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"I’ve a few bits for this thread. Firstly OP, no verified meets since you have joined..no wonder you have lost faith… Secondly, you have Snapchat? You’re 36 man! Thirdly, see if it’s a profile with a photo veri and no meets (in over a year…) or with one single veri from a male or not photo verified at all with one veri from a male…bin them off as chances are….someone’s at the goat" Am 45 n have snapchat! Whats the big deal! Love showing my dinners off  | |||
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"So just been speaking with a verified female profile on here back n forth for a few week pics and all and decided to take it to snapchat to arrange a meet and first thing is its a bloke pretending. Accidentally gave out the wrong username for fab which was a male username. This was after not speaking for a few days on fan n first time on Snapchat so obviously doing this too more than one person What the fuck is wrong with guys? Think i am done with fab and just stick to cjs at least then you know who your talking too Ps bloked reported too now availe hell just chsnge profiles" Did the profile have verifications? Photo verified? Public pics? | |||
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" Am 45 n have snapchat! Whats the big deal! Love showing my dinners off "My goddaughter is 16 and a couple years ago we were out for food with two of her wee pals before they went onto the cinema. My Snapchat did that click noise when someone sends you a chat and the girls were all taking the piss for having snap at ‘my age’ app deleted | |||
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"So just been speaking with a verified female profile on here back n forth for a few week pics and all and decided to take it to snapchat to arrange a meet and first thing is its a bloke pretending. Accidentally gave out the wrong username for fab which was a male username. This was after not speaking for a few days on fan n first time on Snapchat so obviously doing this too more than one person What the fuck is wrong with guys? Think i am done with fab and just stick to cjs at least then you know who your talking too Ps bloked reported too now availe hell just chsnge profiles Did the profile have verifications? Photo verified? Public pics?" Yeah. Verified by a couple (hidden profile) and a female (hidden profile) and the newest was just before xmas… dont get me wrong hidden profile in hindsight should of been a red flag but due to the pandemic i know lods of folk that hid or deleted there profile i did the same… but to think that person went to all that trouble seems baffling to me… cant believe some one create fake profile ontop of fake profile just to fake a verification… seems i am being cynical… but then theres some one thats just messaged me saying they now of guys giving out random verification like wtf is the point in the verification system any more if you cant trusted? Ps love me some dog face filters photos on snapchat | |||
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"My thought too, why are you on Snapchat at your age? Lol. Don't delete your profile though. There are some right tw*** on here so don't give them the satisfaction x" Also kik never works so moved to snapchat because you can phone and call the person and any photos sent delete whoch guve discretion. I ve been burnt with giving out my number to a few folk in the pass But any suggestions on alternative that folk use other than kik (just doesnt work) let me know | |||
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"My thought too, why are you on Snapchat at your age? Lol. Don't delete your profile though. There are some right tw*** on here so don't give them the satisfaction x Also kik never works so moved to snapchat because you can phone and call the person and any photos sent delete whoch guve discretion. I ve been burnt with giving out my number to a few folk in the pass But any suggestions on alternative that folk use other than kik (just doesnt work) let me know" Yeah Kik can be a pain especially with all the adverts in it now. I wouldn't give out my number either. I know there's another app called Telegram, similar to Kik but believe it's better. I'm considering getting rid of my Kik x | |||
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"My goddaughter is 16 and a couple years ago we were out for food with two of her wee pals before they went onto the cinema. My Snapchat did that click noise when someone sends you a chat and the girls were all taking the piss for having snap at ‘my age’ app deleted "This made me  - I've Snapchat - I'm no luddite but I've nae idea whit I'm doin' using that platform. My 22 Yr old daughter is the only one who sends me stuff oan that and she even has to tell me to open Snapchat up! #adultsnapchatnoclue | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx" More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them | |||
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"You've two options A) Live and learn, chalk it up to experience but don't let it get you down B) become totally disillusioned from a bad experience, give up and leave the site Yes there's fakes, sites packed with them, some quite sophisticated and difficult to spot! But there's some fantastic people, and the opportunity that the next message could lead to wild excitement! " I ll choose option 2 give up on the site and stick to socials and swinger events at cjs and attic Thanks | |||
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"You've two options A) Live and learn, chalk it up to experience but don't let it get you down B) become totally disillusioned from a bad experience, give up and leave the site Yes there's fakes, sites packed with them, some quite sophisticated and difficult to spot! But there's some fantastic people, and the opportunity that the next message could lead to wild excitement! I ll choose option 2 give up on the site and stick to socials and swinger events at cjs and attic Thanks" Thats a shame you feel that way. Take care, bye xx | |||
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"I’ve a few bits for this thread. Firstly OP, no verified meets since you have joined..no wonder you have lost faith… Secondly, you have Snapchat? You’re 36 Am 45 n have snapchat! Whats the big deal! Love showing my dinners off " | |||
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"I’ve a few bits for this thread. Firstly OP, no verified meets since you have joined..no wonder you have lost faith… Secondly, you have Snapchat? You’re 36 man! Thirdly, see if it’s a profile with a photo veri and no meets (in over a year…) or with one single veri from a male or not photo verified at all with one veri from a male…bin them off as chances are….someone’s at the goat Am 45 n have snapchat! Whats the big deal! Love showing my dinners off "And it’s been some lovely dinners to | |||
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways "Well said xx | |||
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" Am 45 n have snapchat! Whats the big deal! Love showing my dinners off
My goddaughter is 16 and a couple years ago we were out for food with two of her wee pals before they went onto the cinema. My Snapchat did that click noise when someone sends you a chat and the girls were all taking the piss for having snap at ‘my age’ app deleted "Never too old! | |||
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"It happens the other way too. Everyone assumes I’m an unattractive guy but I’m actually a very attractive woman" Oh I’m sure you’d make a great woman. | |||
