FabSwingers.com forum: Rude

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else find that guys get very very rude if you don't reply to their messages? I'm not always on here and i tell my male friend to not open my mails when he comes on it. i just got a third email and i just read his other two and he said glad you ignored my email. from your newest pics your not as hot as i thought you were. being who i am, a BUSY mother in a NEW flat with NO internet he knew i wouldn't me on ALL THE TIME. it just creams my corn when stuff like this happens. any one else get this?

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By *l_and_geeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

From what I read on other posts here and from chatting it seems sadly you are not alone.

The problem is that there are some perfectly polite guys here who don't throw the rattle out of the pram if they get ignored or are rejected and they get lumped in with the idiots.

Have heard it's the ones that keep pestering women asking why they were rejected that are the biggest nuisance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, you shouldnt be allowing someone else to use your account.

Im glad you said though…. Im sure anyone reading this that was on your friends list can now decide to remove you…..like me, I wouldnt want some unknown looking at private pics.

Take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men....i'm constantly getting pestered by women for sex !!!!

and then i woke up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I say to the guys that moan Grow a pair and get on with babe And if a guy is rude block him or tell him to shut it So any one finds me rude just say girls xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Your profile says ur not looking for single males so why not use ur filters and block them?...also as steve said no one should have access to ur account but u.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

wait till a couple or single female get knocked back.......

there is little difference to the reaction from the needy & self absorbed within all categories......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the male friend is one i meet with as a couple. he doesnt look at other peoples profiles other than a girl/couple i plan meeting with him. i dont have males blocked as i am setting up a meet involving single men.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Well ur profile says the complete opposit ... And as i said before no one should have access to your account but you no matter what the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a message like this:

"yeah read my message then delete it...Ugly bitch."

Gets all the ladies wet. what are they thinking! finite amount of lady-bits on this site and they all talk to each other. Honestly

Where would all us nice guys be without arseholes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where would all us nice guys be without arseholes?"

In hospital suffering from severe constipation i would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general I find most guys are really nice and polite! And only had a couple that took umbridge and started being rude at getting turned down... But hey ho shit happens, am I bovvered!!!!

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Have to say up to now apart from maybe 2 from months back, i dont think any guy is rude or has been rude - guess i wander around with blinkers on

I treat everyone as they should be treated and that is with respect, no i doubt i will meet everyone on here, but to gain friendships as well is a big thing as well.

Also no matter whether you were or were not meeting a couple and you gave access to your male friend your computer and account for here, i would be....well put it this way i utterly respect my privacy and wouldnt want someone looking in emails and pics and what not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, you shouldnt be allowing someone else to use your account.

Im glad you said though…. Im sure anyone reading this that was on your friends list can now decide to remove you…..like me, I wouldnt want some unknown looking at private pics.

Take care x"

Exactly i wouldnt want anyone seeing my pics its hard enough to trust people on here at the best of timesive had pics stolen in the past and used on xhamster after some sound advice from people on here im tight on who i let see my pics.

People being rude it happens on here not just singles but couples aswell swings and round abouts and all that , block and move on !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy have to remember that women get many more emails than they do. I think if you spend time with what you write introducing yourself will get a reply. The guys with the " fancy a fuck" I.Q are usually the ones moaning x I reply to every email but guess its hard to for ladies when they get 50 a day. Manners cost nothing though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of confused by your whole forum post. You say your looking for single men but not listed on your profile. So what are you actually looking for then???? and you actually say you are rude yourself and dislike rude men so why have a rant about it? Your profile actually makes me not want to contact you as I like to see politeness and a little respect for others. Very confusing one this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with Rikki.. You only attract what you give out. perhaps,re jigging your profile would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, you shouldnt be allowing someone else to use your account.

Im glad you said though…. Im sure anyone reading this that was on your friends list can now decide to remove you…..like me, I wouldnt want some unknown looking at private pics.

Take care x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to agree with Rikki.. You only attract what you give out. perhaps,re jigging your profile would help"
Rikki first answer or his second Answer I am confused now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to agree with Rikki.. You only attract what you give out. perhaps,re jigging your profile would helpRikki first answer or his second Answer I am confused now "

Ah can relate often confused....all of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to agree with Rikki.. You only attract what you give out. perhaps,re jigging your profile would helpRikki first answer or his second Answer I am confused now

Ah can relate often confused....all of it...

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I related to fancy a fuck he being reading my mail pmsl xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Is it just me or does anyone else find that guys get very very rude if you don't reply to their messages? I'm not always on here and i tell my male friend to not open my mails when he comes on it. i just got a third email and i just read his other two and he said glad you ignored my email. from your newest pics your not as hot as i thought you were. being who i am, a BUSY mother in a NEW flat with NO internet he knew i wouldn't me on ALL THE TIME. it just creams my corn when stuff like this happens. any one else get this?"

