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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So if you arranged a social to go for few drinks to go out for the night and you got there and the guy/woman was already d*unk what would you do? Would you be offended? Would you stay and go ahead with the social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave. Suppose you could put it down to nerves but they've made fuck all effort in my book. So my arse would be straight out the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd leave. Suppose you could put it down to nerves but they've made fuck all effort in my book. So my arse would be straight out the door."

This. It would really put me off and possibly leave me feeling a bit unsafe

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Been there, make excuses and leave.

Not worth the hassle.

It might be a case of nerves on rheir part, but it shows a total lack of respect for the they are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely not a good sign if they are d*unk when you arrive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most normal people would leave ASAP. The repercussions of what could happen if you stay could be lifechanging for either the male or female and whether your the sober or d*unk party. Only a predator in my opinion would continue with the meet under these circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay for half hr be polite then say sorry need to leave.

Totally disrespectful.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We met a guy at his room in a hotel. Had a previous social and he was fine. Turned up at his room and he was already d*unk. He then downed a full glass of wine in a couple of minutes. He got more d*unk.

We told him he was too d*unk and left. We paid for half the room as we’d agreed to do that but probably shouldn’t have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd walk away, fast. That would make me feel very uneasy. The whole point of a social is to see what they're like sober, not paralytic x

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Call her a taxi before going offski

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nope I wouldn’t stay

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would leave and give him a flea in his ear about being disrespectful.

Oh and probably block his sorry ass!

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By *auliewalnutsMan
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

I’d love to say ‘fuck off your pished’ but in reality I would stay for a very short time to make sure they are okay to get hone safely then I would message them saying that for their well-being and yours you didn’t appreciate them being d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would definitely leave as no effort put into meeting if they already d*unk lol

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By *sa and HarryCouple
over a year ago

motherwell

We arranged to meet a couple at ours and the female was d*unk, she stated that its the only way she could play,Sent them packing within 15 minutes of arriving.

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

If someone was d*unk for a social meet I'd be happy enough to chat with them but wouldn't ever consider play.

I understand why people would be very annoyed when they make arrangements for childcare etc, and spend time and effort to look good and smell good when meeting new people only to be let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone was d*unk for a social meet I'd be happy enough to chat with them but wouldn't ever consider play.

I understand why people would be very annoyed when they make arrangements for childcare etc, and spend time and effort to look good and smell good when meeting new people only to be let down.

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Yeah as bad as being stood up (or worse in some ways!)

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By *allFromGrace_xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I rarely drink so I’d be more than annoyed.

I think if they have arrived first and ordered a pint or a glass wine while waiting I’d be ok, but if they were d*unk then I’d just leave for a million diff reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely drink so I’d be more than annoyed.

I think if they have arrived first and ordered a pint or a glass wine while waiting I’d be ok, but if they were d*unk then I’d just leave for a million diff reasons."

*sneakily hides his three empty beer glasses and flings 3x airways into his gub..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pure fun when I’m d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink... sober sex is so much better

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’d be extremely annoyed if they were d*unk especially if I’ve taken time to get ready and meet them.

I’d stay for a drink and then leave but they’d know that I wasn’t happy.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I would turn and walk out the door.

It is just rude.

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By *sed2b_luckyoneMan
over a year ago

Alyth

Nope I’d leave. No effort shown. Different if you end up d*unk together but nerves isn’t an excuse.

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By *koggs71Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Turn around and go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just rude..

Make my excuses and leave

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By *un300CoolMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

It depends how d*unk . If having a drink was on the cards for the night and maybe had a couple before meet I wouldn’t shoot them down maybe just nerves. If I turned up and looked as if been out all day then a different story .

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Very easy to go from a couple to ease the nerves to d*unk.

