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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How many of you would actually arrange a meet without seeing a face pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a hard one...... In an ideal world I wouldnt but if the chat (PM's that is and not chatroom banter lol) is good and very hot it might be tempting lol... but then again I am a bloke lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never face pic always a must and chat on messages see if any chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding to my last message.... just because you meet someone doesnt mean you have to do anything so you can always say no thanks if you dont find them atractive or dont hit it off!!! Face pics are only half the attraction...you might just not hit it off when you meet anyway!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That way I see it wovld rather no b4 hand then thru pms u no if your getting on and building up a chemistry b4 u meet them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending ."

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lol"
why would you warn them what got to do with you As you said you meet her and you did hit it off. Are you Brad Pitt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never meet without at least seeing a face pic.....i tend to think anyone that would is a bit of a desperado

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would never meet without at least seeing a face pic.....i tend to think anyone that would is a bit of a desperado"

Would never meet without seeing who we are meeting

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

We do.we don't believe nice pics mean nice people.so we are quite happy to meet then make our decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not desperate, and don't go on meets without seeing who I'm meeting, but had been chatting to this guy, arranged to meet, but he had no pics,I was asked to take a leap of faith by him,(I thought only a social coffee meet no harm done) well I'm so glad I did, met up with him after that for fun and it's one of the best meets I've had on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not desperate, and don't go on meets without seeing who I'm meeting, but had been chatting to this guy, arranged to meet, but he had no pics,I was asked to take a leap of faith by him,(I thought only a social coffee meet no harm done) well I'm so glad I did, met up with him after that for fun and it's one of the best meets I've had on here! "

Fancy meeting for coffee then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I'm not desperate, and don't go on meets without seeing who I'm meeting, but had been chatting to this guy, arranged to meet, but he had no pics,I was asked to take a leap of faith by him,(I thought only a social coffee meet no harm done) well I'm so glad I did, met up with him after that for fun and it's one of the best meets I've had on here! "
not being funny but being a married woman meeting like that was very risky id say but glad it turned out well for you...due to recent goings on around here would u do it again tho ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting without seeing a face-pic.

I'm certainly not desperate but then I'm not shallow like some people.

My prime concern is privacy and I will never send a face-pic to anybody as they are then free to upload it to anywhere they wish.

Once you upload face pictures to the internet....you have lost control of them forever and you can NEVER get them back.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Never would meet without seeing a pic, you are never going to like everyone in this world x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would never meet without at least seeing a face pic.....i tend to think anyone that would is a bit of a desperado"

Auds x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We do.we don't believe nice pics mean nice people.so we are quite happy to meet then make our decision"
I dont believe that.. ive met some pretty hot guys but boy do they know it and the whole world centres around them or so they think with stinking attitudes ...and have met mr average whos been lovely ... but i do think there does have to be a level of both looks and personality in equal amounts for anything to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder what the time stats are,,, browsing time versus actually met time?

On that "Fab'd pic" vote thing for example, often theres never a face in sight, yet thousands are voting, claiming who they see look great,marvelous.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Wonder what the time stats are,,, browsing time versus actually met time?

On that "Fab'd pic" vote thing for example, often theres never a face in sight, yet thousands are voting, claiming who they see look great,marvelous. "

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I'm not desperate, and don't go on meets without seeing who I'm meeting, but had been chatting to this guy, arranged to meet, but he had no pics,I was asked to take a leap of faith by him,(I thought only a social coffee meet no harm done) well I'm so glad I did, met up with him after that for fun and it's one of the best meets I've had on here! "

Sometimes you have just gotta take a gamble in life.XxCxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not desperate, and don't go on meets without seeing who I'm meeting, but had been chatting to this guy, arranged to meet, but he had no pics,I was asked to take a leap of faith by him,(I thought only a social coffee meet no harm done) well I'm so glad I did, met up with him after that for fun and it's one of the best meets I've had on here!

