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By *aye_abz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alford

Any advice on how to react when you like and get chatting to people you already know outwith the scene? Nervous haha

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By *ack again100Man
over a year ago

Tamworth

I had a message from a woman, her profile had some lovely pictures of her body. The app said she was close, i didnt know how close. After a couple of messages were exchanged, she sent a face pic.....she lives 4 doors away from me..whenever i saw her outside she always had a frown on her face, hardly said a word to anyone.....i politely turned her down and eventually blocked her.....even now, she doesnt know we commented on each others bodies

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By *aye_abz OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alford

We’ve chatted to a couple we know but haven’t seen in person for a few years and just wondering about taken the plunge haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always keep the two separate to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had this twice now, chatted to people and then swapped face pics and known them! After the initial ‘oh gosh!’ it was fine….we’re all here for similar reasons. One couple we still talk to now and then but probably wouldn’t meet and the other we blocked. I suppose it’s entirely personal how you feel about them xx

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"We’ve chatted to a couple we know but haven’t seen in person for a few years and just wondering about taken the plunge haha x"

Some people like to keep this side of their life totally separate which is fair enough. To my mind if you get on with them and everything’s ethical (I.e. there’s not a scorned spouse been kept out of the loop who is going to turn up at someone’s door) then there shouldn’t be any issue. I find ‘meets’ are better when there’s more than just an initial spark, so if you’re already friends/acquaintances then that should only improve things.

As others have said, you’re both here for the same or similar reasons, so the embarrassment factor should be easy to get past.

My other half and I have met up with people we already know outside of here (totally unconnected to here) and there’s never been an issue.

It all comes down to communication and trust, I guess. For the trust part you should be able to gauge quite quickly what their approach to discretion is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd shit a brick

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By *piderxMan
over a year ago

west lothian

I spoke to someone on here we swapped pics i recognised her she didnt recognise me i had to tell her she went to school with my sister

Had a social and it went ok arranged to meet her at hers at the weekend for a very very sexy afternoon was hoping for more till she said i had to be away by 4 as her hubby was in from work at 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who they are really. I tend to live life without rules and just go by the vibes.

If everyone's happy with it and you're certain it won't cause problems then go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a colleague on here once, the swiftest block of all time

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know a few ppl on here but I would never say anything. I’ve got them on my hotlist!

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

I don’t send pics I meet blind so it’s even more fun in person lol

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Yeah it’s an awkward one. It’s happened to me a few times where the guy has sent a message, I’ve responded and received a pic in the following message that I’ve recognised. I never let on and just made some excuse about not being my type. Annoyingly 2 of them were attached and while I wasn’t friends with their other half, I did know them. Both also claimed to be single. Certainly made me see them in a different light

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By *larkandlois14Couple
over a year ago

Clydebank

Eh worst person we've came across on here is my brother and his missus. Quickly blocked

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

These threads are quite common

I've often thought has anyone read them and realised they're the one being spoken about

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"These threads are quite common

I've often thought has anyone read them and realised they're the one being spoken about"

Not this thread, but the “Awkward Silence” and “Simply not big enough” threads for sure.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Me too!

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