FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship/Date Sites

By *illers71 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am or have been on every date sight over the last few years. This is as good a place as any in a forum to ask, is it possible to find a perfect partner on here? Sure I am happy on my own doing what I want when I want but I want everything.

Happy Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am or have been on every date sight over the last few years. This is as good a place as any in a forum to ask, is it possible to find a perfect partner on here? Sure I am happy on my own doing what I want when I want but I want everything.

Happy Sunday "

I'm surprised no one's answered!

Why shouldn't you meet a potential partner here? I've worked out dating sites arem for me - I seem to attract people who I definitely don't find an immediate attraction to and to those that state in their profiles on dating sites are a cover up for "adult fun only".

Here on Fab, people seem to be upfront about such things from the onset.

There's a few threads on relationships, finding love here in perhaps the lounge forum. Good luck OP - I'm sure you'll find your ideal mate here!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Happy Sunday "
cupids arrow can strike anywhere even here.

I've saw a few relationships work and others where they are all loved up one week and wanting to kill each other the next & all very publicly too lol .

Just do your own thing OP and if your lucky enough ul find someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find love anywhere. All it takes is to bump into the right person.

While I'm hoping to find my happy ever after I doubt very much ill find it here or on an online dating site

I'm in the too fussy, not pretty and very much been type cast as only good for fun.

That said I've seen plenty of people meet the one on here and on apps.

You just never know!

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No-one is perfect

We are 1 of many couples I'm sure that have met through fab OP, & almost 2 1/2 years are still going strong. Our relationship always comes 1st before swinging ..... in fact we maybe aren't great swingers these days

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure I am happy on my own doing what I want when I want but I want everything. "

Ah man I don’t want to be the bad guy here but this last sentence throws up a red flag for me.

It is possible to meet someone here and fall for each other, ofcourse it is. But you have to remember that this is a casual sex/ hookup/ swinging website and if you’re the type that gets jealous, clingy or too full on (which that last sentence screams) I can’t see a fem on here accepting it unless they have severe issues themselves

Remember buddy you can’t force love, it just arrives into your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Sunday "

From personal experience no. I don’t think fab is the place to form relationships past a friendship and sexual level.

That said, I’ve seen plenty of relationships formed but I’d assume way more start and end. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theoretically fab should be the best place to find the one - no other site let's you explicitly list your menu of sexual desires I such a blasé almost by the way nature - it's fantastic. Finding someone who openly shares the same sexual interests as you is giving you the best foundation ever. You'll never have to be coy and keep things to yourself as she/they/he will already know what you want as you told them upfront. Tinder, POF etc is full of mentalists in denial that they even want a shag, I find it very bizarre and have no intention of beating about the bush with them! Fab all the way!!!

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

There are 7 billion humans on the planet statically speaking you have a 1 in 7 billion chance of find the one.

A 1 in 4 billion chance if you are looking for someone of the opposite gender who is the one

FAB averages 32,000-35,000 online individuals at any time.

Say other dating sites have a similar amount.

You get maybe 1 in 500,000 change of meeting the one.

So what do people do. Meet the 70% of the one. Or the 50% or the one or the that'll do....

Not sugar coating this. But even those who are tuned into each other still will have areas of "nope can't do it".

But humans are very good at conversation, commitment and compromise.

What am I getting at.

Yes you might find someone. They might be almost the one.

But firstly you have to be happy in yourself because you may have to live with yourself for along time before you meet that one.

(Far to deep for a sunday)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much chance of finding a relationship on here as a dating site. In my experience the same men are on both. Fab single on the dating sites too sadly. Probably same for the ladies, on both in the hope of finding true love or easing the horn

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking of this too. Would be nice to meet someone I click with sexually and be more than fwb. Dating sites seem to be such a cover up for people essentially wanting hook ups but refusing to acknowledge that is what they are after!

All I want is honesty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I want is honesty!! "

Fab is not the place for that though. As above I think you can meet people anywhere but unless your absolutely mentally solid, fab will always let the green monster in.

For example, you message your new sweetiepie, he/she (other genders are available) reads it, doesn’t reply. Could be anything, could have been in the shower, meeting at work etc…but you also see he is online on here. Boom, in comes the jealousy, insecurity, suspicion and the cracks open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I want is honesty!!

Fab is not the place for that though. As above I think you can meet people anywhere but unless your absolutely mentally solid, fab will always let the green monster in.

Honesty doesn't equal exclusive! I don't mind open or poly relationship, as long as there are no lies I don't mind if he is talking/with other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a partner on here two years ago and it lasted just shy of a year. However I do know of some couples who got together on here who are still together x

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