Sometimes you have just gotta take a gamble in life.XxCxX "

Love a gambler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would never meet without at least seeing a face pic.....i tend to think anyone that would is a bit of a desperado

Would never meet without seeing who we are meeting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its all a mix with me, I give benefit of the doubt most times, and sometimes I'd say rely on feedback(verifies), or word of mouth(discretionary community tactics for swingers)

Now with recent events of late, we might see fewer pics up(of course thats mainly going to be from swinging socialers/forumites really), the rest of fab are quite unaware of the 'scene'

anyway, whats this thin black strip across the eyes meant to achieve while protecting the identity....might as well where a pair of specs and be like clark kent!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Would never ever meet without seeing face pics.

To anyone who thinks that's 'shallow' then I think they don't really understand the definition of the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never ever meet without seeing face pics.

To anyone who thinks that's 'shallow' then I think they don't really understand the definition of the word."

sounds a bit deep to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am shallow....so what !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have done it once and never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never ever meet without seeing face pics.

To anyone who thinks that's 'shallow' then I think they don't really understand the definition of the word."

Couldn't of said it better myself.....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Would never ever meet without seeing face pics.

To anyone who thinks that's 'shallow' then I think they don't really understand the definition of the word.

sounds a bit deep to me"

Boom boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about the excitement of the meet and where it leads to so I'm both I would meet with and without the pics prob more without as it could turn out to be even a better surprise

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"For me it's about the excitement of the meet and where it leads to so I'm both I would meet with and without the pics prob more without as it could turn out to be even a better surprise "
or your worst nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's about the excitement of the meet and where it leads to so I'm both I would meet with and without the pics prob more without as it could turn out to be even a better surprise or your worst nightmare "

Lol maybe but beggers can't be choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so those who meet without pics....do you never get embarrassed telling someone that things will not go any further cos they're fug ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so those who meet without pics....do you never get embarrassed telling someone that things will not go any further cos they're fug ugly?"

Been lucky not to have needed to say that but apart from a "nice" looking pic doesn't there have to be chemistry?? Certainly does for me anyway mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, people are people and we all have swinging in common, and generally have a better excuse than decide anyone is "ugly".

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"so those who meet without pics....do you never get embarrassed telling someone that things will not go any further cos they're fug ugly?

Been lucky not to have needed to say that but apart from a "nice" looking pic doesn't there have to be chemistry?? Certainly does for me anyway mate!"
yes i agree but why waste ur time meeting someone you may not even fancy the look of ..as i said earier if uve at least seen a face pic your half way to deciding if you want to play anyway ..as also after recent events around here ud need to be nuts to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh Dnt knw about recent events??? Maybe tht wud change my mind if I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so those who meet without pics....do you never get embarrassed telling someone that things will not go any further cos they're fug ugly?

Been lucky not to have needed to say that but apart from a "nice" looking pic doesn't there have to be chemistry?? Certainly does for me anyway mate!"

of course there has to be a chemistry...that wasn't what i asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so those who meet without pics....do you never get embarrassed telling someone that things will not go any further cos they're fug ugly?

Been lucky not to have needed to say that but apart from a "nice" looking pic doesn't there have to be chemistry?? Certainly does for me anyway mate!

of course there has to be a chemistry...that wasn't

what i asked "

Well I answered your question anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lolwhy would you warn them what got to do with you As you said you meet her and you did hit it off. Are you Brad Pitt"

Always a smart arse... I said it tongue in cheek...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lolwhy would you warn them what got to do with you As you said you meet her and you did hit it off. Are you Brad Pitt

Always one smart arse... I said it tongue in cheek... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do.we don't believe nice pics mean nice people.so we are quite happy to meet then make our decision"

Nice point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many fakes on here now to chance meeting someone with no pics 1st

auds x

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


"How many of you would actually arrange a meet without seeing a face pic ?

