There is a whole law against internet breaches.I would sue the ass off the paper for giving personal details and photo without written consent of the owner of the picture and infact the owners of the website.

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over a year ago

"After reading the terms and conditions of the website the reporter has broken clause 5.8 and also clause 10 of the agreement, which means he has broken copyright law.

I would want it to go away rather than litigation.

His job, family life etc will be hanging by a thread

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over a year ago

Stirling

"After reading the terms and conditions of the website the reporter has broken clause 5.8 and also clause 10 of the agreement, which means he has broken copyright law.

I would want it to go away rather than litigation.

His job, family life etc will be hanging by a thread

I agree,however litigation is the only legal avenue that he or the website owners can go down.

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By *lasgowdavieMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The guy is a copper... it is in the public interest for us to know that one of our civil servants is abusing his position to get his end away.

I persobally am glad he was caught out. Shagging a collegue whilst on duty is gross miscondcut and is a sacking offence.

Its the same as getting caught shagging your secretary on your office desk during work hours...

The fact he has a fiancee and two kids makes it worse.

Swinging is a lifestyle for single people or couples who are aware and approve of it.. If all parties are honest with each other then game on.

Just because this is a swinging website does not excuse the fact he was cheating on his missus and kids...

He wasnt swinging, he was cheating... and using his police uniform and equipment to do so..

THATS why it was published, if he didnt use his position then the papaers would not have ran the story.

He admitted he was in the wrong and he is in the wrong... hell mend him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is really shit how this guy has been "trapped".

And the previous forum posts about how the site isnt as "lively" etc just now, will only be made worse with articles like these.

All gonna have to be so more careful in who we chat to etc ... Very sad

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over a year ago

I am sure the papers had access to his facebook etc and knew he had a family - they prob knew his address.

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

I don't condone cheating etc or screwing about with a fellow worker when on duty, who's to say that actually happened and not a fantasy in his head? The fact is the "trash" printed a story that they knew would sell papers etc.

It could have happened to any one of us, and it has to be nailed on the head.There are 3 sides to every story,his, theirs and somewhere in the middle the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was on page 31 - I cant believe they ruined a mans life on page 31

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Also something worth considering seeing as the "trash" are using the website as their way of sourcing information, is the website owners issuing an interim interdict against the journalist and the paper itself... just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This website should have privacy on the forum!

Only available to verified users

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over a year ago

"It is really shit how this guy has been "trapped".

And the previous forum posts about how the site isnt as "lively" etc just now, will only be made worse with articles like these.

All gonna have to be so more careful in who we chat to etc ... Very sad

Agreed, another obstacle to add in the list of hazards on here. Fakes, timewasters, and now honey trap setting journo's !!! Woo, fun fun fun, NOT!

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"This website should have privacy on the forum!

Only available to verified users"

id suggest a few secure forums for genuine verified clients, that way the owners could see who was reading what threads at what times etc

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know, and no matter how much you think they are " friends " you can never be really sure.

The forum has always been open to all, it is up to me not to put anything on it that would compromise our privacy.

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over a year ago

how about innocent untill proven guilty .....how do we know he slept with his collegue...how do we know he doesnt have his partners consent to play with others....infact.what do we actually know for fact except what the paper wrote...an yeah we all know they would never lie !!!!

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over a year ago

"Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know, "

I don't believe he got trapped through the forums.

Admin must have access to the account that contacted him as well. This should be a clear case of naming it.

Also think the owners should take the reporter to task for breach of the sites privacy policy as he has printed stolen pictures from a members profile.

Or are they just going to sit back and do nothing? If that's the case, why do they bother to put rules up?

Would be interesting to hear their _iews on this.

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over a year ago

"Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know,

I don't believe he got trapped through the forums.

Admin must have access to the account that contacted him as well. This should be a clear case of naming it.

Also think the owners should take the reporter to task for breach of the sites privacy policy as he has printed stolen pictures from a members profile.

Or are they just going to sit back and do nothing? If that's the case, why do they bother to put rules up?

Would be interesting to hear their _iews on this."

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over a year ago

Stirling

"Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know,

I don't believe he got trapped through the forums.

