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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, im from Aberdeenshire and been on here for years now, in that time ive had only one meet. Im respectful and try and make messages conversation starters but yet my sent items list is a mass of yellow. Are there any other sotes people use to meet others or is this about the only one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to piss on your cornflakes here buddy but the issue isn’t going to be fixed by trying a tinder or the old AFF. You'll be missing a step with regards to who you're messaging or what you are saying in them.

Add a bit of humour to your profile, take away the back again header and get along to one of the Aberdeen socials.

There’s plenty people to meet here and to be honest, if I can have success being as bang average as you can get, you can too chum. Just make a few changes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont think thats what it is but taken it off. My messages arent even read and my profile isnt viewed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile will be getting viewed buddy, the messages probably read and then marked as unread. Most fems hide their profile views.

There’s a local social in a week or so, pop to it chum

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

I'd also suggest, if a lady has a wall of yellow in her inbox, your message needs to stand out, maybe try something different for your profile pic. At the moment I wouldn't say your pic stands out...

And in the 4 sentences in your profile you have used the word "try" 4 times... Maybe "try"ing to hard...

Maybe try refreshing that too and as above says, get along to a social and get some more veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My input, and this is just me, I can't speak for all women on fab.

Don't post moany/whiny status, like the one you have now!

Hide your veri and the summary, it is old, doing you no favours either.

Remove your 2016 pics and add new ones, no crotch or cock pics public. Put some different shots up, straight on, in joggies, maybe a suit or if you're a workie some hi-vis. Upload new ones every now and again so you appear on the local updates. As right now the only updates people see is your uninviting status updates.

Your written description is also too vague and generic, input some hobbies or interests both normal and sexual, what are you attracted to? maybe a fantasy or two? make it enticing.

When you message a girl always read the profile, if you don't fit what she's looking for don't bother, if you do then reference this in your opening message and attach a recent face pic!

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