"

The way things are on here at the moment I wouldn't be 100% convinced even with a gallery full of pics, sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too many fakes on here now to chance meeting someone with no pics 1st

auds x "

I think a cam chat is prob the best way to go if you really do need to see the person as pics aren't always reliable, however there is still no obligation to take things further if you do meet without a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lolwhy would you warn them what got to do with you As you said you meet her and you did hit it off. Are you Brad Pitt"

Now getting wide PM's from this guy..nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to retract my comments on meeting with out pics after being brought upto speed on recent activities frm a very good friend I now would only meet after at least seeing a pic! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to retract my comments on meeting with out pics after being brought upto speed on recent activities frm a very good friend I now would only meet after at least seeing a pic! :D "

Think if there are horror stories then cam chat would be best.. I could easy send a pic of 'Brad Pitt' and claim it was me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to retract my comments on meeting with out pics after being brought upto speed on recent activities frm a very good friend I now would only meet after at least seeing a pic! :D "

Knew you'd see it from my point of view mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u can be chatting to someone and get pics, arrange a meet, turn up and the person waiting to meet you sure as hell ain't the one in the pic!!! not the first time i've heard of this happening...!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"u can be chatting to someone and get pics, arrange a meet, turn up and the person waiting to meet you sure as hell ain't the one in the pic!!! not the first time i've heard of this happening...!!! "
yes you can be a very rare occurance i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah you prob right, altho thats 4 times i've heard it, and one of them the woman used her grandaughters pic.... how the feck she thought she'd pull that one off is beyond me....lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to retract my comments on meeting with out pics after being brought upto speed on recent activities frm a very good friend I now would only meet after at least seeing a pic! :D

Knew you'd see it from my point of view mate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah you prob right, altho thats 4 times i've heard it, and one of them the woman used her grandaughters pic.... how the feck she thought she'd pull that one off is beyond me....lmao"

at least then you've an excuse to say "fuck off"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yeah you prob right, altho thats 4 times i've heard it, and one of them the woman used her grandaughters pic.... how the feck she thought she'd pull that one off is beyond me....lmao"
yeah well that sounds just plain stupid and they would be told not so politly to f**k off and be reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't report them out get angry about it when it happened to me. Just had a but of a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't report them out get angry about it when it happened to me. Just had a but of a giggle. "
predictive text sucks. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met twice without first seeing a pic....first time wasnt unpleasant but wasnt my type though we had a nice time chatting....second time blew my mind so guess it's swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't have face pics and guys just have to decide to take me as they find me and in that I often do the same though the guys are often keen to send there's first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it once

NEVER again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i know what u mean but i just think my time is precious as it is for everyone and id find it such a waste of time if there wasnt an attraction there where as if id seen a face pic beforehand id be half way there to making up my mind before attending .

I think face pics should be time coded lol.. I had a woman on this site from Fife send me her pic before a meet which was great.. What she never told me was the pic was about 15 years old so maybe time coded pics or cam rooms ar the best way to go... Needless to say I wasnt amused lol.. I also know she still uses the same pic and I wish I could warn her potential meets lolwhy would you warn them what got to do with you As you said you meet her and you did hit it off. Are you Brad Pitt

Always a smart arse... I said it tongue in cheek... "
Yes I am a smart ass I was making point I never slag a meet or a woman about looking How did you know it was a 15 year pic Bud Did she tell or did you just make the story up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it helps to reassure there is an actual person there as revealling a fac pic can identify you to people who may, albeit remotely, know you!! I wouldnt meet without a face pic but I wouldnt not meet just because I didnt feel complete attraction... there are other interesting bits to be looking at !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done that, didnt work , we knew who the couple were but they didnt want to know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, plenty of times and have no problems with doing again. Have always met in a public place so can walk away and no harm done.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Still surprised by how many are meeting without seeing a face pic

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

NEVER!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it once and was for a coffee meet to see how we got on, wouldn't do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NEVER!!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still surprised by how many are meeting without seeing a face pic "

Still surprised by how many are being fast and loose with their privacy by sending face pics over the internet to somebody they've never met.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Still surprised by how many are meeting without seeing a face pic

Still surprised by how many are being fast and loose with their privacy by sending face pics over the internet to somebody they've never met. "
Im not and never have only to those ive chatted to and know a while and are verified

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