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"The worst thing that can happen is he's mortified and gives you a knockback.think how bad you would feel. Leave it to your imagination. You don't want to be known to his workies as the easy lay. this is my ultimate fantasy but I'd never ever act on it no matter how sure I was " Great point. | |||
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"A month or so ago a tradesman posted about fancying a woman he was working for and whether he should make a move. The guy was ripped to pieces, basically called a pervert/unprofessional etc. It's funny how from this side the opinions change. I don't mean that as a dig at you at all, it's just an observation on perceptions. Personally I wouldn't have the confidence to approach someone in that way unless I was 100% sure it was reciprocated and there'd be no repurcussions. Only you can judge that I'm afraid, I'd maybe just slip him your number before he leaves on the last day, if nothing comes of it at least you won't have to see him again. " Ive asked admin to delete. Genuinely sorry I brought it up. | |||
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"A month or so ago a tradesman posted about fancying a woman he was working for and whether he should make a move. The guy was ripped to pieces, basically called a pervert/unprofessional etc. It's funny how from this side the opinions change. I don't mean that as a dig at you at all, it's just an observation on perceptions. Personally I wouldn't have the confidence to approach someone in that way unless I was 100% sure it was reciprocated and there'd be no repurcussions. Only you can judge that I'm afraid, I'd maybe just slip him your number before he leaves on the last day, if nothing comes of it at least you won't have to see him again. Ive asked admin to delete. Genuinely sorry I brought it up. " Sorry, please don't do that!! As I said it genuinely wasn't a dig at you!! I just found it amusing how it's seen differently from different perspectives. | |||
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"A month or so ago a tradesman posted about fancying a woman he was working for and whether he should make a move. The guy was ripped to pieces, basically called a pervert/unprofessional etc. It's funny how from this side the opinions change. I don't mean that as a dig at you at all, it's just an observation on perceptions. Personally I wouldn't have the confidence to approach someone in that way unless I was 100% sure it was reciprocated and there'd be no repurcussions. Only you can judge that I'm afraid, I'd maybe just slip him your number before he leaves on the last day, if nothing comes of it at least you won't have to see him again. " Hey your so right, I scrolled back as far as Fab would let me to find a post from someone up a bit that told the guy basically to just do his job instead of basically perving a customer, now the thread is the other way it seems OK. OP THIS is definitely nothing for you to worry about as I said to the guy who posted the reverse of this situation, you are both adults , if there is mutual fancying them go for it. Ignore all the bullshit about right or wrong, it's your life , have as much mutual fun as you can. Ps gotta let us know how you get on , if you want to avoid the prim and proper brigade then message me privately. All the best OP and don't let the PC brigade get you down. | |||
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"A month or so ago a tradesman posted about fancying a woman he was working for and whether he should make a move. The guy was ripped to pieces, basically called a pervert/unprofessional etc. It's funny how from this side the opinions change. I don't mean that as a dig at you at all, it's just an observation on perceptions. Personally I wouldn't have the confidence to approach someone in that way unless I was 100% sure it was reciprocated and there'd be no repurcussions. Only you can judge that I'm afraid, I'd maybe just slip him your number before he leaves on the last day, if nothing comes of it at least you won't have to see him again. " I'm glad someone else brought this up too, personally I don't see the issue either side but as you said, just an observation everyone is okay with it when a woman wants to try it but a guy is creepy and should hang his head in shame. OP personally I would just have a little flirt with him, see how it goes, it's harmless. Worst case the signals are clear he doesn't want anything and he goes to his next job.....or youll live out your fantasy, who knows. | |||
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"The worst thing that can happen is he's mortified and gives you a knockback.think how bad you would feel. Leave it to your imagination. You don't want to be known to his workies as the easy lay. this is my ultimate fantasy but I'd never ever act on it no matter how sure I was " i agree with this. know a story of other guys turning up at a house expecting free handjobs... | |||
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"Miss muff I’d say go for You are gorgeous and honest if I was him I’d definitely be staring at you " Read the OP daftie. I'm no the one being offered the Trademan's Tadger. And the last guy who came round to do work looked like Fred West so dinghyed him | |||