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

If you use your filters you don't need to recieve mail from men at all.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh, you are looking for males now...very confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to agree with Rikki.. You only attract what you give out. perhaps,re jigging your profile would helpRikki first answer or his second Answer I am confused now

Ah can relate often confused....all of it...

I related to fancy a fuck he being reading my mail pmsl xx"

Decorun please lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get it all the time, guys think your obliged to meet them if youve meet a couple of site, ive meet about 6 guys in 3yrs and last guy got spoke to on here got really cheeky cos i knocked him back and starting calling me allsorts of names. hate when they go like that, just proves i was right to refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had that so I pit on my profile if I don't reply its coz I am not interested I also give guys access to my pics if we arrange a meet but if we don't meet I take them off my friend list n they get abusive I was subjected to horific racial abuse because I didn't meet a guy he called me a monkey lover I reported it to fabs n he got kicked off but that said I have met a lot of nice single guys aswell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

online communities such as these attract all sorts - as rude people exist offline so it goes they do also online!

best to ignore / report / block. they'll soon get the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

since i posted this iv changed my password. my male friend has moved abroad. he previously had a profile and no one was interested in meeting him and i as a "couple" like that. i've been on and off here due to arse holes being over possessive and getting bored with the same old messages. never have i ever felt so insulted after chatting FRIENDLY with males. im not an emotional woman but im more often than not BUSY.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"since i posted this iv changed my password. my male friend has moved abroad. he previously had a profile and no one was interested in meeting him and i as a "couple" like that. i've been on and off here due to arse holes being over possessive and getting bored with the same old messages. never have i ever felt so insulted after chatting FRIENDLY with males. im not an emotional woman but im more often than not BUSY."

if you have been on and off here, you will know what to expect then. it doesn't change and can be tough for females, the sheer volume of attention they get.

however, from my experience the more they moan about it, rant about it, and give it out...... the more they attract

when females are the subject of repeated crap on here, let downs, no replies on updates for meets..... some need to sit down and take a think that it 'could be more about THEM, than the guys'

all the best for the future

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So in the space of three days your friend has decided to move abroad ?

Ah well good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all seems a tad strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So in the space of three days your friend has decided to move abroad ?

Ah well good luck. X"

Convenient.... Opps I ment handy isn't it(!?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have been on and off here, you will know what to expect then. it doesn't change and can be tough for females, the sheer volume of attention they get.

however, from my experience the more they moan about it, rant about it, and give it out...... the more they attract

when females are the subject of repeated crap on here, let downs, no replies on updates for meets..... some need to sit down and take a think that it 'could be more about THEM, than the guys'

all the best for the future"

Is that not the same line of argument that blames women who wear sexy clothing of being to blame when they get raped?

Sorry but in my book there is no excuses for rude behaviour. Doubly so for the brave laptop warriors out there sitting with their yfronts around their ankles sending out abusive messages.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you have been on and off here, you will know what to expect then. it doesn't change and can be tough for females, the sheer volume of attention they get.

however, from my experience the more they moan about it, rant about it, and give it out...... the more they attract

when females are the subject of repeated crap on here, let downs, no replies on updates for meets..... some need to sit down and take a think that it 'could be more about THEM, than the guys'

all the best for the future

Is that not the same line of argument that blames women who wear sexy clothing of being to blame when they get raped?

Sorry but in my book there is no excuses for rude behaviour. Doubly so for the brave laptop warriors out there sitting with their yfronts around their ankles sending out abusive messages."

no actually it is not...... because not all is as it seems at times on here...

a rape is never acceptable, ever.........

a few silly females getting hooked on the attention they get on a site like this, playing guys for fools, winding them up with numerous profiles and huffing and puffing because guys don't jump like performing seals when they shout...... and a few don't know the meaning of the word the TRUTH.

so it is hardly similar.

granted there are fools in all categories.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and I don't mean the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

he'd moved a while ago i only heard recently. i didnt post my rant for judgement i posted it to see if anyone else had the same. not wanting attention wanting to know other have had the same. its like likes of snootie women and pushy guys iv been on and off. in hope it had SLIGHTLY CHANGED i came back.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"the male friend is one i meet with as a couple. he doesnt look at other peoples profiles other than a girl/couple i plan meeting with him. i dont have males blocked as i am setting up a meet involving single men. "
no wonder people are confused by your post here you say the male is one you say u meet with as a couple ..then u say he moved a while ago ..so bit of contradiction going on ..but again good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost.com ...who likes ham ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lost.com ...who likes ham ???"

only with mayo lol...lost.com too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

freeking tasty with mayo lol this thread tbh is pointless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good a food thread lol

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