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By *anheaver OP   Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

....me or has this site really gone to the wall. Maybe be cause of recent Puplic reports, but it just seems its gone to the wall. I Have been on here for more than a year have a few freinds who take the the time to chat and verifications but when i email somebody new I either get deleted without being viewed or no reply but message stays open. Maybe iv become invisible...or my profile is shit but a thanks but no thanks takes not time..iv at least taken the time to read your profile!!!!other wise i wouldnt have message you.. and for those that say all all face pics will be answered.. maybe you should do it. i have got 25 days to be persuaded that im wrong but fear that as a single guy my time here is up

rant over but will respect people thoughts and views

Craig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your answer is in your last line bud It a rant Some thing we seen every day now Women moaning about guys all the time And guys moaning about women I don't the answer But good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often find myself at group meets and the occasional party, that comes about via another male simply saying, "fancy joining us?". By message.

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By *ilkycockMan
over a year ago

livingston

peaks and troughs on here!! I find that you have to be patient. Can be an uphill struggle for a single guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"peaks and troughs on here!! I find that you have to be patient. Can be an uphill struggle for a single guy!"

Uphill struggle!!! I've hired 3 sherpas and still getting no-where!

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By *ussman1Man
over a year ago

Paisley

We should arrange mid week meet for glass of wine etc in Glasgow or wherever majority live. No meets required,just general chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should arrange mid week meet for glass of wine etc in Glasgow or wherever majority live. No meets required,just general chat."

Well don't expect any women to turn up, they don't do meets they only talk about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe as a couple we see it from a different angle but we wouldnt say 'its gone to the wall' at all.

Every time 'swinging' is mentioned in the paper it is also used with the words 'sordid' and 'depraved' and made out its all about anyone shagging anyone regardless.

Hence why, there is always an influx of new members soon after any press that swinging or the site specifically gets.

Its probably hard enough as it is for guys to get a meet unless your well known and stand out from the rest, but the more guys that join the site, the harder it will become for the decent ones to get meets from new people.

Just have to raise the bar and stand out from the crowd and remember that swinging is more than just panda sex (eats shoots and leaves).

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........swinging is more than just panda sex (eats shoots and leaves).

Good luck."

Love it, certainly raised a smile on my face this morning.

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"peaks and troughs on here!! I find that you have to be patient. Can be an uphill struggle for a single guy!

Uphill struggle!!! I've hired 3 sherpas and still getting no-where! "

lmao i near fell out of bed when i read that.

The sherpas are they good looking?? Now uve got the making of a gang bang with the four of you, gee could be interested now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience swinging is all about the panda sex (once a year with a fat, hairy, bear ) Joking!!! Ladies don't hit me!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"....me or has this site really gone to the wall. Maybe be cause of recent Puplic reports, but it just seems its gone to the wall. I Have been on here for more than a year have a few freinds who take the the time to chat and verifications but when i email somebody new I either get deleted without being viewed or no reply but message stays open. Maybe iv become invisible...or my profile is shit but a thanks but no thanks takes not time..iv at least taken the time to read your profile!!!!other wise i wouldnt have message you.. and for those that say all all face pics will be answered.. maybe you should do it. i have got 25 days to be persuaded that im wrong but fear that as a single guy my time here is up

rant over but will respect people thoughts and views

Craig"

As one of your fab friends they don't know what a lovely guy you are and always great fun.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....me or has this site really gone to the wall. Maybe be cause of recent Puplic reports, but it just seems its gone to the wall. I Have been on here for more than a year have a few freinds who take the the time to chat and verifications but when i email somebody new I either get deleted without being viewed or no reply but message stays open. Maybe iv become invisible...or my profile is shit but a thanks but no thanks takes not time..iv at least taken the time to read your profile!!!!other wise i wouldnt have message you.. and for those that say all all face pics will be answered.. maybe you should do it. i have got 25 days to be persuaded that im wrong but fear that as a single guy my time here is up

rant over but will respect people thoughts and views

Craig"

You say in your post that 'maybe your profile is shit' well, your profile is completely hidden with no photos so I'm not surprised you're getting naff all attention!

This site, as in life, is full of all sorts of people and you get all sorts of reactions. Think of it as a big busy pub, if you walk in the door and just say hello, almost certainly no one will even notice you if you make no effort to stand out. You could spend all night chatting to loads of women but only one out of every ten will be interested enough or attracted enough to take it further and despite you being polite, some won't even want to talk to you and just turn their back. The fact its on here doesn't make it any different.

I hope it doesn't drive you off the site but to be honest, you probably need to make more of an effort by showing your profile and pics, there are so many guys on here that a bland or non-existent profile will be dismissed immediately.

Good luck but remember, its not up to Fab members to prove that its worth you staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have bad days, take a break n come back refreshed ready to tackle some of the crap we all get on here.

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