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By *evilishfun85 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Keep getting guys asking " how bi do I have to be?". Surely you are either bi or not? How can you be half bi ????

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There are some guys on here that don't class themselves as bi, if they don't "take" a cock in any way.

Some seem to categorise giving anal to another guy or getting a BJ from one as not making them bi.

But that's a whole other kettle of fish.

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By *irtycumboCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Keep getting guys asking " how bi do I have to be?". Surely you are either bi or not? How can you be half bi ????"

I suppose some people can be bi curious... it can mean different things for different people. For example, my husband has no physical attraction to men...but he does like what a nice cock can do for him... he wouldn't meet one on one and he is very much bottom never top...I'd say that's more curious than "fully bi". Same for me... I wouldn't ever have a relationship with a woman but I do love the feeling of a woman.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume they're trying to establish your preference, & there are those who are only orally bi & not full Bhoona bi

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By *evilishfun85 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I get that and I'm kinda the same I'm definitely more attracted to the D than a man. I class myself as bi. It's more the "straight" guys I'm getting at that I think just want the woman but pretend to be a little bi to try get a meet

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley


"I get that and I'm kinda the same I'm definitely more attracted to the D than a man. I class myself as bi. It's more the "straight" guys I'm getting at that I think just want the woman but pretend to be a little bi to try get a meet"

One of our mates were talking about this the other day. Guy claimed to be bi but then wouldn’t interact with her boyfriend when it came down to it. Dunno if they just expect a couple to be like… oh that’s fine, just stay and fuck the female. Eejits.

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By *irtycumboCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I get that and I'm kinda the same I'm definitely more attracted to the D than a man. I class myself as bi. It's more the "straight" guys I'm getting at that I think just want the woman but pretend to be a little bi to try get a meet"

We have experienced this quite a few times and it's so frustrating... read our profile, we are very clear. However i also think you can tell a mile away if a straight guy says.. actually I'm bi (usually just to get to the female) we do play with straight men, and hubby is happy to play straight, however I do love the dynamics of bi mmf so 99% of the time that's what we are looking for xx

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By *eatheryMan
over a year ago

Cupar

I'm not attracted to men insofar as I don't get aroused when watching gay porn.

However, I enjoy providing or receiving a bj when with a man, especially when with a couple, which really adds to the erotic encounter.

I've never enjoyed anal sex in any form and would never kiss a man.

I think this is my way of saying there are levels of being bisexual, with boundaries that need to be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I think it’s a tricky subject for a lot of men.

Women are quite within their rights to state their preference that, for example, they won’t do anal. Yet if a man says that and has identified as bi, does that make him less bi?

There’s still a lot of judgment of bi men too. There are plenty profiles state this as a “preference”. Using my example above, would the preference be more correctly for no play between the men?

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

There’s bi and there’s… I think you’re hot and I’m willing to go through your partner if it means I get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play with and suck cock but thats it. I dont like kissing or cuddling men, not into rimming men but love rimming women. And I have no interest in fucking or being fucked. So I put down I'm bi curious as that gets the conversation started so it can be clarified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep getting guys asking " how bi do I have to be?". Surely you are either bi or not? How can you be half bi ????

I suppose some people can be bi curious... it can mean different things for different people. For example, my husband has no physical attraction to men...but he does like what a nice cock can do for him... he wouldn't meet one on one and he is very much bottom never top...I'd say that's more curious than "fully bi". Same for me... I wouldn't ever have a relationship with a woman but I do love the feeling of a woman.

xx"

I'm exactly the same boat as your husband, I'm more Vers than just bottom but very similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good cock aswell as a nice pussy, one of my fantasies is getting fucked while eating out a nice pussy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bisexual. I give or receive anal and will kiss etc although I can't emotionally connect with a guy or would never go out with a guy. With woman there is a better chemistry. Only my experience though

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I always use a percentage. For example I am 60/40

Means that I prefer the opposite sex slightly.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"I like to play with and suck cock but thats it. I dont like kissing or cuddling men, not into rimming men but love rimming women. And I have no interest in fucking or being fucked. So I put down I'm bi curious as that gets the conversation started so it can be clarified."

