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Liars and cowards and sissies, oh my!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might just be me, but can’t help but feel that over the last couple of years, a new form of male cowardice and abuse has started taking root within the fab community.

Whereas in the past it’d be the usual name-calling, body-shaming, stereotypical male abuse, I’ve been lately seeing men start an argue with another man or woman, selectivity misquote them out of context on something they’ve said in reply, concoct a brand new reality over that reply in a attempt to make the person look bad. From there if they are challenged on it, they fain innocence while acting super hurt by any challenge, and then run away and block others, spouting out further lies while they do so.

Anyone else seeing this or is it just me?

Okay, rant over, you may all get on with your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready "

Nah, doubt it’ll be that big of an attraction, maybe samples on a plate before moving on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Nah, doubt it’ll be that big of an attraction, maybe samples on a plate before moving on "

Give it time, it's still early!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Nah, doubt it’ll be that big of an attraction, maybe samples on a plate before moving on

Give it time, it's still early! "

I've definitely noticed an increase in the abuse my wife gets for not replying quick enough and refusing to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Nah, doubt it’ll be that big of an attraction, maybe samples on a plate before moving on

Give it time, it's still early!

I've definitely noticed an increase in the abuse my wife gets for not replying quick enough and refusing to meet."

That's been going on for a lot longer than a few years though x

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Nah, doubt it’ll be that big of an attraction, maybe samples on a plate before moving on

Give it time, it's still early!

I've definitely noticed an increase in the abuse my wife gets for not replying quick enough and refusing to meet.

That's been going on for a lot longer than a few years though x"

Yeah and it normally comes from the same negative sources. It’s put me off the forums on the whole.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Might just be me, but can’t help but feel that over the last couple of years, a new form of male cowardice and abuse has started taking root within the fab community.

Whereas in the past it’d be the usual name-calling, body-shaming, stereotypical male abuse, I’ve been lately seeing men start an argue with another man or woman, selectivity misquote them out of context on something they’ve said in reply, concoct a brand new reality over that reply in a attempt to make the person look bad. From there if they are challenged on it, they fain innocence while acting super hurt by any challenge, and then run away and block others, spouting out further lies while they do so.

Anyone else seeing this or is it just me?

Okay, rant over, you may all get on with your day "

This is definitely not a new thing it’s gone on for years .

Slinging around of insults between both parties .

Some are very good at manipulating what’s actually been said into something it never was in the 1st place .

I find ignoring the comments works well because you just know they are seething if they don’t get the reaction they want .

For many tho they will try and defend themselves and that’s when it decends into the usual forum arguments or debates as some like to dress them up as lol

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's been a lot of it since the new year. Some people seriously need to get laid.

Its become very popular in politics over the last couple of years, usually when people don't like the original point but can't refute it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely been happening for years

Cool beard

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not just males I hasten to add.

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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife

Sounds like my ex wife!!! ... Didn't know she was on here now.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready "

Can I have salted please with melted butter drizzled over . ( slobbering lips emoji )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might just be me, but can’t help but feel that over the last couple of years, a new form of male cowardice and abuse has started taking root within the fab community.

Whereas in the past it’d be the usual name-calling, body-shaming, stereotypical male abuse, I’ve been lately seeing men start an argue with another man or woman, selectivity misquote them out of context on something they’ve said in reply, concoct a brand new reality over that reply in a attempt to make the person look bad. From there if they are challenged on it, they fain innocence while acting super hurt by any challenge, and then run away and block others, spouting out further lies while they do so.

Anyone else seeing this or is it just me?

Okay, rant over, you may all get on with your day "

We need more info, give us the nitty gritty of who dug up your tatties to early. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Can I have salted please with melted butter drizzled over . ( slobbering lips emoji ) "

Anything for you m'dear! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just avoid Fab drama like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uh oh, popcorn at the ready

Can I have salted please with melted butter drizzled over . ( slobbering lips emoji ) "

I rarely notice anything. Here for the snacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve noticed it I was on the receiving end of abuse just the other night some people just like to try and bring others down to their own level

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might just be me, but can’t help but feel that over the last couple of years, a new form of male cowardice and abuse has started taking root within the fab community.

Whereas in the past it’d be the usual name-calling, body-shaming, stereotypical male abuse, I’ve been lately seeing men start an argue with another man or woman, selectivity misquote them out of context on something they’ve said in reply, concoct a brand new reality over that reply in a attempt to make the person look bad. From there if they are challenged on it, they fain innocence while acting super hurt by any challenge, and then run away and block others, spouting out further lies while they do so.

Anyone else seeing this or is it just me?

Okay, rant over, you may all get on with your day

We need more info, give us the nitty gritty of who dug up your tatties to early. ? "

It’s too much hassle to provide a full, blow-by-blow account of the entire situation, however I will give two words…

Gender politics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better to keep silent and let people think you are a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

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By *lirty_banter21Man
over a year ago

aberdeen


"Might just be me, but can’t help but feel that over the last couple of years, a new form of male cowardice and abuse has started taking root within the fab community.

Whereas in the past it’d be the usual name-calling, body-shaming, stereotypical male abuse, I’ve been lately seeing men start an argue with another man or woman, selectivity misquote them out of context on something they’ve said in reply, concoct a brand new reality over that reply in a attempt to make the person look bad. From there if they are challenged on it, they fain innocence while acting super hurt by any challenge, and then run away and block others, spouting out further lies while they do so.

Anyone else seeing this or is it just me?

Okay, rant over, you may all get on with your day "

I'm here with popcorn, but also to say props for the clever post title

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By *trapon1981TV/TS
over a year ago

Balloch / Dumbarton

Sissies?!

Where?!

What is the world coming to?

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By *appy 2 lickMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Is this about the tory party conference

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Not new ! Not surprising ! Not going to change

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