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"My thought too, why are you on Snapchat at your age? Lol. Don't delete your profile though. There are some right tw*** on here so don't give them the satisfaction x Also kik never works so moved to snapchat because you can phone and call the person and any photos sent delete whoch guve discretion. I ve been burnt with giving out my number to a few folk in the pass But any suggestions on alternative that folk use other than kik (just doesnt work) let me know" Stick to snapchat if it works for you. Who cares what other people think. I found wire really good, but not many people use it, so I'm back on kik x | |||
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"The reaction to my tongue in cheek Snapchat jibe is quality. I’ve seen less reaction to weight shaming threads
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways "You meet and theyre a serial killer what do you do? Need to do some type of vetting before a social one on one… as i said a public place like cjs after 8 attic etc… seem the better option at least if theyre a serial killer theres plenty of witnesses lol | |||
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"So OP they probably verified themselves from another account. If you go to CJs then surely you’ll meet people there that you’d want to meet up with. My weekly social at the pub quiz is a great way to meet people. I don’t always have time to spend ages chatting to people on here. Come along to the pre-drinks socials before CJs and meet some people and have a chat. Don’t be put off with the time wasters on here. " Yes thats the sort of group social thing that i think from now on is the way foward… too creepy for a one on one without chatting… | |||
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways
You meet and theyre a serial killer what do you do? Need to do some type of vetting before a social one on one… as i said a public place like cjs after 8 attic etc… seem the better option at least if theyre a serial killer theres plenty of witnesses lol"Yet to experience someone trying to kill me over coffee in Costa. | |||
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways
You meet and theyre a serial killer what do you do? Need to do some type of vetting before a social one on one… as i said a public place like cjs after 8 attic etc… seem the better option at least if theyre a serial killer theres plenty of witnesses lol
Yet to experience someone trying to kill me over coffee in Costa."It’s the prices that’ll kill ya! | |||
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways
You meet and theyre a serial killer what do you do? Need to do some type of vetting before a social one on one… as i said a public place like cjs after 8 attic etc… seem the better option at least if theyre a serial killer theres plenty of witnesses lol
Yet to experience someone trying to kill me over coffee in Costa."Watch out for people you meet in Tim Hortons too... | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them" ask for a live pic of doing something you suggest like a thumbs up or the likes.. if they can't provide that I'd stop chat | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them ask for a live pic of doing something you suggest like a thumbs up or the likes.. if they can't provide that I'd stop chat " I don't mind doing something like this, as long as people don't mind waiting till I brush my unruly wig and chuck on my face first...might prove I'm genuine but would also frighten them off too lol. I don't like to speak on the phone (for work or pleasure) and I am usually surrounded by colleagues, toddlers or teens so video chats are a no go too. So a live photo holding a teaspoon or like said holding a thumbs up feels like an easier way to alleviate anyones concerns about my genuineness | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them" It was simply a suggestion as you, yourself, said there had been some red flags! Don't go snapping at me because you're pissed off with how things have turned out. I was trying to be nice and offer a bit of friendly advice. | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them It was simply a suggestion as you, yourself, said there had been some red flags! Don't go snapping at me because you're pissed off with how things have turned out. I was trying to be nice and offer a bit of friendly advice." No ones snapping here Just asking the question how to be more vigilant thatn i already have been??? The live photo is a good idea though… much prefer the face time thought cause theres no real excuse that can be claimed for not jumping on a video call for 2 mins at some point in the day… i am single with two kids as well i get the hassel of time being limited but i still have when there away to bed to myself so yeah that kinda of excuse doesnt cut it for me. Only just brings up more red flags like there cheating and dont want caught etc | |||
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"Don't let it put you off. It happens. And there will always be people who will fuck others about. Just be more vigilant in future and you'll be fine. For what it's worth, I'm sorry this happened to you xx More vigilant? Not sure how speaking for weeks, exchange pics, looking at verification and chatting up until exchange snapchat to actual meet…. To find out its a bloke all that time??? How do you recommend i be more vigilant? Except for refusing to meet or chat unless its at a swing club like if done for years and i think is the way forward for me know. Also for those asking if it was just for a first meet nope… i ve met plenty of lovely folk and spoken on the phone and face time etc without verification because i ve now got to the point where they mean little to nothing if folk can fake them It was simply a suggestion as you, yourself, said there had been some red flags! Don't go snapping at me because you're pissed off with how things have turned out. I was trying to be nice and offer a bit of friendly advice. No ones snapping here Just asking the question how to be more vigilant thatn i already have been??? The live photo is a good idea though… much prefer the face time thought cause theres no real excuse that can be claimed for not jumping on a video call for 2 mins at some point in the day… i am single with two kids as well i get the hassel of time being limited but i still have when there away to bed to myself so yeah that kinda of excuse doesnt cut it for me. Only just brings up more red flags like there cheating and dont want caught etc" Well, I apologise for snapping back. I genuinely thought you were having a go at me. I run a Kik group, for swingers, and that's how we verify, we ask them to send a live video of them doing something unusual like trying to lick their elbow lol xx | |||
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"Don’t waste time endless messages and sending pics, coffee meet and be done with it ! I don’t share pics and can’t be bothered with endless messaging back and forth you either want to meet or not and tbh a social meet is just as good as anything else in my eyes gets you out the house and meeting new folk and if you’re lucky you might get lucky in other ways
You meet and theyre a serial killer what do you do? Need to do some type of vetting before a social one on one… as i said a public place like cjs after 8 attic etc… seem the better option at least if theyre a serial killer theres plenty of witnesses lol
Yet to experience someone trying to kill me over coffee in Costa.
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