FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By *azzyA OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hi guys had a few messages on her but not having great luck.

I feel my profile is decent and clear

-and also make my messages well written and polite and don’t dick pic everyone unless their bio asks u to etc.

So any advice on profile or woman / couples what you like to see in messages that would make you read and reply ?

I get it may just be me ha. Also had to do clubs in Edinburgh as there is is non just now and Glasgow difficult for me to go to with commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys had a few messages on her but not having great luck.

I feel my profile is decent and clear

-and also make my messages well written and polite and don’t dick pic everyone unless their bio asks u to etc.

So any advice on profile or woman / couples what you like to see in messages that would make you read and reply ?

I get it may just be me ha. Also had to do clubs in Edinburgh as there is is non just now and Glasgow difficult for me to go to with commitments

Thanks "

Did you sneak into my house to take those scuddy pics on the stairs?

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By *azzyA OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ha just had a look and now wondering you snuck into mine. Not that I’d complain

Very very similar so I’ll say you have good taste in hime design

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads clearly to me sorry not really any advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to luck I think, tons more men than women on here, good bio though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha just had a look and now wondering you snuck into mine. Not that I’d complain

Very very similar so I’ll say you have good taste in hime design

Your bio reads well BTW. Stick with it

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over a year ago

Agree with the above advice OP, there’s lots of threads on it you can search mostly saying the same thing but engaging with people where you can is the best way whether it’s forums, social gatherings or chat. Men weigh outnumber women and to be honest I do think join thinking it’s gonna be a bit “instashaggy”

Good luck, you sound like a decent guy and your profiles fine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok man, if it was my page, which it is not, I’d take some bits out starting with the being dominant. I’d honestly say every female that I have met on this website over my two lengthy memberships who has told me about their experiences with self proclaimed ‘doms’ have been pretty negative about it. The dominant male role is so badly misunderstood by guys here, most seem to think being a dom is holding the female down, calling her a slut and fucking her in a manner they think is hard (key word there is think).

Chances are you may fully understand what the dom role is and be pretty effective at it but the chance of people seeing that on the page and putting you in with the rest who don’t understand it will be higher.

Also, you’re saying that you're happy to be patient in finding the right people but when you find them you’re after immediate meets (real life meets). That doesn’t read well as the second half doesn’t sound patient. Sounds a bit demanding and will be picked up.

Finally…now I know women do pick up on this, you have written you’re intelligent and that intelligence is big on your likes too….but mate, check your grammar and spelling. Seriously they do notice things like that.

Not being mean or snide, just my thoughts. Oh, also, don’t hold your boaby like a firehouse buddy

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over a year ago

"Agree with the above advice OP, there’s lots of threads on it you can search mostly saying the same thing but engaging with people where you can is the best way whether it’s forums, social gatherings or chat. Men weigh outnumber women and to be honest I do think join thinking it’s gonna be a bit “instashaggy”

Good luck, you sound like a decent guy and your profiles fine too

*way (damned autoINcorrect)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok man, if it was my page, which it is not, I’d take some bits out starting with the being dominant. I’d honestly say every female that I have met on this website over my two lengthy memberships who has told me about their experiences with self proclaimed ‘doms’ have been pretty negative about it. The dominant male role is so badly misunderstood by guys here, most seem to think being a dom is holding the female down, calling her a slut and fucking her in a manner they think is hard (key word there is think).

Not being mean or snide, just my thoughts. Oh, also, don’t hold your boaby like a firehouse buddy

I agree with most of this. However you have to be you. No point filling your profile with things you think people want to read if they aren't true.

The other thing I would say is the can't accommodate thing, I know it's wrong and a double standard, but it does tend to make some assume you're not single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be cool

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By *azzyA OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks for the advice guys I’ll have a play about and hope things pick up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice guys I’ll have a play about and hope things pick up

All the best chum, there’s loads of cracking fems and couples so I’m sure Itl go well

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