Admin must have access to the account that contacted him as well. This should be a clear case of naming it.

Also think the owners should take the reporter to task for breach of the sites privacy policy as he has printed stolen pictures from a members profile.

Or are they just going to sit back and do nothing? If that's the case, why do they bother to put rules up?

Would be interesting to hear their _iews on this.

Already stated on a post earlier, can even get an interim interdict against the reporter and paper also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do the site owners want

1 - privacy for its members

2 - free publicity

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

The site can't take responsibility for each individuals privacy, only the individual can do that.

Also anything that is posted on a public domain is fair game you only have to look at the sydney warnings meaning jack shit to work that out.

Interdicts mean fuck all there's no point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted.

You only have to look at the "super injunction" bandwagon not so long go to work that out.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know,

I don't believe he got trapped through the forums.

Admin must have access to the account that contacted him as well. This should be a clear case of naming it.

Also think the owners should take the reporter to task for breach of the sites privacy policy as he has printed stolen pictures from a members profile.

Or are they just going to sit back and do nothing? If that's the case, why do they bother to put rules up?

Would be interesting to hear their _iews on this."

I don't believe he was trapped by something on the forums either....I was just answering my _iews on what has happened the last few weeks.

People give out too much information all over the site, so I suppose I should add chat to that too.

As to what Admin think about it all, you would have to ask them.

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over a year ago

Stirling

"The site can't take responsibility for each individuals privacy, only the individual can do that.

Also anything that is posted on a public domain is fair game you only have to look at the sydney warnings meaning jack shit to work that out.

Interdicts mean fuck all there's no point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted.

You only have to look at the "super injunction" bandwagon not so long go to work that out.

Ehhh wrong, their is internet laws in litigation cases that would state otherwise. Its a precaution against it happening again...

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"The site can't take responsibility for each individuals privacy, only the individual can do that.

Also anything that is posted on a public domain is fair game you only have to look at the sydney warnings meaning jack shit to work that out.

Interdicts mean fuck all there's no point closing the stable door after the horse has bolted.

You only have to look at the "super injunction" bandwagon not so long go to work that out.

Ehhh wrong, their is internet laws in litigation cases that would state otherwise. Its a precaution against it happening again..."

Your legally qualified then ?

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By *arolxxpaulCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

when we was looking for a meet on friday i came across a bloke in his police uniform and thought how silly to do that. but if it dont affect his job then they should leave them alone. just think its abit silly to post pics in uniform.

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over a year ago

"As to what Admin think about it all, you would have to ask them.

We shouldn't need to ask them.

I'm sure they are well aware that the site has been targetted and a members private pics have been published in the press through a sting by a fake profile that was set up entirely for that purpose and has been admitted in the article.

It is the owners/admin that run the site and put the rules in place.

There has been a breach of those rules by a reporter (fake profile, theft of pictures, printing stolen pictures).

There is a clear case to take this further. We shouldn't have to ask them to do it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I just answered the post as a member and what I would and wouldn't do and hopefully not get caught out when doing it.

For anything to do with Admin I can't answer other than posting what happens when reports are sent in.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

So has the offending single female profile been outed and named and shamed?

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By *unbaralMan
over a year ago

Ayr

I am a relative newby here and have not posted before. Reading the article and this thread makes me think twice about how much more I should get involved in the scene.

I have heard though that the profile in question was not set up to trawl for scandal but was made up as a prank. There were over 200 hits but he in particular was all over it boasting about his activities while on the job. I have no knowledge of how much of his shagging while working was made up but he shot himself in the foot IMO. Its the dereliction of duty that did for him, not the swinging,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So has the offending single female profile been outed and named and shamed?"

I would be shocked if it was not removed.

Either reported as a fake by the De13oy

Or removed by the journalist after they had all they needed

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over a year ago

Yep, we know how to report and how it works.

This isn't about reporting another member though, this is about a clear breach of policy, setting up of a fake profile and the subsequent entrappment of a member by the profile and theft/publishing of private pictures with the sites watermark on them.

There is nothing to report to admin, it's all in the papers and, as it's them who run the site and enforce the rules, it's up to them to take this further in the interests of every member.