For a social we’d probably stay for a bit and chat, then make our excuses and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i agree on sober sex being better, however a few years ago I did drink because of nerves and once we got to hotel I wasn't fit for anything. He was a gentleman and took me home. We laughed about it after and went on to have a second meet that was great but I felt like a complete idiot lol

Never happened since

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

We've got a code, for escaping when a social meet isn't going to work for one of us.

Unfortunately Louise forgot, and got it wrong, so I was left wondering whether she wanted to go through with it or not.

The couple were far from what we expected as far as the photos and chat went, to the point of having been downright dishonest, but we couldn't get time together to use the code again!! We were in their house!

In a panic, I found the answer.... In a massive glass of rum, with a tiny bit of , which did the trick! Sex was utterly impossible!

Needless to say, I managed to scrape her out and we escaped

We laughed all the way home. And have changed our code to something we can use twice, or more.

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Happened to me I arrived at that couple's house.

They were both wasted and the pictures they sent me was them 10 yeard ago...

I politely said I am sorry I feel terribly uncomfortable I have to leave...

Left I was really think what if they had a bad reaction to me leaving...

D*unk at a meet not for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave as fast as possible. To turn up d*unk is really not great and doesn't ßhow respect for the person you are meeting.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

A quick 'exit stage left' would be the order of the day.

And if on this site, block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats got danger written all over it the issues of consent blur and the consequences of that are life changing.

I don't drink so know my limits and respect others and certainly d*unk meets are out

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By *atureGent58Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would politely excuse myself at the earliest opportunity. If I’m meeting someone I would hope that they didn’t need to be d*unk to go through with a social meet. A social meet for me is to ensure that there is a social and physical attraction on both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I would say something has come up but can we reschedule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not under there own control, so silly things can and will happen, leave no deferred meet, simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word leave

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Peterborough, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

As someone who rarely drinks, I don't enjoy the company of d*unks at the best of times. A glass or two of wine over the course of a social is fine but not d*unk.

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

One thing I’ve found over the years, cock and alcohol don’t mix. Alcohol equals Mr Floppy, so of no utter use to anyone.

I’d politely make my excuses, and go find another meet.

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I turned up at a ladies house a few years ago to find her very d*unk. I had a coffee to be polite then left.

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I'd leave. Suppose you could put it down to nerves but they've made fuck all effort in my book. So my arse would be straight out the door."

This.

Tipsy you could understand for nerves maybe but d unk? Nah.

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Sorry but i'm out of here, Pissed and out their head on drugs, few times on here

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Definitely a no go.

We always say to people who we chat to not to drink too much alcohol as booze and adrenaline of the meet with potential fun can at times be the wrong mix.

Don't get us wrong a wee drink together is fine but to be passed is not a thing we are into personally.

Happy New Year to you all by the way folks.

Holly and Darren XXX

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Walk away from it.

Alarm bells jumps to mind

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

Is this consensus on fab? Omg.

I too would be leaving if someone turned up d*unk or stoned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like there is a broad consensus, yes. I guess miracles do happen

But yeah, I too would certainly not be progressing with anything sexual. I'd probably stay for a bit and ensure they are ok and can get home safe, and possibly suggest we reschedule for another day depending on the situation. Could be nerves gettting the better of them, so I'd make sure it doesn't scare them off meeting forever either.

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By *ussmuncherMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Exit.. No excuse for that, totally disrespectful!

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By *othardandfreeMan
over a year ago

dd


"I’m pure fun when I’m d*unk. "

Best quote of the thread.

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By *randmrsG123Couple
over a year ago

Port Glasgow

we have had a few to get over nerves before going to our first ever meet and when going to CJs for the first time but not to the extent where we where pissed. It doesn’t help performance and we are about to have a great time…….. we wana remember it!

Never went to a meet and the person has been pissed but i’m following the advice from here and we would politely leave!

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

would leave and tell the person why lm leaving

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Drink can make people do daft things that could end up in disaster so it's not for me...I don't like being around d*unk people as it is if I'm sober let alone having a social with someone I don't know.

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