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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been on for a little bit of time now and finally making head way and having good chats when out of the blue people just up and disappear or block me.

What's that about???

Anyone else had the same thing or is it just me?

Worried I've offended someone but no idea how !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't waste your time thinking about it.

Could be for any number of reasons.most you prob wouldn't think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could've been a guy pretending he's a female just to get wank fodder.. shitty behaviour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you oldie. What you say makes sense.

Suffering from "good guy" syndrome I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same situation as myself,I am not taking it personally anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol funnily enough I can hardly attract conversation from the ladies on here but got guys all over me.

I mean its flattering but I don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good for you secret. I suppose I'm being daft. Hope you're having more luck than I am bud.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

A lot of people love the thrill of the chase then suddenly disappear as soon as a meet is mentioned .

Don’t overthink it op I’m sure the right people will come along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens, forget about it and move on OP x

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Happens to us all... last two vanished once a meet was given... not holding out for the next one..

And yes, they are verified etc... just flaky with me I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if people change their mind you would think they would just message rather than blocking you or vanishing I think that's just rude and ignorent.Anyway think I will book a travel lodge next weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your input. Feeling better. Also nice to see the support of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 guys to every couple or female, even getting chatting is a good thing, just easier for the person to delete and block than it is to actually give the person a reason.

Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here "

Wow that's what I call dedication.

To the OP and this poster here who sent 100 messages, you can tell within 4 or 5 messages if there's chemistry for a meet, I ask for a phone number very very quickly to chat properly, if it doesn't happen I don't waste any more time with them. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here

Wow that's what I call dedication.

To the OP and this poster here who sent 100 messages, you can tell within 4 or 5 messages if there's chemistry for a meet, I ask for a phone number very very quickly to chat properly, if it doesn't happen I don't waste any more time with them. Job done."

I usually do the same. Give them my number. Puts the ball in their court and lets me differentiate between the sayers & doers

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"A lot of people love the thrill of the chase then suddenly disappear as soon as a meet is mentioned .

Don’t overthink it op I’m sure the right people will come along "

^^^this. The amount of guys we have spoken to over the last few years Who have done a runner when a meet is mentioned is crazy, a few weeks/mnths down the line they are back again..same thing.. happens all the time. Unfortunately fab is full of dreamers but when reality hits.. they shit them selves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame this happens because as a newbie I think this spoils it for genuine folk

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Shame this happens because as a newbie I think this spoils it for genuine folk"

No it doesn't. What other people do has no impact on how successful (or not) another individual is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I was meaning how people can chat away then dissapear with no reason,nothing to do with being successful I just think it's rude

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here

Wow that's what I call dedication.

To the OP and this poster here who sent 100 messages, you can tell within 4 or 5 messages if there's chemistry for a meet, I ask for a phone number very very quickly to chat properly, if it doesn't happen I don't waste any more time with them. Job done.

I usually do the same. Give them my number. Puts the ball in their court and lets me differentiate between the sayers & doers "

that's a bit of a shame and you could be losing out on good meets, socials, chats or whatever comes along.. as I have been on here many years, met many many fellow fabbers and would never give out my number unless I have physically met someone and then not always... and that doesn't mean I'm not a doer, just that my number is personal... but of course everyone is different.

Rabbit

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Been there done it & have the tee-shirt.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens to us all... last two vanished once a meet was given... not holding out for the next one..

And yes, they are verified etc... just flaky with me I reckon "

Can't understand why your just awesome.lol

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here

Wow that's what I call dedication.

To the OP and this poster here who sent 100 messages, you can tell within 4 or 5 messages if there's chemistry for a meet, I ask for a phone number very very quickly to chat properly, if it doesn't happen I don't waste any more time with them. Job done.

I usually do the same. Give them my number. Puts the ball in their court and lets me differentiate between the sayers & doers "

That's not strictly true as I'm definitely at "doer" but certainly don't give my number out

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"Shame this happens because as a newbie I think this spoils it for genuine folk

No it doesn't. What other people do has no impact on how successful (or not) another individual is. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I exchanged over 100 messages with someone and was blocked when I suggested a meet. Don’t take it personally. You need a thick skin for on here

Wow that's what I call dedication.

To the OP and this poster here who sent 100 messages, you can tell within 4 or 5 messages if there's chemistry for a meet, I ask for a phone number very very quickly to chat properly, if it doesn't happen I don't waste any more time with them. Job done.

I usually do the same. Give them my number. Puts the ball in their court and lets me differentiate between the sayers & doers

That's not strictly true as I'm definitely at "doer" but certainly don't give my number out "

I would agree with this. I’ve never asked for a fem, or a couples phone number. Keeping everything on the site just keeps things simple and easy.

I’d expect asking for a phone number early on appears pushy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I feel like now might be a premium moment to just put it out there that I am genuine,enthusiastic and perfectly willing to meet and have mutually fun times with any ladies that might find me attractive.

Hit me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk use this for different things and unfortunately it could take time to find what you’re looking for

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nowt as queer as folk!

And you certainly get them all on here.

Report and block them and move on.

Oh and I never ever give my number out. Been burned before on that one

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Nowt as queer as folk!

And you certainly get them all on here.

Report and block them and move on.

Oh and I never ever give my number out. Been burned before on that one "

Aye, I don’t have it! What’s the worst I’ll do?

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nowt as queer as folk!

And you certainly get them all on here.

Report and block them and move on.

Oh and I never ever give my number out. Been burned before on that one

Aye, I don’t have it! What’s the worst I’ll do? "

Well you might (as someone else did) make a fake profile with my number on the header asking guys to phone me now for sex!

I was bombarded

Needless to say I had to change my number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just nasty

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Nowt as queer as folk!

And you certainly get them all on here.

Report and block them and move on.

Oh and I never ever give my number out. Been burned before on that one

Aye, I don’t have it! What’s the worst I’ll do?

Well you might (as someone else did) make a fake profile with my number on the header asking guys to phone me now for sex!

I was bombarded

Needless to say I had to change my number! "

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Nowt as queer as folk!

And you certainly get them all on here.

Report and block them and move on.

Oh and I never ever give my number out. Been burned before on that one

Aye, I don’t have it! What’s the worst I’ll do?

Well you might (as someone else did) make a fake profile with my number on the header asking guys to phone me now for sex!

I was bombarded

Needless to say I had to change my number!

"

Oooft fuck that

I don’t give my number out either meet for a coffee I’ll let you know when you arrive what I’m driving and what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even use my real name initially never mind give a complete stranger on a sex site after only 4/5 messages I suppose anyone who blocked me when I refused to give put such personal information as my number during initial chats would be doing me a favour, clearly wouldn't want to be the kind of person I'd want to meet.

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