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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So fed up with fake females and time wasters

Is there any genuine females out there looking to meet a genuine couple. If so we looking to meet this Saturday

Laura xxx

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By *1.friendlygentMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always thought it's the other way round. Female is less time waster. But yes, dearer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine female here but I don't meet couples. Sorry. Good luck though x

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Join the club as this seems to be what most couples are looking for.

Maybe (just maybe) you aren’t what they’re looking for.

Just a thought

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually a female disguised as a male profile , honest.

What time you thinking of meeting. I only do pleasure on the female though, men are such cads don't you think Laura sweetie ?

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"So fed up with fake females and time wasters

Is there any genuine females out there looking to meet a genuine couple. If so we looking to meet this Saturday

Laura xxx"

Judging by the amount of single bi females I’ve met at cjs cpls and single females nights they do exist but more often they seek out couples rather than the other way around, a lot of them that I’ve spoken to over the years get sick of being a couples plaything as opposed to getting what they want it’s all about what the couples want and this puts a lot of them off from replying to messages, there was a time I used to have couples blocked because I’m straight and don’t play with attached guys knowingly

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife

It works both ways definitely. Look for the green flagged women. But as for the time wasters you will get that with anyone unfortunately, iv come across my fair share of time wasting couples also, it's just the way of fab and what works for some doesn't work for others

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By *atureGent58Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

The site is full of fake profiles both single male, single female and couples. Don’t get too despondent, just accept it and move on

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm a genuine female. Meeting couples is often my preferred option.

I very rarely arrange meets with unknown couples via Fab though, it tends to be through real life interaction in clubs/parties or introductions from other friends.

Sometimes it feels a bit like people think fab is the same as ordering a take away, you decide what you want, and when, and expect it to just arrive at your location with minimal effort. It doesn't work like that though, it takes time and effort.

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By *oxyFemme72Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

First social with a couple in a few weeks - wish me luck!

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

A lot of fake profiles on here..

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"First social with a couple in a few weeks - wish me luck! "

Hope it goes well for you, being with couples is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as many fake couples as there are fake females on here! And defi ne time waster.

I was branded a time waster and fake by a couple last week because I refused to come out and meet them at midnight, despite explaining I have young children at home. Too many couples feel single women are on here to serve their needs. It's a shame as I'm primarily on here to meet couples, I love the dynamic of joining, and of threesomes in general

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"Just as many fake couples as there are fake females on here! And defi ne time waster.

I was branded a time waster and fake by a couple last week because I refused to come out and meet them at midnight, despite explaining I have young children at home. Too many couples feel single women are on here to serve their needs. It's a shame as I'm primarily on here to meet couples, I love the dynamic of joining, and of threesomes in general "

this

I class myself as a unicorn so I'm happy to be there for their needs BUT there's definately a line and I get the huffy ones aswell that are pretty demanding that don't understand I have a life aswell. Or the ones that seem lovely and you have a conversation about a meet then my time is wasted as they only wanted to fantasies with each other about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on what you mean by “time waster”. If it’s someone who’s maybe ghosted you or hasn’t showed up to something that was already arranged then yeah that’s definitely shady.

If it’s someone who doesn’t wanna meet you after a few messages or in general then I don’t think they’re a time waster… They’re just not that into you

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There’s far too many fakes but it’s the nature of the world all over. People get a kick from it for some bizarre reason!

A couple of reasonable verifications should be a good starting point then take it from there.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ve just been messaged by a guy pretending to be straight woman. It’s so obvious it’s a man…..why bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the ones that chat and pretend they want to meet, and when the mention of arranging something they go quiet..

Lots of timewasters on here, sadly it'll never change

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By *e libertineMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Site is also full of couples/females who think its ok to be nasty to some single men no matter how respectful the message or compliment .

Yet when i had a couples profile the same people were all over us like besties .

A right eye opener indeed but its very hurtful too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a genuine bi women but I won’t meet couples out with a club now. I’ve had a few weird experiences and I like the safety of being in a club. Good luck with your search but remember it’s very daunting for a single girl to meet a couple alone. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So fed up with fake females and time wasters

Is there any genuine females out there looking to meet a genuine couple. If so we looking to meet this Saturday

Laura xxx

Judging by the amount of single bi females I’ve met at cjs cpls and single females nights they do exist but more often they seek out couples rather than the other way around, a lot of them that I’ve spoken to over the years get sick of being a couples plaything as opposed to getting what they want it’s all about what the couples want and this puts a lot of them off from replying to messages, there was a time I used to have couples blocked because I’m straight and don’t play with attached guys knowingly "

^^ this is very true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a genuine bi women but I won’t meet couples out with a club now. I’ve had a few weird experiences and I like the safety of being in a club. Good luck with your search but remember it’s very daunting for a single girl to meet a couple alone. x"

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone its more the chatting and arranging to meet and then disappearing couple of days before due to go ahead.

I previously had a singles female profile and never behaved like this we had someone last week tell us they were coming that night and failed to show

Laura xxx

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What do you think you've got to offer them

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around


"First social with a couple in a few weeks - wish me luck! "

You Don't need luck - but wish you all the best of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u know? What makes it obvious.


"I’ve just been messaged by a guy pretending to be straight woman. It’s so obvious it’s a man…..why bother! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm half of a couple meeting a guy next month for the first time and that's scary for us, so goodness knows how scary it would be for a female alone.

Since this is our first and its with a guy I've been very honest about it being purely for my woman and not about me or him. Best be honest I think.

Next time would be more for all three or four of us and not just about one of us. In that instance I would expect the same unless they specified otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll usually only meet people who are green tick verified and have verifications, there are far too many fakes/grifters on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u know? What makes it obvious.

I’ve just been messaged by a guy pretending to be straight woman. It’s so obvious it’s a man…..why bother! "

Looking for tips to make those other profiles look more authentic....surely not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pretend to be a woman but the beard gives it away.

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