People will leave in droves if they think reporters can do as they please on here without any challenge to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when we was looking for a meet on friday i came across a bloke in his police uniform and thought how silly to do that. but if it dont affect his job then they should leave them alone. just think its abit silly to post pics in uniform."

Unless it is the same user, I bet that copper has removed his profile

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over a year ago

"I am a relative newby here and have not posted before. Reading the article and this thread makes me think twice about how much more I should get involved in the scene.

You have heard? lmao

Didn't read it in the paper did you?

It must be true if "you heard"!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I personally ( and this is my _iew and my _iew only )but after reading a post way up there about how the man didn't come forward that quick to mention what he did when in mails with another....that the man wasn't tricked by a reporter at all, but was outed by someone already here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a huge fan of cops but the guy was only doing what the rest of us do, the paper deserves investigated!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it really is judgement and the use of it. we have all made mistakes at times, his mistake a costly one. there is another thread in the lounge ( not sure if I can reference it, please delete this comment if I can't and apologies )

I was asked yesterday if someone should tip off another member about this, I said please do... any advice we can give people not to fall into a trap is always welcome...

and the thread in the lounge is as a result of a tip off about discretion...... and these are people who need fantastic judgement in the roles they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally ( and this is my _iew and my _iew only )but after reading a post way up there about how the man didn't come forward that quick to mention what he did when in mails with another....that the man wasn't tricked by a reporter at all, but was outed by someone already here.

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It's in the newspaper article that they set up the profile as a single female and he contacted them.

The reporter has admitted it in the article.

We can't post links on here but if you go onto the daily record/sunday mail website and type fabswingers in the search box then you can read it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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It's in the newspaper article that they set up the profile as a single female and he contacted them.

The reporter has admitted it in the article.

We can't post links on here but if you go onto the daily record/sunday mail website and type fabswingers in the search box then you can read it.

As newspapers don't always tell the truth, I am still thinking it. I have read the article.

You don't have to agree with me, but thats what I think.

( PS newspaper links are allowed )

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By *unbaralMan
over a year ago

Ayr

"I am a relative newby here and have not posted before. Reading the article and this thread makes me think twice about how much more I should get involved in the scene.

You have heard? lmao

Didn't read it in the paper did you?

It must be true if "you heard"!!!!"

I heard -

I have a friend who is in editorial in that paper.

They said to me that the profile was not set up to target any particular occupation, but that this specific cop volunteered everything about himself.

Pictures, details, everything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have read it, if you are in prof role you have to be discreet, all welcome on here, but individuals need to be as discreet as profession dictates, people like that will leave us open to what has happened, he was using his position to gain meets and abusing his job as he was doing it while working, tit springs to mind. Doesnt help that i have seen individuals looking for men in uniform and lets face it our brians are in our trousers.

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over a year ago

"As newspapers don't always tell the truth, I am still thinking it. I have read the article.

You don't have to agree with me, but thats what I think.

( PS newspaper links are allowed )"

Don't see why they would lie about setting up a fake profile as it would open them up to legal action.

ta for info about links.

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over a year ago

"I heard -

I have a friend who is in editorial in that paper.

They said to me that the profile was not set up to target any particular occupation, but that this specific cop volunteered everything about himself.

Pictures, details, everything...."

Sorry, don't believe you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what ever happened to innocent untill proven guilty

did he shagg a colleuge in the back of a car ...i didnt see him did any of you's ...how do we know...because the paper said he admited to them he did ??? has anyone actually asked him

you say he's cheating on his partner !!! ....is he ...how do we know ....because the paper said so .......ffs wouldny want some of you lot sitting on a jury on my case...they'd bring back hanging ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not gonna tell me they didnt have a gd scoot on here while they were at it, now they will always be on here.I never talk to newbies until they are verified.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You have heard? lmao

Didn't read it in the paper did you?

It must be true if "you heard"!!!!

I heard -

I have a friend who is in editorial in that paper.

They said to me that the profile was not set up to target any particular occupation, but that this specific cop volunteered everything about himself.

Pictures, details, everything...."

Aaah, must be right then.... Since we all know no-one at that paper will bend the truth eh??