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"Guys don't understand subtle hints. Just ask him outright if he fancies some fun once he's finished the work and after you've paid for the work. Call it an added bonus for a job well done." Absolutely do not do this, only a guy would suggest it. Fuck me sideways. Guys do pick up on subtle hints, chemistry between people is what attracts us to each other and creates the desire. If I was in a woman’s house and she asked me to pump her after I was done I’d want to leave pretty quickly | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!!" You say you would absolutely hate to be put in this situation then give advice to leave the laptop open as a hint, not having a dig at you but surely you need to stand on one side or the other on this type of subject. I still maintain 2 adults know when their is potential chemistry for a bit of one off fun without making the other feel obliged due to client/ contractor possible issues. People overthink a very simple situation I feel. I see only 2 sides to this one, you keep it strictly business and fantasy or hints and action but you can't have both . | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!! You say you would absolutely hate to be put in this situation then give advice to leave the laptop open as a hint, not having a dig at you but surely you need to stand on one side or the other on this type of subject. I still maintain 2 adults know when their is potential chemistry for a bit of one off fun without making the other feel obliged due to client/ contractor possible issues. People overthink a very simple situation I feel. I see only 2 sides to this one, you keep it strictly business and fantasy or hints and action but you can't have both . " There's a big difference between leaving the home page of Fab swingers on a laptop and accosting someone in the spot in your home (in my view). One is a gentle hint about the lifestyle which the trades person may or may not see never mind act on. They're not put in the position of having to turn down advances, left feeling preyed upon or vulnerable, or obligated in order to keep their job. | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!!" Could you imagine being sexually proposed on one of your home visits, good god the paperwork alone would be mental!! | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!! You say you would absolutely hate to be put in this situation then give advice to leave the laptop open as a hint, not having a dig at you but surely you need to stand on one side or the other on this type of subject. I still maintain 2 adults know when their is potential chemistry for a bit of one off fun without making the other feel obliged due to client/ contractor possible issues. People overthink a very simple situation I feel. I see only 2 sides to this one, you keep it strictly business and fantasy or hints and action but you can't have both . There's a big difference between leaving the home page of Fab swingers on a laptop and accosting someone in the spot in your home (in my view). One is a gentle hint about the lifestyle which the trades person may or may not see never mind act on. They're not put in the position of having to turn down advances, left feeling preyed upon or vulnerable, or obligated in order to keep their job. " Yeah I agree but nobody including the OP suggested accosting anyone, the OP said just drop subtle hints and see what happens but she got jumped on by some people so much to the point she asked for the thread to be deleted. Also some others told the tradesman in the reverse scenario on another thread just to do his job and stop trying to pester his customers. People are adults and most are capable of deciding how far to hint towards fun without overstepping someone boundary. | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!! Could you imagine being sexually proposed on one of your home visits, good god the paperwork alone would be mental!! " Pmsl don't know if there's a box on the AIS database for "Accosted by Fabber" and I'd dread the debrief | |||
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"I'm sure it probably differs for men and women but as someone who does lone home visits as part of her work I'd absolutely hate to be put in the position of a client coming on to me! From just feeling awkward to even feeling quite vulnerable in that situation, would imagine it would be worse if it happened from a paying customer (feeling obliged, refusal affecting payment etc). Luckily I'm a munter so it hasn't happened to me personally. But I would also never put someone else in that position. Best kept to fantasy, or look for him on Fab (leave your laptop open on Fab and hopefully he takes the hint to join and seek you out!) Sure people will think I'm a fun sponge but just my tuppence worth!! Could you imagine being sexually proposed on one of your home visits, good god the paperwork alone would be mental!! Pmsl don't know if there's a box on the AIS database for "Accosted by Fabber" and I'd dread the debrief " Surely the "debrief" would have already taken place. | |||