That’s exactly it!!… everyone has there preferences but be honest about it, starts the convo and everyone knows what they want

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By *reg1812Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Bi and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cock, everything to do with it, but not so into masculinity. That is to say I'll happily suck a cock or take a hard ass fucking but only likely to want to kiss them if they're a hot effeminate twinky type. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi on my profile and I do have sex with men but only use bi as its about the only label that fits. I enjoy sex with men and especially in the mmf setting but the weird thing is i really don't fancy men at all! I just enjoy the sex and definitely have an oral fixation but that is 50/50 with woman and men

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Keep getting guys asking " how bi do I have to be?". Surely you are either bi or not? How can you be half bi ????"

Woman are also the same, only too half ?… . But nothing below lol

Honestly and discussing preferences is always best then eveyone know there limits

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Keep getting guys asking " how bi do I have to be?". Surely you are either bi or not? How can you be half bi ????

Woman are also the same, only too half ?… . But nothing below lol

Honestly and discussing preferences is always best then eveyone know there limits "

Completely agree, I'm bi so would naturally assume any woman interested in me would be aswell. Has to be complete honesty, if there's not then it's that kind of thing that can land people in trouble

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Maybe he was just weekend bi lol nah genuinely what happens if a dude gets a meet where he's meant be bi ain't that just gawna be awkward for all parties

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"There’s bi and there’s… I think you’re hot and I’m willing to go through your partner if it means I get to you "

This basically

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By *weetDreamsxpMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

There will be chancers, but I think a lot of it might be down to connection. Had boyfriends and girlfriends.

Some people you are more into whatever than others. Is why I like socials. Chat a bit, see the dynamic, see where it leads.

Any group experience there needs to be a good dynamic.

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By *ally dugsCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

Lets all be honest about our sexuality

There is no such thing as Bi Curious

You are either straight or BI

Definition

Bisexuality is an attraction to more than one gender. Those who identify as bisexual feel a sexual and/or romantic attraction to people of a different gender as well as their own.

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By *pache1971Man
over a year ago

Livingston

I get that there will be some guys will pretend to be bi just to get a meet but will just be interested in interaction with the female couple. You could stipulate that any meeting will start off with the 2 guys playing, sucking etc before your partner/wife gets involved. That should out some.

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By *undeeGuyXXXMan
over a year ago

Brechin

This is one of the things in life I will never understand.. Who cares?? It’s just sex we are quick to but labels on everything then moan when we have been labelled. Just enjoy yourself whatever you like!! Life is too short to be worrying about if your bisexual or bi curious oh wait a minute now I can’t decide if I’m gay or straight. None of these actually exist in my opinion

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Denial is a big part of realising you're bi or gay. Took me years to accept I'm bi. Have always got lots of offers on here from "straight" guys, usually married, who want to do all sorts of things with me, but it's not gay or bi in any way because I'll be wearing lingerie, a dress, heels, etc.

To be fair I'm not interested in men unless I'm dressed.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

I’ll kiss anyone cause I love a good snog but I’m totally straight as I’m only attracted to men, my preference is straight men also because to me and some of these comments have shown any holes a goal to some guys and that does very little for your ego. I personally have to have some level of connection and attraction to someone to be able to have any sexual contact and I just don’t find other women remotely attractive in that way, I can look at a gorgeous woman and appreciate her beauty or her figure but that’s it just the same as I admire the form of a horse or the beauty of a butterfly

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By *ust along for the rideMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I class myself as bi, I like to play with either sex, but prefer female to male,I am primarily top but can play verse, but I don't like receiving anal, I love playing with couples with a bottom or verses bi male,it adds so much more to the dynamic of the meet, but I also play straight if required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is in the eye of the beholder, if you take anal your gay, everything else makes you bi, this applies only to guys, critics form a queue please

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By *ally dugsCouple
over a year ago

Motherwell

Just be honest to yourself

Each to their own

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By *ust along for the rideMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The thing that annoys me most is couples with a straight male,who think because you are bi, that you are going to try it on with them, I imagine most bi guys are happy to play straight as well as bi, I know I am??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here!

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By *pache1971Man
over a year ago

Livingston


"The thing that annoys me most is couples with a straight male,who think because you are bi, that you are going to try it on with them, I imagine most bi guys are happy to play straight as well as bi, I know I am?? "

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By *weetDreamsxpMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The thing that annoys me most is couples with a straight male,who think because you are bi, that you are going to try it on with them, I imagine most bi guys are happy to play straight as well as bi, I know I am??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing that annoys me most is couples with a straight male,who think because you are bi, that you are going to try it on with them, I imagine most bi guys are happy to play straight as well as bi, I know I am?? "

Spot on. It’s disappointing how many profiles say ‘no bi guys’. I get it’s personal preference, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen a profile saying no bi girls!

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