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over a year ago

"what ever happened to innocent untill proven guilty

did he shagg a colleuge in the back of a car ...i didnt see him did any of you's ...how do we know...because the paper said he admited to them he did ??? has anyone actually asked him

you say he's cheating on his partner !!! ....is he ...how do we know ....because the paper said so .......ffs wouldny want some of you lot sitting on a jury on my case...they'd bring back hanging ffs"

The only people who would know if he was cheating on his partner were him and any members from FAB that he had met.

If he had any public verifications the paper will have access to them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line, the guy was a complete tit, and has done know one any favours on here, i pay his wages and all he has done is enticed these people to interfear with our site, they are press and will do anything to expose, they are doing a job like the rest of us. Have to say there are fems looking for tits like him and when i seen it i thought mm not best place to advertise.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"what ever happened to innocent untill proven guilty

did he shagg a colleuge in the back of a car ...i didnt see him did any of you's ...how do we know...because the paper said he admited to them he did ??? has anyone actually asked him

you say he's cheating on his partner !!! ....is he ...how do we know ....because the paper said so .......ffs wouldny want some of you lot sitting on a jury on my case...they'd bring back hanging ffs

The only people who would know if he was cheating on his partner were him and any members from FAB that he had met.

If he had any public verifications the paper will have access to them too"

intetesting that the newspaper article never mentioned a partner or children.... Only been mentioned here.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Look it is bad enough the man got outed to the papers without people outing his ex partner and kids too...please don't do it.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Look it is bad enough the man got outed to the papers without people outing his ex partner and kids too...please don't do it.

thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzz..... lets all be careful, don't get too stressed out about it, don't keep buying the paper but most of all let it go and move on please

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

but silly to do what they did... but it sells."

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over a year ago

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By *ing manMan
over a year ago

"did he shagg a colleuge in the back of a car ...i didnt see him did any of you's ...how do we know...because the paper said he admited to them he did ??? has anyone actually asked him"

It is claimed by the paper, I doubt the editor would want to print something that was slanderous and or defamation of character without any proof, especially when their victim is a PC.

"you say he's cheating on his partner !!! ....is he ...how do we know ....because the paper said so"
It was mentioned in the forum, and not by the paper I strongly encourage caution when posting information of this sort in a public forum.

He knew better and got caught out, he won't get any sympathy from me for being foolish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is claimed by the paper, I doubt the editor would want to print something that was slanderous and or defamation of character without any proof,"

hahahahahahahahahahaha, that nearly made me fall off my seat.

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over a year ago

"I am a relative newby here and have not posted before. Reading the article and this thread makes me think twice about how much more I should get involved in the scene.

You have heard? lmao

Didn't read it in the paper did you?

It must be true if "you heard"!!!!

I heard -

I have a friend who is in editorial in that paper.

They said to me that the profile was not set up to target any particular occupation, but that this specific cop volunteered everything about himself.

Pictures, details, everything...."

Of course the poor journo did absolutely nothing to encourage this i mean why would they.....they can just make up what they like about what goes on in here as there is NO come back to worry about...do us all a favour and tell your 'friend' et al to go forth and multiply and get a proper job fgs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read this story!

Sunday mail set up a profile, as a single female, on Fabswingers!

Another unwanted mention in the media.

They ended up with over 200 replies, and end result being the exposure of a police man...........entrapment?????

How many other fabbers did they investigate before choosing this individual?

i TOTALLY agree ENTRAPMENT wat did thiz female say 2 get the picz n filthy talk? n hw the FK are picz gettin copied from the site? iz there nothin to save thiz from happenin? SUNDAY MAIL shove ur pad n pen where the sun dont shine!!!!! GO N WRITE ABT PEDO'Z, MURDERERZ ETC we are not doin anything wrong even them off site do 3somz etc so get a grip!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but silly to do what they did... but it sells."

well uniform tendz to get a shag dnt it? but he should hav jst sent a normal one n save hiz profession embarrassment so mayb the rest will learn from thiz trust nobdy new n stay cautiouz at al timez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"every time.I see a story about here in.the papers I see the reporters as the puppets from spitting image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has anyone rumbled the hacks.profile yet? "

prob deleted n set up a new one 4 the nxt victim!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, we know how to report and how it works.

