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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Phew that was a long few weeks!!

Just wanted to say Hiiiii people

Any advice for new ladies please? I'm finding it all a bit too much ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew that was a long few weeks!!

Just wanted to say Hiiiii people

Any advice for new ladies please? I'm finding it all a bit too much ? "

Leave while you still can.

This place is like The Hotel California.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have thought about it.

Hotel California?

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By *antasmicWoman
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Phew that was a long few weeks!!

Just wanted to say Hiiiii people

Any advice for new ladies please? I'm finding it all a bit too much ? "

Message filters can be very useful!

Or turning new messages off altogether if things get a bit much. That way, someone can only message you if you've winked at them.

Also, don't be afraid to use the block button!

It does sound like harsh advice, but I've found that women need to be a bit ruthless on here, otherwise it definitely does get overwhelming.

Think Miss Muff means that you can never leave once you get started with Fab

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Yip Skid row....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Filters

If it all gets too much, block and search for yourself

Be honest

If it's too good to be true, probably is

Trust your gut

The block button is there for a reason, use it and don't give it another thought

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Filters

If it all gets too much, block and search for yourself

Be honest

If it's too good to be true, probably is

Trust your gut

The block button is there for a reason, use it and don't give it another thought

"

Absolutely

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Be careful! The site full of weirdos Male & female As someone says just block without even thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew that was a long few weeks!!

Just wanted to say Hiiiii people

Any advice for new ladies please? I'm finding it all a bit too much ? "
Hello and welcome ,im the shy one , My advice is , have fun and enjoy , but always remember your block button

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Enchanted.

I didn't know those filters existed. It should cut out traffic a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i say to most guys some pictures are better than none.

As a female using your filters are a must as you will be bombarded with knobshots and fancy a shag luv messages.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile, reads while and is concise. Use the filters and be happy to block like everyone says and you'll be fine.

Hope you enjoy it and find what you're after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea as above, don't take any rubbish... although some can be abusive if you say no thanks... Good luck

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Welcome!

Don't take any shit. Don't let the idiots grind you down. Don't take it too serious.

Have fun. Please yourself. Quite a few wee gems hiding in the cesspit.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

New Ladiees?

Welcome Back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah use filters, I tend to like to keep anyone without any sort of verification in my block list. Some guy who’s been on the site for a year and not even photo verified, yeah straight in the block messages. And who ever said don’t be afraid of the block button hit the nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The block button is definitely your friend , you should block all men if you asked me. Ps your not looking for a penguin by any chance are you. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have thought about it.

Hotel California?"

The song, by the eagles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice. A penguin ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What’s all too much ? If you mean the volume of messages as has already been said block all males & do your own searches .

Use the block button when you have to

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I remember joining a ‘naughty’ dating site before Fab and being shocked and the amount of cock pics I was being sent. Totally desensitised to them now. Although as I state on my profile I’d prefer not to sent them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome, I hope you enjoy the fab journey

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the nuthouse! Same advice from me too and get on your message filters right away and your privacy settings too. As others have said, the block button is very useful. It's the ladies best friend on here. Good luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome. Don't be put off by the barrage of boaby shots.

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By *rP_TickleMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hiya ans welcome back. Use the advice highlighted by the lovelies above and don't be afraid to block.

Us nice guys understand its the dickheads that ruin it for us all.

Have fun.

M x

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By *rP_TickleMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

Managed to sort it.

(Hopefully)

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