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"From the first time I ever had sex I have always been the one to control things while having sex. For a time now I want to be the one that is controlled, for a woman to tell me what to do, give myself to her, where she can peg me and be at her mercy. Any women out there that are up for this?" Probably | |||
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"From the first time I ever had sex I have always been the one to control things while having sex. For a time now I want to be the one that is controlled, for a woman to tell me what to do, give myself to her, where she can peg me and be at her mercy. Any women out there that are up for this?" Is this not simply what a female Dom is. ?  | |||
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"From the first time I ever had sex I have always been the one to control things while having sex. For a time now I want to be the one that is controlled, for a woman to tell me what to do, give myself to her, where she can peg me and be at her mercy. Any women out there that are up for this? Is this not simply what a female Dom is. ? "In answer to your question. No. Female lead relationships can be absolutely normal vanilla relationships like any other. It is just alien to the male prospective as it is not so common. Rather than the male take the lead which is the common socially conditioned attitude (man hunt, man bash woman on head with club, woman make babies, feed babies, clean house, make dinner) The roles can be reversed. Man looks after his wife's needs. She is all to him. Not a whip in sight!! Just a versatile relationship which most males cannot comprehend. Yet it is the strongest of men that take on this role of attention and care giver to there lady.  | |||
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"From the first time I ever had sex I have always been the one to control things while having sex. For a time now I want to be the one that is controlled, for a woman to tell me what to do, give myself to her, where she can peg me and be at her mercy. Any women out there that are up for this? Is this not simply what a female Dom is. ?
In answer to your question. No.
Female lead relationships can be absolutely normal vanilla relationships like any other.
It is just alien to the male prospective as it is not so common.
Rather than the male take the lead which is the common socially conditioned attitude (man hunt, man bash woman on head with club, woman make babies, feed babies, clean house, make dinner)
The roles can be reversed. Man looks after his wife's needs. She is all to him.
Not a whip in sight!!
Just a versatile relationship which most males cannot comprehend.
Yet it is the strongest of men that take on this role of attention and care giver to there lady. "I hear what your saying Amelia but the OP is not asking for the opportunity to share the women's role of domestic duties and child minding , he's asking for a woman to control him , basically dominate him , nail him from behind. I may be wrong but if that is the reverse of a man's role in a relationship he'd be branded an abusive partner, no way would that be classed as a man simply being a typically conditioned man's attitude or way of thinking. Hence the OP is looking for a controlling woman where he is a sub. In my opinion. | |||
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"Plenty of men say they want a woman who takes charge then when you do they don’t like it "I would then say they are wanting it but are still apprehensive. I'm not that kind of guy | |||
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"From the first time I ever had sex I have always been the one to control things while having sex. For a time now I want to be the one that is controlled, for a woman to tell me what to do, give myself to her, where she can peg me and be at her mercy. Any women out there that are up for this? Is this not simply what a female Dom is. ?
In answer to your question. No.
Female lead relationships can be absolutely normal vanilla relationships like any other.
It is just alien to the male prospective as it is not so common.
Rather than the male take the lead which is the common socially conditioned attitude (man hunt, man bash woman on head with club, woman make babies, feed babies, clean house, make dinner)
The roles can be reversed. Man looks after his wife's needs. She is all to him.
Not a whip in sight!!
Just a versatile relationship which most males cannot comprehend.
Yet it is the strongest of men that take on this role of attention and care giver to there lady.
I hear what your saying Amelia but the OP is not asking for the opportunity to share the women's role of domestic duties and child minding , he's asking for a woman to control him , basically dominate him , nail him from behind. I may be wrong but if that is the reverse of a man's role in a relationship he'd be branded an abusive partner, no way would that be classed as a man simply being a typically conditioned man's attitude or way of thinking.
Hence the OP is looking for a controlling woman where he is a sub. In my opinion. "I understand your reason for the statement abusive partner. But that is subjective and were consent plays an important role. All relationships are formed on the basic principles of bdsm, whether they are vanilla or not. Trust, respect and consent. Break the consent barrier yes it is abusive. Regarding the Ops statement and How I perceive it. They are always the one who initiates intimacy, they make the decisions. They, through consent, may have anal. Like I said previously. This isn't anything out with a normal vanilla dynamic where the male takes the lead. What the OP has indicated is that they would like to swap the role. I think the key wording is "be at her mercy". Which is no different to the opposite to be at his mercy. This still is not the _ases of wanting a Dom. Which is why I answered your question. The OP wants to swap roles and for their partner to take the lead in the bedroom. That isn't Domination. | |||
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