There is nothing to report to admin, it's all in the papers and, as it's them who run the site and enforce the rules, it's up to them to take this further in the interests of every member.

People will leave in droves if they think reporters can do as they please on here without any challenge to them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discretion is a wonderful thing....too much information is given out on the forum and to people you really don't know,

I don't believe he got trapped through the forums.

Admin must have access to the account that contacted him as well. This should be a clear case of naming it.

Also think the owners should take the reporter to task for breach of the sites privacy policy as he has printed stolen pictures from a members profile.

Or are they just going to sit back and do nothing? If that's the case, why do they bother to put rules up?

Would be interesting to hear their _iews on this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not in any clique on here, I post my _iews without any influence from any other or driven by intent to get my hands on someone's genitalia

Im not either

Clique's on Fabswingers.com ???? you jest surely .................lol

Neither are we BTW.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a relative newby here and have not posted before. Reading the article and this thread makes me think twice about how much more I should get involved in the scene.

You have heard? lmao

Didn't read it in the paper did you?

It must be true if "you heard"!!!!

I heard -

I have a friend who is in editorial in that paper.

They said to me that the profile was not set up to target any particular occupation, but that this specific cop volunteered everything about himself.

Pictures, details, everything...."

sendin a pic via mail here doez not say u hav given them the right 2 copy it....itz a way 2 say thiz iz me, what the reporter did waz breach of privacy if it waz sent via email from another soucse like ur email addy then the site cnt do anything for u....i believe thiz 2 b correct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look it is bad enough the man got outed to the papers without people outing his ex partner and kids too...please don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would recommend everybdy b wary of newbiez if they aint verified in a sexual meet dnt go there, the reporterz might jst decide do a social meet n hey presto they hav a meetin in person verification.....so b wary ppl, lookz like itz bk 2 blockin newbiez and unverified ppl.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i would recommend everybdy b wary of newbiez if they aint verified in a sexual meet dnt go there, the reporterz might jst decide do a social meet n hey presto they hav a meetin in person verification.....so b wary ppl, lookz like itz bk 2 blockin newbiez and unverified ppl.

That's what I've done... And it's a shame, cause I've met some great people in the past who were new / not verified, but hey ho

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By *lasgowguy64Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

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current friends and friends of friends for the forseeable future seems the safe option...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very rarely post anything but this has really incensed me.

Maybe time to move onto journalism of a more rewarding and ethical nature perhaps?"

wurz ma cake? lol grab the flour dexter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I've done... And it's a shame, cause I've met some great people in the past who were new / not verified, but hey ho

b the only way 2 protect yourself i think cause dnt think their gonna giv up do u?

x wat we are doin aint hurtin otherz, we are jst consentin adultz lookin 4 that extra spice in our sex lifez x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

current friends and friends of friends for the forseeable future seems the safe option..."

best 2 b safe i say shame itz happnin 2 fab n no some other supposidly datin site that iz basically jst like fab.....why dnt the fkin sunday mail go n report datin sitez we al knw itz a front there jst like fab!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FairPlay posting yourself in your uniform many woman would love the thought of fucking a cop! But I don't get if when a new female puts up 'wow 200 messages and just joined' spesh when they don't even have a pic up or any onfo on there profile , fucks it up for the real girls bombbarded with mail and end up leaving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

current friends and friends of friends for the forseeable future seems the safe option..."

most definitely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only if you forget that I am always not guitly

yeah........

what you doubt me

ah your a bad man x

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Maybe time to move onto journalism of a more rewarding and ethical nature perhaps?"

Ethical and rewarding? But would that sell papers? Probably not, unfortunately scandal and impropriety sells papers. Even more unfortunate is the poor fool who is most likely going to lose his job. It is a hard lesson to learn and I really do feel it for him.

And yes, journalists possibly could still be trawling the site and forums looking for more fodder - the genuine users of this site, who use it as consenting adults looking to enhance their sex life, can learn a lesson and take as many precautions as practicle to ensure they do not fall victim to the gutter press

Stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only if you forget that I am always not guitly

yeah........

what you doubt me

ah your a bad man x

and you my dear tease iz a TEASE lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's not entrapment im afraid... is just the boy bein a fool... i read the article tho it did strike me as a shameless way to get a story...

