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No means no and a bit of a rant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people not take no for an answer and continually harrass you or give you abuse when you politely turn them down? They wouldn't try and force themselves on someone in a club so why is it any different on this site? My profile clearly says straight yet I get the same guys messaging me when iv repeatedly told them no I'm not interested and then you get abuse and dick picks sent. People saying oh it's a shame your not interested but basically they will still send you loads of pics and ask over and over and give you abuse for turning them down. I feel sorry for the woman on here because I can only imagine it's worse for them than it is for us guys. If you told so.eone no in a club and the whipped their dick out they would be jailed but on here they think its cool to just send cock picks when you clearly tell them your straight and ot interested. On top of that the amount of fake profiles is unbelievable, people should be pic verified before they can message anyone to stop the fake profiles. It takes no time atall to get pic verified... sorry about the rant everyone just thought I'd voice my thoughts. No means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can filter out guys from messaging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re correct OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people are dicks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I do that? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely, I feel for all the woman who will need to go through this daily on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

100 percent

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How do I do that? Thanks "
go to your account and click on privacy settings and block all men from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give them the chance to continually harass you. Block 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said on here, you can block men from messaging you. I'm surprised men still don't know about this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I do that? Thanks go to your account and click on privacy settings and block all men from there "

It's account then message filters honey x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How do I do that? Thanks go to your account and click on privacy settings and block all men from there

It's account then message filters honey x"
ops I obviously ment message filters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I do that? Thanks go to your account and click on privacy settings and block all men from there

It's account then message filters honey xops I obviously ment message filters lol "

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Tell them you are gonna do a Liam Neeson and track them down, then shag their granny while they watch.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely, I feel for all the woman who will need to go through this daily on here "

I know man I know, they need all the feels they can get. Perhaps if you apologise on behalf of all the single men, the fems might fall at your feet….I’m sure that’s worked before…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell them you are gonna do a Liam Neeson and track them down, then shag their granny while they watch.

Works for me "

Someone rippin the heid aff it right now to that scenario, I bet you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people not take no for an answer and continually harrass you or give you abuse when you politely turn them down? They wouldn't try and force themselves on someone in a club so why is it any different on this site? My profile clearly says straight yet I get the same guys messaging me when iv repeatedly told them no I'm not interested and then you get abuse and dick picks sent. People saying oh it's a shame your not interested but basically they will still send you loads of pics and ask over and over and give you abuse for turning them down. I feel sorry for the woman on here because I can only imagine it's worse for them than it is for us guys. If you told so.eone no in a club and the whipped their dick out they would be jailed but on here they think its cool to just send cock picks when you clearly tell them your straight and ot interested. On top of that the amount of fake profiles is unbelievable, people should be pic verified before they can message anyone to stop the fake profiles. It takes no time atall to get pic verified... sorry about the rant everyone just thought I'd voice my thoughts. No means no "

As suggested, if there is no reason for you to be interacting with men on here then block them.

Other than that, welcome to the club. Folk can be utterly fuds and Fab is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...... and breathe

Yea as some of the good ladies on here said above.. block.. some sadly wont take no for an answer..

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Tell them you are gonna do a Liam Neeson and track them down, then shag their granny while they watch.

Works for me

Someone rippin the heid aff it right now to that scenario, I bet you...."

Tell yer man to put it away then

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Been there before.. you say no, thanks.. you get abuse or dick pics.. till I been told to filter out, game changer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate I get the same.These millions of fake profiles and mad weirdo guys fuck it for us genuine ones. Most woman on here get pestered non stop with mad mentooo kunts. Been with woman and she showed me 300 messages ! Anyways just block the guys mate . And hopefully out the bullshiters and fakes. Enjoy

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Problem on here is that is so many kids, most can't read and just like to look at pictures

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By *atinagirlWoman
over a year ago

Over The Rainbow Next to the Pot of Gold

I’d definitely change your message settings as suggested before and block them .. hope that helps

You shouldn’t be getting that nonsense xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea that and old weird guys who kid on to be woman to get dick pics. Strange behaviour innit. But suppose you can check verf and that and block and move onwards and upwards ( hopefully)

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Same as BI guys who say straight on profile till tell them want Bi guy then wow all of a sudden their bi!!!!

(Rant over lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I even have 'straight' in my name and I still get constant bj offers. I mean I am flattered haha but not for.me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Managed to block single guys. Never knew you could block them all from messaging or it would have been done ages ago... cheers everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there was me feeling all special and irresistible to men only to find out they're cheating on me with you

Some guys just have no class!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people not take no for an answer and continually harrass you or give you abuse when you politely turn them down? They wouldn't try and force themselves on someone in a club so why is it any different on this site? My profile clearly says straight yet I get the same guys messaging me when iv repeatedly told them no I'm not interested and then you get abuse and dick picks sent. People saying oh it's a shame your not interested but basically they will still send you loads of pics and ask over and over and give you abuse for turning them down. I feel sorry for the woman on here because I can only imagine it's worse for them than it is for us guys. If you told so.eone no in a club and the whipped their dick out they would be jailed but on here they think its cool to just send cock picks when you clearly tell them your straight and ot interested. On top of that the amount of fake profiles is unbelievable, people should be pic verified before they can message anyone to stop the fake profiles. It takes no time atall to get pic verified... sorry about the rant everyone just thought I'd voice my thoughts. No means no "

Just make sure you reply to every polite message .

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