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"So..a fun and probably stupid dilemma. Had the most stunningly beautiful young man come to our house yesterday to carry out electrical work and despite the age difference (I would guess about 15 years younger) he was lovely to chat to,although Im sure he sees me as a harmless old bat. Nevertheless I felt a very strong physical connection, and Im sure I caught him checking me out (probably my imagination though). I definitely got caught checking him out Anyway he is coming back next week on a day when Ill be home alone. Im excited & slightly terrified. Im 90% sure nothing will happen, but my question is this: outwith your porn scenarios(I dont need to know..) has anyone any experience of this situation? Is there a way of approaching it should I be inclined? Have any tradies been approached in this way? Should I just leave it as a fun wee fantasy on my part? I knlw its silly, but I honestly cant stop thinking about him. Ladies if you saw him you would understand. Anyway..just getting it off my chest more than anything, but any advice (even on how to NOT do anything) would be great. Its like High school all over again. " This is also my biggest fantasy. I had a young Sky engineer at my home a while back and we were flirting but the reality to approach if it would turn to more put me off. I always regret not going for it. | |||
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"So..a fun and probably stupid dilemma. Had the most stunningly beautiful young man come to our house yesterday to carry out electrical work and despite the age difference (I would guess about 15 years younger) he was lovely to chat to,although Im sure he sees me as a harmless old bat. Nevertheless I felt a very strong physical connection, and Im sure I caught him checking me out (probably my imagination though). I definitely got caught checking him out Anyway he is coming back next week on a day when Ill be home alone. Im excited & slightly terrified. Im 90% sure nothing will happen, but my question is this: outwith your porn scenarios(I dont need to know..) has anyone any experience of this situation? Is there a way of approaching it should I be inclined? Have any tradies been approached in this way? Should I just leave it as a fun wee fantasy on my part? I knlw its silly, but I honestly cant stop thinking about him. Ladies if you saw him you would understand. Anyway..just getting it off my chest more than anything, but any advice (even on how to NOT do anything) would be great. Its like High school all over again. " As a tradesmen, I can say it isn't just porn fantasy. It happens often. Personally experienced it and so gas many friends in the trades | |||
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"So..a fun and probably stupid dilemma. Had the most stunningly beautiful young man come to our house yesterday to carry out electrical work and despite the age difference (I would guess about 15 years younger) he was lovely to chat to,although Im sure he sees me as a harmless old bat. Nevertheless I felt a very strong physical connection, and Im sure I caught him checking me out (probably my imagination though). I definitely got caught checking him out Anyway he is coming back next week on a day when Ill be home alone. Im excited & slightly terrified. Im 90% sure nothing will happen, but my question is this: outwith your porn scenarios(I dont need to know..) has anyone any experience of this situation? Is there a way of approaching it should I be inclined? Have any tradies been approached in this way? Should I just leave it as a fun wee fantasy on my part? I knlw its silly, but I honestly cant stop thinking about him. Ladies if you saw him you would understand. Anyway..just getting it off my chest more than anything, but any advice (even on how to NOT do anything) would be great. Its like High school all over again. As a tradesmen, I can say it isn't just porn fantasy. It happens often. Personally experienced it and so gas many friends in the trades " You reiterating here how these "jobs" are actually discussed between colleagues and your many friends in the trade? | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. " I completely agree with you bud. I’ve definitely regretted a few chances i’ve not taken in life as i’m sure most of us do. Life is too short | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. " Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck?" Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. " Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. " I have no trade that would be of use to you, but if you'd like to consent, I'll get the Raleigh out of the shed x | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. " Yeah you usually explain it better in a way we tend to agree with you to quote " if you don't agree I'll cut aff yer baws with a pair of rusty nail clippers and inject them in your jugular " . You have a way of getting your point across miss M . Ps what kind of friends have you got on FB ? | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. Yeah you usually explain it better in a way we tend to agree with you to quote " if you don't agree I'll cut aff yer baws with a pair of rusty nail clippers and inject them in your jugular " . You have a way of getting your point across miss M . Ps what kind of friends have you got on FB ? " Ones that clearly belong on Jeremy Kyle. Whatever happened to don’t air your dirty linen? | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. Yeah you usually explain it better in a way we tend to agree with you to quote " if you don't agree I'll cut aff yer baws with a pair of rusty nail clippers and inject them in your jugular " . You have a way of getting your point across miss M . Ps what kind of friends have you got on FB ? " Not my friends...just wee local community page. Full of curtain twitchers who post pics of folks reg plates if they've parked outside the school. Those kind. | |||
