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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what is everybody's idea of a good social/ meet?

Mine is going out for a nice dinner couple of drinks and just genuinely relaxed banter lol

Love to make people laugh

But what is yours xxx

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it doesn’t involve a cabaret then I’m not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee (other hot beverages are available) and a bit of cake for me.

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By *he Man On The MoonMan
over a year ago

ek

Sounds good to me.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just depends when we are both free .

If its daytime maybe coffee or lunch ,if its evening then food & drinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One day I'll find the woman that I can just sit in get a take away and we feel comfy watching Harry potter movies haha xxx

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ideally I want mind blowing amazing animalistic sex but failing that I guess a coffee or drink will do.

As long as there’s good conversation and a few laughs thrown in I really don’t mind what we do or where we go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ideally I want mind blowing amazing animalistic sex but failing that I guess a coffee or drink will do.

As long as there’s good conversation and a few laughs thrown in I really don’t mind what we do or where we go. "

I think we all want that but all have to settle for less that our fantasy's haha or at least I do xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a forest meet anyway as discussed elsewhere on the forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting absolutely hammered in a pub until we both throw up before being kicked out then staggering to the nearest hedge for a nap where we both lay in the spooning position smelling of spiced rum and poor life decisions. Always the most romantic of evenings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a forest meet anyway as discussed elsewhere on the forum!"

Yeah I seen that one lol

Getting twigs in your ass and all that lol

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven


"Coffee (other hot beverages are available) and a bit of cake for me. "

Yup...likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee social is a good start x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is everybody's idea of a good social/ meet?

Mine is going out for a nice dinner couple of drinks and just genuinely relaxed banter lol

Love to make people laugh

But what is yours xxx"

One that involves a follow up at a later date for fun.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Coffee is plenty for a first social. Means I’m not stuck there for too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee is plenty for a first social. Means I’m not stuck there for too long. "

Single expresso then ?

X

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By *riti PearWoman
over a year ago

Paisley

Coffee or a drink. Get to know each other and lots of flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee or drink in a pub or cafe.

No dinner or lunch or cinema thats a date.

I don't do dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee or drink in a pub or cafe.

No dinner or lunch or cinema thats a date.

I don't do dates "

You should try it sometime

You might enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee chat and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee, or a movie and snacks bliss

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Coffee, chat, possibly lunch - see how it goes.

Last one was just a chat over coffee, 8 hours later we parted with definite plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee or drink in a pub or cafe.

No dinner or lunch or cinema thats a date.

I don't do dates

You should try it sometime

You might enjoy it"
I do all the time..with my husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A coffee somewhere public and central, hopefully involving cake.

Nice and relaxed, good chat, laugh, flirt but no pressure.

Then arranging something more private and a hell of a lot dirtier at a later occasion if the socials gone well.

That's the ideal. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to the cinema or out for an evening meal on an initial social meet with a new person. It feels to intimate, cinema lacks interaction, and I've the found that the more intense an initial meet is the more expectations there are for more afterwards (from personal experience)

I'm not looking for a date, I'm looking to test attraction and connection before we consider being sexual.

However I've previously made friends on Fab which involved socialising in different scenarios, and I've met people at group socials and gone on to have amazing sex that same night so nothing is ever set in stone and I always respect others preferences and boundaries.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I couldn’t even find the coffee place the last time I met a new good friend. Didn’t seem to matter too much as it turned out. Nor should it.

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