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"ok let me think,

fab swingers story, orrrr

whats happening to the missing girl in wales,,,

fab swingers story orrrrr what happened to the couple that set there house on fire killing there kids,

fab swingers story or someone knowing all over the world being a pedofile,

think its time the papers wised up,

and for any guy never mind a policeman to meet someone without phone calls, chats, cams,and verification, all a can say is thank fook we have an army to look out for us lolwhi is to say he never spoke on phone nor cam and who nis to say that the reporters profile wasnt verified ?????

He was a single guy ,on here looking for the same as the rest of us,if it had been you me or someone else on site ,would we all have been as quick to judge ,i think not.

Dam right this site is clique ,if you dont know them and they aint in your gang then just out them .

Some really need to sit back and have a look at themselves and think really how would i feel if it was me.

i wish him all the luck ,and hopes he has better support out with .

In a way it highlights the vulnerability of police in this case as opposed to any other uniform service and the expectation from senior officers, politicians, the press and some of the public that they should be leading a monastic existence outside or work. For example, we have had many 'firefighters' mail us and they make no attempt to hide what they do. The profile name is usually fireman something or other and they always attach a pic of themselves next to the engine and in uniform. Same for soldiers and some paramedics. Why should the police not be allowed to do so? And if not, why?

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona

Police can be bribed blackmailed in a nutshell....

Career full stop or is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the mileage in bribing, or blackmailing someone who is NOT committing a criminal offence, unless he was having sex in a public place, or using his position to coherse a woman into sex- it's just another example of these press people, with their holy than thou- attitude- I would think there are far more storys to write about in the current climate, drug dealers, kiddy fiddlers, scum who attack the elderly- let the press write about them

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Where's the mileage in bribing, or blackmailing someone who is NOT committing a criminal offence, unless he was having sex in a public place, or using his position to coherse a woman into sex- it's just another example of these press people, with their holy than thou- attitude- I would think there are far more storys to write about in the current climate, drug dealers, kiddy fiddlers, scum who attack the elderly- let the press write about them

if married/living with partner or secret bi/gay... I think some mileage in exposing them

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The previous post about being open to blackmail/ bribery is what it's all about. Warranted police officers have to be like Caesar's wife.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

"The previous post about being open to blackmail/ bribery is what it's all about. Warranted police officers have to be like Caesar's wife."

Not just police or other in similar roles.

If you ran a supermarket for example you could be concerned about a till operator passing goods through for fear of being exposed to family/friends/colleauges

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That's not quite in the same league as the potential damage a police officer could do if under threat of exposure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whether a person is married/ bi or gay, is a matter for only them- if there cheating on a wife, or partner, again!! why should that be of any concern but the two people engaged in it- seems to me that the moral high horse rides high- and not just in scotland, but the whole of the UK, what PC Plod, does or doesnt do in his/her personal life, has sod all to do with anyone but them- So press butt out of things that don't concern you

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A little less than a year ago, HM Inspector of Constabulary issued a re_iew of police and relationships.

It runs to some 70 pages but the title gives the essence of it. It's called Without Fear or Favour.

Police officers are granted certain rights by the nature of their employment and in return we expect to live up to certain responsibilities - one of which is to always apply the law evenly and fairly.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"whether a person is married/ bi or gay, is a matter for only them- if there cheating on a wife, or partner, again!! why should that be of any concern but the two people engaged in it- seems to me that the moral high horse rides high- and not just in scotland, but the whole of the UK, what PC Plod, does or doesnt do in his/her personal life, has sod all to do with anyone but them- So press butt out of things that don't concern you

of course it is their business and their business only, but if you hide it and pit yourself out there, you take the risk and sadly people will exploit it.

I don't care less what people do, but if you do it and get caught.... I ain't to blame, you ain't to blame, we ain't to blame... they are accountable for it, them alone. We have all made mistakes in life, sadly for some they do it in the public eye or it's made public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all masters/Mistresses of our own destiny.....x Dont you think?

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