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"Have been thinking about some of the daft comments on here about keeping it professional ect and wondered , since when did tradesmen/women become a no go area for sex. Obviously doctors , teachers and a few other professions are definite no go areas legally but I stand by my 2 consenting adults advice and if the chemistry, lust, sex appeal is there then people should say fuck the PC attitude spouted daily and just get on with living and enjoying the fruits of life. Some jobs where the individual belongs to a professional body, obviously they will be held to a higher standard as you can argue they are in a position of authority and then always a possibility of that being abused. But the days of "Confessions of A Window Cleaner" type scenarios are mostly gone I think. A silly remark on FB can cost someone their job. Why would people risk it for a fuck? Professional misconduct yes definitely not worth it but I think your stretching the discussion way to low to cite comedy shows that were purely based on sexual innuendos and many other unacceptable behaviours by today's standard and purely based on entertainment value. I have to ask though ,which of the 2 consenting adults are going to post the silly comment on FB . The tradesman that could lead to him losing his job in the horny housewife who could lose her reputation. I feel the situation is blown way out of proportion and as I've said so many times nowadays, the fear factor in society nowadays is so strong but also so ridiculous. Possibly not explained myself very well....I was meaning more if a tradesman completely misinterpreted the signs. Christ, my local FB page has folk outing other folk for all sorts. Yeah you usually explain it better in a way we tend to agree with you to quote " if you don't agree I'll cut aff yer baws with a pair of rusty nail clippers and inject them in your jugular " . You have a way of getting your point across miss M . Ps what kind of friends have you got on FB ? Not my friends...just wee local community page. Full of curtain twitchers who post pics of folks reg plates if they've parked outside the school. Those kind." They're looking for the dairy X | |||
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"A month or so ago a tradesman posted about fancying a woman he was working for and whether he should make a move. The guy was ripped to pieces, basically called a pervert/unprofessional etc. It's funny how from this side the opinions change. I don't mean that as a dig at you at all, it's just an observation on perceptions. Personally I wouldn't have the confidence to approach someone in that way unless I was 100% sure it was reciprocated and there'd be no repurcussions. Only you can judge that I'm afraid, I'd maybe just slip him your number before he leaves on the last day, if nothing comes of it at least you won't have to see him again. " Exactly what I was thinking.. guys have to be extremely careful these days .. so the op would need to be virtually throwing herself at me I'd say before it would temp me even if I was gagging for her. Sad times .. these sort of situations were always fun fantasies. | |||
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"Well if you want to be flirty you could be putting your underwear out on the line or something like that. Maybe leave a pair of tights near where he is working, little things like that" Then he'll nick them and flog them on here for £ | |||
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"Well if you want to be flirty you could be putting your underwear out on the line or something like that. Maybe leave a pair of tights near where he is working, little things like that Then he'll nick them and flog them on here for £ " Not being fun but reverse this… if a bloke put his pants or boxers next to a lass that was working in their house its sexual harassment but folk on fab think its ok to do so?? Though we lived in 2022 where these sorts of ideas where a thing of the past… Why not be normal and just make him a cup of coffee then ask if hes single and if he is then ask him out for a date or something… if he s not then no harm done just a wee bit embarrassed rather than a sexual charge against you | |||
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"Well if you want to be flirty you could be putting your underwear out on the line or something like that. Maybe leave a pair of tights near where he is working, little things like that Then he'll nick them and flog them on here for £ Not being fun but reverse this… if a bloke put his pants or boxers next to a lass that was working in their house its sexual harassment but folk on fab think its ok to do so?? Though we lived in 2022 where these sorts of ideas where a thing of the past… Why not be normal and just make him a cup of coffee then ask if hes single and if he is then ask him out for a date or something… if he s not then no harm done just a wee bit embarrassed rather than a sexual charge against you" I was thinking the same but couldn't be arsed with a lengthy response | |||
