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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuinely not sure what advice to give the OH so throwing it out to the Fab masses.

She's been given a Xmas gift of a watch from a female friend / colleague. Not a cheapo or an expensive one but she doesn't like it .

What would you do, women's thoughts to front of the queue but all advice welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it to someone she doesn't like .. you like watches huh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First would be re gift to someone not in both circles

As you don’t want original gifter to see it and go I got so and so the same watch for xmas and they go ooo that same person gave me it as birthday gift

If that’s not a option google the vaule and re sale on eBay or something

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Keep it if she values her friendship. If it were me and I found out she'd passed it on or sold it I'd never give her the time of day again!

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it...

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

She could wear it once when on an outing with the friend then it goes in the back of a drawer or to a charity shop .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep it if she values her friendship. If it were me and I found out she'd passed it on or sold it I'd never give her the time of day again!"

Haha like what you did there. This is serious, no time for jokes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She could wear it once when on an outing with the friend then it goes in the back of a drawer or to a charity shop . "

That's what I said , only go out once or twice a year so it's not so bad I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it..."

No, not every day use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flaw in not telling her is that she thinks she has done good with the watch so next time it could be even worse..

I'd have the conversation and between us then surely we'd come up with a solution.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would keep it but only wear it when around the person who gave it to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it..."

Last time I buy you a dildo.

A year?

Your arsehole must be in fucking tatters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could tell her friend it's lovely, but I only wear this other watch because... whatever sentimental excuse works (ie. Gift from a deceased relative, anniversary present etc.) that the other person would understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re gift it to someone else or she could sell it to a pawn brokers x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

How likely is it that this was an unwanted gift in the first place that was handed on to your OH? Not sure how close her and this friend are, but doesn't really sound like they'd normally buy each other expensive watches.

Either way, I'd probably wear it once or twice when meeting up with this person to avoid any potential awkwardness x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How likely is it that this was an unwanted gift in the first place that was handed on to your OH? Not sure how close her and this friend are, but doesn't really sound like they'd normally buy each other expensive watches.

Either way, I'd probably wear it once or twice when meeting up with this person to avoid any potential awkwardness x"

Good point and possible it was a regift , will never know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely not sure what advice to give the OH so throwing it out to the Fab masses.

She's been given a Xmas gift of a watch from a female friend / colleague. Not a cheapo or an expensive one but she doesn't like it .

What would you do, women's thoughts to front of the queue but all advice welcome. "

You’ve given her a watch . Op she isn’t all that keen on it . Suck it up and if she decides to keep it or pawn it it’s the thought that counts . Maybe stop throwing yer money around

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By *erfume-LoverMan
over a year ago

Lothian area

Be honest with her friend ( I am sure receipt will have been kept )

Just say thanks but not my style- can I pick another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it back to poundies

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Could she say she’s allergic to the metal?

I’m allergic to nickel and watch straps often have nickel in them.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it...

Last time I buy you a dildo.

A year?

Your arsehole must be in fucking tatters."

Shush poor guy he's trying to keep it quiet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it...

Last time I buy you a dildo.

A year?

Your arsehole must be in fucking tatters.

Shush poor guy he's trying to keep it quiet . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her tattooed on each wrist. Left - a bit of squared sausage drawn on with the words I love meat below it.

Right - the face of the wee guy on Pringles cans.

Tell your friend that can't wear watches anymore cos it would hide your awesome tattoos. Panic over!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You’ve given her a watch . Op she isn’t all that keen on it . Suck it up and if she decides to keep it or pawn it it’s the thought that counts . Maybe stop throwing yer money around "

Appreciate the advice on looking after my finances bud but probably best you re read the original post .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get her tattooed on each wrist. Left - a bit of squared sausage drawn on with the words I love meat below it.

Right - the face of the wee guy on Pringles cans.

Tell your friend that can't wear watches anymore cos it would hide your awesome tattoos. Panic over!"

Good plan lol , unfortunately she's not into tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could she say she’s allergic to the metal?

I’m allergic to nickel and watch straps often have nickel in them. "

She wouldn't lie to her I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be honest with her friend ( I am sure receipt will have been kept )

Just say thanks but not my style- can I pick another one "

Possible option .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You’ve given her a watch . Op she isn’t all that keen on it . Suck it up and if she decides to keep it or pawn it it’s the thought that counts . Maybe stop throwing yer money around "
TBF she always loves the gifts she gets from me, Xmas morning when she opens her prezzies I can't wait to see what I got her.

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By *ancognitoMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

She should keep it and be thankful.

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there


"I'm assuming the gifter isn't expecting to see it worn each day?

I've been known to sit on a gift for a year or so, then regift it...

Last time I buy you a dildo.

A year?

Your arsehole must be in fucking tatters."

Pmsl

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