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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Often see, "message before friend inviting us".

We all know why that happens.

Do you have a process of helping you decide if friend listing is safe to do?

Is it if, like what they convey via messages?

Simply recognise they have mutual friends already?

Or simply like look of them?

Or strictly only after actually met them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ditto!!

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

same here

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

ditto.

to me - friends list is simply a list of peeps that I have either met/hope to meet or had good chat banter with or hare interests(interests being either vanilla or fab related.

but - as with life in general - friends come and go for a variety of reasons - so it is that friends lists get occasionally pruned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said, and yes a good prunning now and then is defo needed, cut away all that dead wood..(so to speak)!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think after a few days of correspondence regular messaging it is fine to accept a friend but also do asking they are ok with sending one. But yes do have a clear out now and again of those who dwindle in background or find they are only on once every 6 weeks as I think what's the point

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I usually only add once some chat has gone on and there is an intrest by both parties.

I have a few list of friends

(1) fridnds in chat

(2)friends ive met at socials

(3)friends i meet socially

(4)playmates

If for any reason the connection stops then i usually offer the option to try and remain friends or delete

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By *ex n MusicCouple
over a year ago

Perth

We like to get to no peepz first...n that's wot a friends list is all about surely??

Ma Bro always says....

"We have friends for 3 occasions...

Friends for a reason....

Friends for a season....

and friends for life....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ditto.

to me - friends list is simply a list of peeps that I have either met/hope to meet or had good chat banter with or hare interests(interests being either vanilla or fab related.

but - as with life in general - friends come and go for a variety of reasons - so it is that friends lists get occasionally pruned.

"

Agree, just the pruning bit i dont share the need to do that, never close doors on folks who may be too busy with other swinging things or because not heard from in ages, do tend to do it only if they turn out to be un-friend like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only folk on our friends list is that,we want them to see our faces.

Have met

Or want to meet.

Auds x

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