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"Honestly, the idea is really hot but I think, in reality, I'd be worried it was some sort of trap or trick (in general, no disrespect to the OP ) There could be hidden cameras for nefarious purposes or it could be part of some revenge game on a husband. Once the horniness of it passes, regret or shame might kick in and suddenly I'm being accused of something untoward. If you're working in someone's house, your reputation is everything. Especially as a sole tradesman. The slightest hint that you'd crack on with the lady of the house or be in any way predatory can ruin your career or worse. I had a job in my late teens where I was working in a stairwell. A female manager in her late 40s would bring me a brew or a snack regularly (which was lovely). She'd then make a point of sitting above me on the stairs to chat as I worked. She wore a knee length skirt but would sit with her knees a little way apart so I'd have to see right up her skirt as we talked. On each visit, her knees would be further apart and her skirt would be hitched a little higher up and she'd play with the hem to draw my eye. She kept saying things about how big and strong I was and how I must be all hot and sweaty working there and how I should take my shirt off. I remember feeling really awkward at the time but didn't know what to say to get her to stop. On her final visit of the job, she had undone the second from top bottom on her blouse so her bra was visible as it gaped. She took my mug from me and kind of huffily asked if I was sure there was nothing else she could do for me with a meaningful stare. I avoided her eye and just thanked her but no. She made this sharp snort from her nose and stomped off up the stairs and slammed the door. Rob" Can you imagine if that had been a 40 something guy coming onto a teenage lassie? Ffs. | |||
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"Honestly, the idea is really hot but I think, in reality, I'd be worried it was some sort of trap or trick (in general, no disrespect to the OP ) There could be hidden cameras for nefarious purposes or it could be part of some revenge game on a husband. Once the horniness of it passes, regret or shame might kick in and suddenly I'm being accused of something untoward. If you're working in someone's house, your reputation is everything. Especially as a sole tradesman. The slightest hint that you'd crack on with the lady of the house or be in any way predatory can ruin your career or worse. I had a job in my late teens where I was working in a stairwell. A female manager in her late 40s would bring me a brew or a snack regularly (which was lovely). She'd then make a point of sitting above me on the stairs to chat as I worked. She wore a knee length skirt but would sit with her knees a little way apart so I'd have to see right up her skirt as we talked. On each visit, her knees would be further apart and her skirt would be hitched a little higher up and she'd play with the hem to draw my eye. She kept saying things about how big and strong I was and how I must be all hot and sweaty working there and how I should take my shirt off. I remember feeling really awkward at the time but didn't know what to say to get her to stop. On her final visit of the job, she had undone the second from top bottom on her blouse so her bra was visible as it gaped. She took my mug from me and kind of huffily asked if I was sure there was nothing else she could do for me with a meaningful stare. I avoided her eye and just thanked her but no. She made this sharp snort from her nose and stomped off up the stairs and slammed the door. Rob Can you imagine if that had been a 40 something guy coming onto a teenage lassie? Ffs." He'd be accused of being a paedo | |||
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"Honestly, the idea is really hot but I think, in reality, I'd be worried it was some sort of trap or trick (in general, no disrespect to the OP ) There could be hidden cameras for nefarious purposes or it could be part of some revenge game on a husband. Once the horniness of it passes, regret or shame might kick in and suddenly I'm being accused of something untoward. If you're working in someone's house, your reputation is everything. Especially as a sole tradesman. The slightest hint that you'd crack on with the lady of the house or be in any way predatory can ruin your career or worse. I had a job in my late teens where I was working in a stairwell. A female manager in her late 40s would bring me a brew or a snack regularly (which was lovely). She'd then make a point of sitting above me on the stairs to chat as I worked. She wore a knee length skirt but would sit with her knees a little way apart so I'd have to see right up her skirt as we talked. On each visit, her knees would be further apart and her skirt would be hitched a little higher up and she'd play with the hem to draw my eye. She kept saying things about how big and strong I was and how I must be all hot and sweaty working there and how I should take my shirt off. I remember feeling really awkward at the time but didn't know what to say to get her to stop. On her final visit of the job, she had undone the second from top bottom on her blouse so her bra was visible as it gaped. She took my mug from me and kind of huffily asked if I was sure there was nothing else she could do for me with a meaningful stare. I avoided her eye and just thanked her but no. She made this sharp snort from her nose and stomped off up the stairs and slammed the door. Rob Can you imagine if that had been a 40 something guy coming onto a teenage lassie? Ffs. He'd be accused of being a paedo " Yep. But young guys are "lucky bastards" according to some in this situation. | |||
