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What do Scottish women on fab look for in an introductory message??

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By *cotsmanXx OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Perth

Been on fab a while now and know that women get hundreds of messages to their inbox. How does a guy get his message to stand out in the crowd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I'm not Scottish so can't answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on fab a while now and know that women get hundreds of messages to their inbox. How does a guy get his message to stand out in the crowd?"

Originality, wee bit of cheek, something that shows some personality.

If it's cheesey, total cringe or goes into graphic detail about wanting to impale me on your ragin stauner, then you can expect radio silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually make sure you've read bio first and reflect that in your message...but I do think it's just a numbers game regardless of what you write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm sticking with "fancy a fuck" it's only been 3 years, but someone will fall for it soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on fab a while now and know that women get hundreds of messages to their inbox. How does a guy get his message to stand out in the crowd?

Originality, wee bit of cheek, something that shows some personality.

If it's cheesey, total cringe or goes into graphic detail about wanting to impale me on your ragin stauner, then you can expect radio silence."

You liked it when I told you to feast on my wee Willie winkie....but pointed out it wasn't skinless.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like to see that they’ve read my profile, put my name at the start and mention something that’s of mutual interest. Don’t send me a message with the wrong name!

Guys seem surprised that we can tell when they’ve done a copy and paste message especially when they send the same one a week later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on fab a while now and know that women get hundreds of messages to their inbox. How does a guy get his message to stand out in the crowd?

Originality, wee bit of cheek, something that shows some personality.

If it's cheesey, total cringe or goes into graphic detail about wanting to impale me on your ragin stauner, then you can expect radio silence."

So don’t mention the raging stauner.

Right. Got that. Down boy!!

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Something that shows that there thinking with there brain rather than there cock all the time.

A decent thought out messages that's worthy of a response as 9 times out of 10 they won't get one because there message is crap

Also when looking at there profile Something about themselves rather than loads of cock pictures and a profile that states "Fill in later"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to check the profile before I even open a message, if that appeals and the message shows a bit of personality then I'm more likely to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your comfortable doing so a face pic that way its an easy aye or naw reply

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I try and message when the user is online. You're more likely to have your message read, than when they go online later and find loads of messages to sift through.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Banter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on fab a while now and know that women get hundreds of messages to their inbox. How does a guy get his message to stand out in the crowd?

Originality, wee bit of cheek, something that shows some personality.

If it's cheesey, total cringe or goes into graphic detail about wanting to impale me on your ragin stauner, then you can expect radio silence."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm sticking with "fancy a fuck" it's only been 3 years, but someone will fall for it soon. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel mate, some woman in there bios have requirements before you even message about your message then they message you with "hi" or "xxx"

Just be active in the forum's, show some personality and banter, there is loads of lovely people on here.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I try and message when the user is online. You're more likely to have your message read, than when they go online later and find loads of messages to sift through."

Genuine question. Does that work. 9 times out of 10 when I'm online I'm only dipping in and out of forums. I hardly ever check mails. If I do check them it's only when I immediately log in. Can then be on for hours but only reading forums.

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By *cotsmanXx OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Perth

Thanks for posting responses folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm sticking with "fancy a fuck" it's only been 3 years, but someone will fall for it soon. "

It’s the profanity that’s letting you down. Go with “ye wantin pumped? Hen”

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By *rP_TickleMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well those has indeed been ans education, both from reading the Ladies replies but also from the Gents comments.

It must be the face pic I send with my message the makes them hit the delete button. I should use a David Gandi picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 9"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with the lottery numbers for next weeks draw and ses how it goes from there

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes notes

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

The offer of a cup of tea and a chunky kit kat may sway me. Sometimes I prefer 4 fingers. Depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably an offer off chips or alcohol.

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By *ames88400Man
over a year ago

Travel

Stick with it , two years in and what's up sugar tits has so far got me a delete ??. Honestly though I think with the amount of us guys here a decent message and a bit of luck might get a reply with a face picture.

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By *cotsmanXx OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Perth

Happy to offer cups of tea, KitKat chunky and or 4 fingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm sticking with "fancy a fuck" it's only been 3 years, but someone will fall for it soon.

It’s the profanity that’s letting you down. Go with “ye wantin pumped? Hen” "

Ah! I will try that from now on, I will me knee deep soon enough

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