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"What’s the going rate for an outside tap ? Any plumbers on here ? " I am a plumber and would normally charge between £50 and £70 to install a outside tap. That includes all fittings. | |||
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"Young 25yr athletic lad willing to do homers hahaha based in Dundee and am a joiner to trade but can do many trades, try me hahahaha" Hmm what could I break lol | |||
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"What’s the going rate for an outside tap ? " Is that a euphemism? | |||
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"Young 25yr athletic lad willing to do homers hahaha based in Dundee and am a joiner to trade but can do many trades, try me hahahaha Hmm what could I break lol " Break whatever you want, do it on purpose if you want and I'll be there haha give me a private message cuddles | |||
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"What’s the going rate for an outside tap ? Any plumbers on here ? I am a plumber and would normally charge between £50 and £70 to install a outside tap. That includes all fittings." Cheers hopefully be easy as the water pipes coming into the house right where I want the tap to go for cleaning the bike | |||
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"So..a fun and probably stupid dilemma. Had the most stunningly beautiful young man come to our house yesterday to carry out electrical work and despite the age difference (I would guess about 15 years younger) he was lovely to chat to,although Im sure he sees me as a harmless old bat. Nevertheless I felt a very strong physical connection, and Im sure I caught him checking me out (probably my imagination though). I definitely got caught checking him out Anyway he is coming back next week on a day when Ill be home alone. Im excited & slightly terrified. Im 90% sure nothing will happen, but my question is this: outwith your porn scenarios(I dont need to know..) has anyone any experience of this situation? Is there a way of approaching it should I be inclined? Have any tradies been approached in this way? Should I just leave it as a fun wee fantasy on my part? I knlw its silly, but I honestly cant stop thinking about him. Ladies if you saw him you would understand. Anyway..just getting it off my chest more than anything, but any advice (even on how to NOT do anything) would be great. Its like High school all over again. " All Sparks have that affect.. corrff corrff | |||
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"So..a fun and probably stupid dilemma. Had the most stunningly beautiful young man come to our house yesterday to carry out electrical work and despite the age difference (I would guess about 15 years younger) he was lovely to chat to,although Im sure he sees me as a harmless old bat. Nevertheless I felt a very strong physical connection, and Im sure I caught him checking me out (probably my imagination though). I definitely got caught checking him out Anyway he is coming back next week on a day when Ill be home alone. Im excited & slightly terrified. Im 90% sure nothing will happen, but my question is this: outwith your porn scenarios(I dont need to know..) has anyone any experience of this situation? Is there a way of approaching it should I be inclined? Have any tradies been approached in this way? Should I just leave it as a fun wee fantasy on my part? I knlw its silly, but I honestly cant stop thinking about him. Ladies if you saw him you would understand. Anyway..just getting it off my chest more than anything, but any advice (even on how to NOT do anything) would be great. Its like High school all over again. " If you're both single go for it, life's too short in not taking chances, whats the worst that can happen? Good luck x | |||
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"When we were getting an en-suite put into our bedroom I did end up having fun with the joiner doing the work. It started with just banter and then a bit of flirting. I was doing things like leaving a vibrator on the bedside cabinet to hopefully get sexy conversation started. In this case it was probably a bit different from yours OP as he had a profile on here - which I didn't know to begin with - but he knew we were on here as he had seen our profile on which I have face pics. " Until ‘he had a profile on here’ this was a bit mental. | |||
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"I’ve had this happened to me many times on jobs , I’ve only responded once. One woman was flirting really heavy and suggesting that her husband would be happy for her to have an affair . The conversation got so hot I thought I need to go for it when the husband suddenly walked in . Ten seconds later and I would have lost all the money that I was owed . " The sex life of a cautious taxidermist. | |||
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